Very recently, I met someone very special on another dating site. I live in Los Angeles, and he is a 31 year old career Army man in North Carolina. Since we met, the texting, chats and phone calls have been regular and frequent. We share a lot in common and while there is mild flirtation through all mediums, we are mostly talking about how our day went and things we would love to do together. He even told his twin brother about me.
So a few days ago, he started talking about coming to see me, and when I asked him when, he said he was targeting December. If that sounds vague, you have to realize that this man does exactly what he says he's going to do. If he says he's calling at 6 PM, that's when I will hear from him. One time, he texted me to ask if he could call earlier.
There is no doubt in my mind that he will visit me, but I'm just wondering if I should sleep with him when he flies across country to see me. Do all these phone calls, texts and chatting count as dates? Right now I know he's seeing me as relationship material, or he would not have told his brother. I hate playing silly girl games, but I also want to make sure he is challenged enough to want to see me again, if that makes any sense. You'd think that someone of my age would know all the answers, but I want to do this right because I really like him, and see him in my life for a long time.
A really sweet guy in my area responded to me today with an email, so I assume he is a paying member. We used to be able to respond to emails with another email if the paying member initiated the contact, but no more! What am I supposed to do???....Send him a WINK after he so thoughtfully emailed me? But I'm not paying since I belong to 2 cougar sites that are free! .....or write to me again and tell me where you walk the dog...LOL There are only 2 that I know of that are free, one of whom is run by a charming Englishman named Oliver. I wonder if they'll censor this...hmmm. Anyway, I'm so out of here folks!