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Posted on Apr 20, 2012 at 06:23 AM

First on line experience a complete horror show.  Im concerned for the kind people out there that are vulnerable.  Let me say-this guy was a MASTER con artist, Im pretty intelligent, and he had me, thank God my red flags went up so I was only hurt a little.....



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Posted on May 21, 2012 at 05:55 PM

Did you ever post his name and where you encountered him so that you can warn others of his modus operandum?  We like to look out for one another here and try advise others as well as admin if there is a complete scammer on the prowl


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Posted on May 11, 2012 at 04:21 AM

Bellatina, I must say I truly liked Zonkers reply to you, and Its true what he says. the scammers always seem to put in their profiles or email that they want a "God Fearing Woman" and they go off on a tangent. But there are really genuine men on here, Im sure they will find you, and what you mention about the men in their 40s and 50s wanting young or athletic women, well they can wish can't they! funny enough the ones that state that, that is what they want usually look a lot older than 40 or 50 and have beer bellies Lol! I am happy to hear that you are also Curvy, I am too, Not fat, but I also have an hour glass figure, Men usually love women that have this kind of body, so don't be shy, there are of course some that only like tall skinny women, and I am sure they can find lots of them. Dont worry about that, I get emails from young men under 25 telling me that I am sexy, I am sure you do too, so put on some pictures, you looked very pretty in the ones you had up before. I know its hard, I was Married for 20 years, so I know how it feels starting out again, But you have friends here already, I am one of them. Pick yourself up, Dust yourself down....and start all over again. Be easy on yourself, laugh at, and report all the scammers, and go and search to find someone nice, meanwhile keep on blogging, laughing, and loving who you really are. litenbrite :))


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Posted on May 05, 2012 at 08:58 AM

Hi, been reading all the comments and relieved to see I am not the only one attracting fakes, was starting to think there was something about my face or profile that made me a target!



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Posted on May 04, 2012 at 01:45 PM

Please litenbrite-enlighten me.  Like I said, so far I have had about 25 hits, and they have all been "fakes."  I don't understand.  The one guy on this site that wasn't really my type but seemed really sweet even blew me off because I said I wanted to start as friends.  Hey, I was with my husband for 15 years before he died-maybe Im a slow learner... And on another site...all the guys in their late 40's and 50's want some one "athletic and toned."  Hey-deja-vu-Guess what guys?  Not every 50 year old woman is going to have wash-board abs.  Can you remember when Marilyn Monroe was considered the sexiest woman alive?  She was a size 14 and had curves in all the right places (my shape is very similar-and no Im not bragging-because in todays society, Marilyn would be considered FAT.  UGH!!!!!!   



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Posted on May 03, 2012 at 02:16 PM

I think that they target new people on the site, I had a load of them to begin with, its funny now I can smell a rat a mile away, They always seems to say that they want a god fearing woman. But don't you let them run you off, and give up, Put your picture back on at least until your membership runs out, so many decent men would love you. :)


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Posted on May 03, 2012 at 01:51 PM

You look amazing! And my pics are gone because I won't be renewing my membership.  You are probably the only person that has genuinely kind.  My experiences, both were scammers that target widows.  How people can be so f-kn cruel is beyond me.  Stay young lady, whatever you're doing is working!!!!!



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Posted on May 02, 2012 at 10:50 PM

Nice to see a new Blogger Bellatina65 where did your picture go? you look too good not to have one. Some of these Agencies can get the age wrong, I actualy looked at one of these and looked up myself, they had me as 5 years older than I was. So they may be right to a point but not always precise as human error can be involved it only needs a wrong human click and its in a computer system. and once it is, Its one hell of a job to get out. even if it is not correct. I am sure quite a few men lie about their age on here as some say they are 50 and look 70 but there again they may have had a hard life. some though are 70 and look 50. I am Ageless with a few laughter lines LOL!


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Posted on Apr 30, 2012 at 06:16 PM

Yes, Yes, Yes, and it lasted a long time, and we are still in touch, but not romanticaly. and there are others that are friends.and making friends is worth a lot. The scammers have left me alone for a long time. Hope you start getting some genuine people, there are lots of them on here.


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Posted on Apr 30, 2012 at 03:16 PM

Ok friends...Now here is the 2nd person on this website that I have been corresponding with.  I googeled his name and went on "Spokeo" which will give the name and the age of the person, providing you give the town and state.  There is a person by the name he goes by in that town, but it is a 73 year old man.  Am SO discouraged.  Has anyone had a good experience on this site????.  



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Posted on Apr 29, 2012 at 06:38 PM

I feel for you and absolutely know  about scammers.  Having been stupid enough to send money to one of these loving guys, I know how they work.  Curiously my scammer lived in "London" too but because his English was not good, I figured he came from somewhere else viz. Lagos, Nigeria.  When I investigated my "lover", it turned out he was a Nigerian scammer and if you research more, you will find it has been a way of life for over 200 years.  Good luck and stay away from people who will not live chat.


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Posted on Apr 22, 2012 at 02:31 AM

Yes its nice to find someone that isnt too full of himself. I like to see a picture and make up my own mind on wether they are "Hot" or not. sometimes people get a little boastfull when they are nervious, But alot of people also like someone with confidence in themselves.


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Posted on Apr 21, 2012 at 02:04 PM

And is it me?? Or does EVERYONE say they are VERY HOT and GOOD LOOKING???  To me, modesty is the sexiest trait in a man. Does ANYONE agree?????



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Posted on Apr 21, 2012 at 12:37 AM

I definately did report him and did my own researching and background checks.  This guy said he lived in London when he was really only a couple hours from me.  I did a reverse phone look up.  This guy has a decade of scams, all from stereo equipment scams to on-line scams.



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Posted on Apr 20, 2012 at 09:49 PM

Did You report him to support, they get rid of scammers fast, and it prevents them messing up anyone elses emotions.


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Posted on Apr 20, 2012 at 07:45 AM

What happened, was he on this site???


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