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  • Why Some Younger Women Like Older Men Younger women often enjoy the company of older man for a variety of reasons. A very common reason that many women turn to older men is that these men are more mature than the men their own age. Women mature faster than men and therefore want to be with a man who is closer to them in maturity level. Women do not want to date a man who would rather play computer games then spend time with her. This is not a problem with an older man. Some women, an...

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Desire and Truth Posted on Oct 30, 2011 at 11:14 PM
A good looking older lady is a cougar and a good looking older gentleman is a silver fox. Just curious of what everyone thinks about two simple questions..... 1. What is it about and age gap relationship that turns you on physically and mentally? 2. The truth to any age gap relationship is that over time, one will be taking care of the other in a more parent child relationship.Will that still turn you on? If you’re only attracted to people considerably older or younger and it’s their age you’re attracted to and not their personality, it may be worth talking things over with a counsellor or therapist.
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The life we choose Posted on Jun 14, 2011 at 11:15 PM
In life we should live as who we want to be. It is best not to hide who we truly are because in the end the thing that matters is we have led a life which makes it a life worth living
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How Does Society View Older Women and Younger Men Dating? Posted on Sep 07, 2010 at 02:59 AM
Known as May-December romances, it is no longer just men who choose to date members of the opposite sex who are younger. The playing field between the sexes is becoming more level and women are choosing to do it as well as it becomes more and more socially acceptable all of the time. Many women reach an age where they find that men their own age are too old for them and so they look to younger men who are generally more open to try new things and who are passionate and enjoy having fun. Older women are surer of themselves and of their place in the world and they are sexy, attractive and confident. As well older women tend to be settled into their careers and are in touch with who they are and the direction they are going in and this makes them more appealing to younger men who may not be as established or settled in their own lives just yet. Bridging the age gap often depends on the two people involved. While situations may be similar, no two are exactly alike. Be aware that the larger the age gap, the more problems you could potentially run into. Everyone has their own personal gauge for who is too young or too old for them to date. Some people say that a four to nine year age difference is fine but once you pass the double-digit age gap you are in uncharted and risky territory. In this case you may find that you have more differences than you care to have. Compatibility is really the key as well as mutual trust and respect. Once considered taboo and very controversial by society’s standards, more and more women are dating young men and loving it. Actress Demi Moore led the pack in Hollywood and she never apologized to anyone for her choice to date younger actor Ashton Kutcher. Madonna’s hubby is ten years her junior and these two stars are only the beginning of a new trend in dating. May-December romances where the woman is senior in age, are not just blossoming in Tinsel town but are becoming a reality everywhere you look. Men dating younger women was always the norm but now women are seeing the advantages of being with a younger man. The silver screen is now catching onto this up to date trend in dating patterns as evidenced by the recent movie “Prime” in which an attractive, divorced 37 year old career woman played by Uma Thurman, falls for a man 14 years her junior, much to the chagrin of his mother, who also happens to be Uma’s therapist, played brilliantly by Meryl Streep. Regardless of how society views the May-December romances when it is the woman who is older and not the man, after all is said and done, it really comes down to a matter of personal choice and does the other person want the same things out of life as you do. Love never conforms to logic or to any perfect standard and therefore we can never know for sure who will catch our eye and who will not.
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Why Some Younger Women Like Older Men Posted on Sep 07, 2010 at 02:11 AM

Younger women often enjoy the company of older man for a variety of reasons. A very common reason that many women turn to older men is that these men are more mature than the men their own age. Women mature faster than men and therefore want to be with a man who is closer to them in maturity level. Women do not want to date a man who would rather play computer games then spend time with her. This is not a problem with an older man.

Some women, and in particular those who have an absent father, look to an older man as a type of father figure or mentor. This is often a mutually beneficial arrangement for both parties involved. A woman will receive guidance and gain more life experience from being with an older man while the older man gets to feel that he is powerful and is looked up to by the woman.

Men who are mature also tend to be worldlier and more self-confident as they know themselves better, which is something that attracts younger women. Older men are more experienced sexually but tend to have less of a sex drive but many women find that the lovemaking with an older man is completely fulfilling to them, as older men are better at listening to the needs of a younger woman than a man their own age tends to be. Not being as drive by testosterone often makes older men better in bed than younger men, according to some women. Older men often view pleasure in a different light than younger men and are more concerned with the woman’s pleasure as opposed to their own. This makes them very appealing to younger women.

Older men tend to be more steadfast and stable and are generally more established and settled in their chosen careers than are younger men. The security that comes from being financially viable and well established is traits that tend to draw younger women to older men in droves. An older man is no longer in college or struggling away at a low paying job but is secure and generally doing well at his profession.

Women like the chivalry that older men often show and they like the fact that older men tend to have more respect for them and they are polite and have manners. Women like men who know how to be men. In today’s society many young people are delaying growing. Most women want to be with men who are responsible and can stand on their own two feet and are able to support themselves and take care of themselves without their mother’s help. Most women do not want a man who is supported his parents. That is why many younger women seek out the company of an older man.

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