Wow this is my first time on here reading some of these blogs, i have to admit i think that there is alot of bashing coming from both directions. Men and women are all different, however i also feel that someone who is always fishing for a compliment isnt attractive. That and the compliment will never be genuine if you have to go out looking for it. Thats just my opinion
Wow this is my first time on here reading some of these blogs, i have to admit i think that there is alot of bashing coming from both directions. Men and women are all different, however i also feel that someone who is always fishing for a compliment isnt attractive. That and the compliment will never be genuine if you have to go out looking for it. Thats just my opinion
Hey LB I simply don't buy into any woman complaining about "lack of chemistry." She can't get a date because she wants a guy with money, looks, and status. She "won't settle" for anything less. So she stays single.
And by the way, every time you compliment someone, you lose power. So choose your compliments carefully.
Hey LB I simply don't buy into any woman complaining about "lack of chemistry." She can't get a date because she wants a guy with money, looks, and status. She "won't settle" for anything less. So she stays single.
And by the way, every time you compliment someone, you lose power. So choose your compliments carefully.
Hey LB I simply don't buy into any woman complaining about "lack of chemistry." She can't get a date because she wants a guy with money, looks, and status. She "won't settle" for anything less. So she stays single.
And by the way, every time you compliment someone, you lose power. So choose your compliments carefully.
Hey LB I simply don't buy into any woman complaining about "lack of chemistry." She can't get a date because she wants a guy with money, looks, and status. She "won't settle" for anything less. So she stays single.
And by the way, every time you compliment someone, you lose power. So choose your compliments carefully.
Sometimes very pretty girls are lonley, I have friends that are drop dead beautiful but men don't approach them for fear of being rejected. and people don't tell them they are beautiful thinking they know that already....which is not always the case. some of them don't see themselves as pretty. and who does not like a compliment, I always compliment both Men and Women when I think they have a nice smile or a lovely face, or even a nice body. and it isnt always the girls being PICKY, So many Men are too, they describe what they want, [and not all of them would really be a good match for what they want in a woman.] I think Lauren is a beautiful girl, and it maybe that whoever has contacted her didnt have CHEMISTRY with her, Not all of us are desperate for just any man, but when you know they are right for you, you just do. I have had emails from some very nice men, I have replied to some, and some I have meant to reply to but was busy or deep into contact with someone else, [not only romanticly] Lauren and others have a right to want what they want, but like some of you men " don't always get it." We also all have EGO"S and there is nothing wrong with having a little ego boost now and then. everyone deserves one. I just wish more people would make more posts on my blogs. because I love a good conversation. and humor. Please Guys dont Browbeat her, she is a sweet girl.
Sometimes very pretty girls are lonley, I have friends that are drop dead beautiful but men don't approach them for fear of being rejected. and people don't tell them they are beautiful thinking they know that already....which is not always the case. some of them don't see themselves as pretty. and who does not like a compliment, I always compliment both Men and Women when I think they have a nice smile or a lovely face, or even a nice body. and it isnt always the girls being PICKY, So many Men are too, they describe what they want, [and not all of them would really be a good match for what they want in a woman.] I think Lauren is a beautiful girl, and it maybe that whoever has contacted her didnt have CHEMISTRY with her, Not all of us are desperate for just any man, but when you know they are right for you, you just do. I have had emails from some very nice men, I have replied to some, and some I have meant to reply to but was busy or deep into contact with someone else, [not only romanticly] Lauren and others have a right to want what they want, but like some of you men " don't always get it." We also all have EGO"S and there is nothing wrong with having a little ego boost now and then. everyone deserves one. I just wish more people would make more posts on my blogs. because I love a good conversation. and humor. Please Guys dont Browbeat her, she is a sweet girl.
Hey Lauren what do you expect? You come on here stating that you're bored and that you want guys to re-inforce that you're "pretty." Some guys--like me--are gonna dislike that. Most people don't want to hear a young white girl lamenting her dating woes. Most men know that any woman--especially a young one--can have just about any man that she wants, provided that she's reasonably attractive and isn't fat. You can even have various issues, and men would deal with them.
The dating odds are so stacked in a young woman's favor to begin with. So when I see or hear a young woman complaining, it's just feels silly and superfluous to me. It's almost like a millionaire who cries and complains about not being happy. Please!
In my opinion, you have some self-esteem issues. Why else would you need others' approval? Why do you need men to be your "mirror, mirror on the wall" and depend on them to tell you that you're hot? To a guy like me, a young girl needing to be told that she's attractive is very unappealing. I prefer women who are confident, or, at the very least, act like they need NOBODY to tell them how attractive they are. In this day and age of feminism, I'm surprised your mom or your friends or your aunts didn't brainwash you into thinking that you need no man to fulfill your life.
Quoting lauren_s26:
Wow I have not been on here in a while and when I do come back its only to see how my profile has turned into a bashing me type of thing. You would think you guys being older would be a little bit more mature.
Quoting lauren_s26:
Wow I have not been on here in a while and when I do come back its only to see how my profile has turned into a bashing me type of thing. You would think you guys being older would be a little bit more mature.
Hey Lauren what do you expect? You come on here stating that you're bored and that you want guys to re-inforce that you're "pretty." Some guys--like me--are gonna dislike that. Most people don't want to hear a young white girl lamenting her dating woes. Most men know that any woman--especially a young one--can have just about any man that she wants, provided that she's reasonably attractive and isn't fat. You can even have various issues, and men would deal with them.
The dating odds are so stacked in a young woman's favor to begin with. So when I see or hear a young woman complaining, it's just feels silly and superfluous to me. It's almost like a millionaire who cries and complains about not being happy. Please!
In my opinion, you have some self-esteem issues. Why else would you need others' approval? Why do you need men to be your "mirror, mirror on the wall" and depend on them to tell you that you're hot? To a guy like me, a young girl needing to be told that she's attractive is very unappealing. I prefer women who are confident, or, at the very least, act like they need NOBODY to tell them how attractive they are. In this day and age of feminism, I'm surprised your mom or your friends or your aunts didn't brainwash you into thinking that you need no man to fulfill your life.
Hi Lauren, hope your luck changes soon. I just joined the other day and just checking out all the ways to contact people. I love your picture and it looks to me like you've done that before.LOL Have a happy new year
Hi Lauren, hope your luck changes soon. I just joined the other day and just checking out all the ways to contact people. I love your picture and it looks to me like you've done that before.LOL Have a happy new year
Wow I have not been on here in a while and when I do come back its only to see how my profile has turned into a bashing me type of thing. You would think you guys being older would be a little bit more mature.
Wow I have not been on here in a while and when I do come back its only to see how my profile has turned into a bashing me type of thing. You would think you guys being older would be a little bit more mature.
Hey ArlingtonTexas my personal opinion is, she's just being a girl!
In her earlier blog, she declared that she was "bored" (impressive way to reach out to a guy, right? LOL)and outright asked for men to validate her appearance ("Am I pretty?") And several men replied that she was--but she never responded to any of those comments--which, to me, means that she wasn't really interested in meeting anybody; she just wanted an ego boost.
It's no secret that women LOVE attention--they're used to it. And they get tons of it via online dating sites. Today's woman can just simply post up a profile with a few self-cell pics and sit back and enjoy the game of being pursued. Part of that enjoyment involves rejecting men, i.e. decrying the "players" and "age liars" "height-and-weight liars" and etc. I'm sure you've seen the type of online profiles that from the outset convey a "laundry list" of requirements, i.e. what they WON'T SETTLE for...these womens' profiles read like a Christmas wish list--they want this and that, and rarely do they convey what they can offer a man.
Simply put, being "picky" makes a girl seem like she's better and prettier and more valuable than most other girls. It's all about ego validation, in my opinion.
Men are arrogant=egotistical Women are picky=egotistical
Same difference.
Even an ugly or fat girl can fancy herself picky. Because whenever an ugly or fat girl rejects a guy, she outwardly feigns regret ("Why can't I just find a nice guy who makes me laugh!?"), but in my opinion, she inwardly feels great! She feels a sense of ego validation. ("I turned him down because he wasn't good enough for me, because I'm important.").
Quoting ArlingtonTexan:
good comment from hotprodude...yeah, if someone is having problems who looks like lauren does (very nice) than perhaps there is another issue going on.
Quoting ArlingtonTexan:
good comment from hotprodude...yeah, if someone is having problems who looks like lauren does (very nice) than perhaps there is another issue going on.
Hey ArlingtonTexas my personal opinion is, she's just being a girl!
In her earlier blog, she declared that she was "bored" (impressive way to reach out to a guy, right? LOL)and outright asked for men to validate her appearance ("Am I pretty?") And several men replied that she was--but she never responded to any of those comments--which, to me, means that she wasn't really interested in meeting anybody; she just wanted an ego boost.
It's no secret that women LOVE attention--they're used to it. And they get tons of it via online dating sites. Today's woman can just simply post up a profile with a few self-cell pics and sit back and enjoy the game of being pursued. Part of that enjoyment involves rejecting men, i.e. decrying the "players" and "age liars" "height-and-weight liars" and etc. I'm sure you've seen the type of online profiles that from the outset convey a "laundry list" of requirements, i.e. what they WON'T SETTLE for...these womens' profiles read like a Christmas wish list--they want this and that, and rarely do they convey what they can offer a man.
Simply put, being "picky" makes a girl seem like she's better and prettier and more valuable than most other girls. It's all about ego validation, in my opinion.
Men are arrogant=egotistical Women are picky=egotistical
Same difference.
Even an ugly or fat girl can fancy herself picky. Because whenever an ugly or fat girl rejects a guy, she outwardly feigns regret ("Why can't I just find a nice guy who makes me laugh!?"), but in my opinion, she inwardly feels great! She feels a sense of ego validation. ("I turned him down because he wasn't good enough for me, because I'm important.").
good comment from hotprodude...yeah, if someone is having problems who looks like lauren does (very nice) than perhaps there is another issue going on.
good comment from hotprodude...yeah, if someone is having problems who looks like lauren does (very nice) than perhaps there is another issue going on.
I agree HPD, something isn't right with her statement...? A 26 year old woman who says she's hot... Might be issues? Try air conditioning and some pineapple coconut rum mixed with orange juice mix then add some testosterone laced with a dose of estrogen and then voila! Everything changes right before one's eyes...
I agree HPD, something isn't right with her statement...? A 26 year old woman who says she's hot... Might be issues? Try air conditioning and some pineapple coconut rum mixed with orange juice mix then add some testosterone laced with a dose of estrogen and then voila! Everything changes right before one's eyes...
Not having much luck on here. How about anyone else?
How tough is it for a freaking 26-year-old white girl to snag a man?
I can recall at least 2 guys on these blogs fostering you with accolades, spewing adulation about how beautiful you are and how they oh-so-would-love to date you.
Are you super picky?
Or maybe you have a tail or something?
If you really want a guy, Lauren, just go doll yourself up next Saturday night and visit the swankiest club in town. You'll have plenty of middle-aged rich men lined up, ready to buy you a drink and spew you an abundance of accolades.
Quoting lauren_s26:
Not having much luck on here. How about anyone else?
How tough is it for a freaking 26-year-old white girl to snag a man?
I can recall at least 2 guys on these blogs fostering you with accolades, spewing adulation about how beautiful you are and how they oh-so-would-love to date you.
Are you super picky?
Or maybe you have a tail or something?
If you really want a guy, Lauren, just go doll yourself up next Saturday night and visit the swankiest club in town. You'll have plenty of middle-aged rich men lined up, ready to buy you a drink and spew you an abundance of accolades.
Lauren I have had fun on this site for a number of years and there really are some very nice and genuine men who contribute. There are also all of the types you do not want and I have had winks etc. from the gamut of males available. Initially I was not comfortable with the online thing and missed a lot of fun opportunities to meet men, but now I know there are some really worthwhile guys around and even in my own neighbourhood. I seem to have enjoyed political debates and other alternative lifestyles to those I was seeking, but each man has brought a wealth of new information to me and so I would say keep going, there will be someone to connect with if you try hard enough.
Lauren I have had fun on this site for a number of years and there really are some very nice and genuine men who contribute. There are also all of the types you do not want and I have had winks etc. from the gamut of males available. Initially I was not comfortable with the online thing and missed a lot of fun opportunities to meet men, but now I know there are some really worthwhile guys around and even in my own neighbourhood. I seem to have enjoyed political debates and other alternative lifestyles to those I was seeking, but each man has brought a wealth of new information to me and so I would say keep going, there will be someone to connect with if you try hard enough.
Lauren....unless your into sniffing out testosterone, you probably won't find it on the blogs. LOL Good thing I'm not looking...just here for the laughs and the friends.
Best of luck to you sweetie...don't give up just yet!
Lauren....unless your into sniffing out testosterone, you probably won't find it on the blogs. LOL Good thing I'm not looking...just here for the laughs and the friends.
Best of luck to you sweetie...don't give up just yet!
Hardly. I haven't been on here long and I have read a lot of profiles. There are many women that have interesting profiles that actually have substance about what they want, they just haven't logged on in a while. But, unfortunately im finding more and more that just have a few common things: want a good time, want to be spoiled, and the guy has to be hot with money. seems the nice girls are getting outnumbered. I thought there would be more in this place...
Hardly. I haven't been on here long and I have read a lot of profiles. There are many women that have interesting profiles that actually have substance about what they want, they just haven't logged on in a while. But, unfortunately im finding more and more that just have a few common things: want a good time, want to be spoiled, and the guy has to be hot with money. seems the nice girls are getting outnumbered. I thought there would be more in this place...
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