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Posted on Aug 26, 2010 at 03:32 AM

do you find the right person?

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Posted on Sep 28, 2012 at 02:19 AM

Repairman Jack, I completely agree with you, and it is a great compliment to your late wife that you want to seek out another right person for this stage of your life. I think you have the perfect attitude to find her too. Litenbrite :-)


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Posted on Sep 20, 2012 at 12:35 PM

repairman jack

I'm only referring to the issue of blokes who've met and married the woman who they'd told was the one and then had a family of their own then walk away from that marriage for whatever reason.In which case those blokes shouldn't then be able to end up in competition with single never married blokes who are looking for a young single girl who is looking for a bloke to have a family with.

The result of that is often the type of situation that has brought me here as a single never married bloke who's still hoping for just one chance in life to have a wife and family having seen more than one single girl prefer to give that chance to a married/seperated/divorced bloke instead who's already had the chance to have a wife and has had a family with her and then gets another.

In my case if it had been me who found myself,in that situation,of those married/seperated/divorced blokes,I'd tell such a girl that it's only right that she gives that chance to a single bloke because I'd had mine.

I don't know your own search criteria and it's none of my business but those morals would also apply in my case in the event that I'd been widowed and assuming that I'd been left with a family of my own and in which case,if I then decided to start again,I'd just be looking for a woman of around my own age or at least one who isn't looking to have a family.Which would at least help those single blokes who are still hoping for that chance in life to have a young wife and family of their own considering the numbers problem concerning available young single girls regardless of the age issue.

But if you think it hurts to go without those pleasures in life which you've described after a sad loss I can assure you that it hurts at least as much when you've had to make do in life without those pleasures from day 1 and never had the chance to have an ordinary family life with a wife and family and will probably leave this world alone and childless because married/seperated/divorced blokes wanted more than one chance in life and often got it.


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Posted on Aug 29, 2010 at 05:38 PM

Oh, I was sure you were going to give great answers..! Thank you all so much for sharing your thoughts. See you around ;)

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Posted on Aug 27, 2010 at 02:57 PM

All you need is one "right person". That's the one you'll keep. If you had past relationships, it means that the person you thought was "right" turned out not to be one. It just took longer to figure it out. Or that you weren't right for him. Perhaps it was really close. And before you find that person all the persons you get to know are potential candidates to be "right person". How many potential candidates do you find? Depends on who's available on a site like this one and on how open minded you are. If you have a very narrow set of expectations it may take a while to find such person.

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Posted on Aug 27, 2010 at 11:15 AM

If I found the right person, I wouldn't be here. All kidding aside, the right person is always there, but the "right" person does not mean life mate, but rather the right person at the right time to be part of my life as a friend or more.

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Posted on Aug 27, 2010 at 07:04 AM

Once and once should be more than enough chances in life.However we've got a world in which too many people seem to think that it's ok for some blokes to have as many chances as they want in life while other blokes get none.

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Posted on Aug 27, 2010 at 02:02 AM

Claudia, I think I might have. on the other hand I could have dreamed that I did, but since I have prophetic dreams it is definatly on its way. Love your blogs Claudia.

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