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Posted on Mar 03, 2007 at 08:21 PM

The funny thing about the culture created by the internet is that given anonymity many people will openly pursue purely sexual encounters.This is fine of course within reason. What makes this site interesting is that there is an almost unspoken air of such sexual pursuit. One must consider that if someone is seeking out a "age gap" relationship that part of the motive is the fact the something about and older/younger person is sexually attractive. So where is the line drawn between this and the desire for something meaningful? I bet some of you aren't even sure since you may not know your own motives going in. When it comes to men, they will have sex first and think about why they wanted it later. NO offense but lets get real!

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Posted on Sep 22, 2007 at 11:47 AM

your right guys settle for sex and i mean settle its all we expect if lucky .your mind comes later and thats when we fall in love and just want to hold and kiss you protect you ,its just a guy thing don't be angry with us . i have talked to a woman in ny state, alaska and essex your worse than us really , but hey every wave has a different shimmer and each is as beautiful as the rest , just a guy jim

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Posted on Sep 16, 2007 at 06:30 AM

Hi Jezebel, You are so right. This site is about men wanting sex and that's it. The ones I have encountered are so obviously wanting an older woman just for sex. I've cancelled my subscription effective the end of the month for that reason. Why bother spending money just to meet a common guy who doesn't value me. That holds true for other internet dating sites as well. I am cancelling those subscriptions too. I'll just get out more and meet a quality guy.

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Posted on Sep 15, 2007 at 11:24 PM

I have always wanted to meet a younger woman to do things with mostly because women my age bore the livin shit out of me. I may be 54 but like anything else age numbers dont mean shit.

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Posted on Sep 11, 2007 at 04:20 PM

I get hit with the sex rational a lot from acquaintences who hear that I date younger men. Younger men are actively engaged in living life. They have intelligence, enthusiasm, adventurous spirits. The men I've been with treat me with respect and don't try to rush me into bed. They enjoy my company, and most of them are realistic about life and have insights into life and people that goes way beyond their age. They turn me on mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and yes, sexually. Men my age are mostly boring, sad to say, at least the ones I've met. I'm on this site to find a deep meaningful relationship. I'm not looking for marriage.

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Posted on Aug 19, 2007 at 12:36 PM

Well. I think Women are most offten More mature than a man. Some like Older men for that reason. I think the ladys prefering a Young man, is about two things. 1. They realize Men are Imature and if you are going to have to Put up with that, then one with as much energy and more Trainable is better ! 2. They like the Mother / Son thing in that kind of relationship. And, the younger man is looking for "MOM".. Although the Fantisy of most older men is a Sweet Young woman. I find I rather like a woman on the same level as I am, Equil. Paul...

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Posted on Aug 12, 2007 at 06:50 PM

interesting and often valid analysis of older younger relationships...especially as it pertain to older men. I think, however, there is one aspect you neglected and that is that older men are often seeking the mental stimulation they receive from younger women...a stimulation often lacking with older women. For instance, I am 74 and have no problems relating to younger females (by that I mean 35 to 55). But curiosity and a little boredom periodically led me to investigate this site. Odds are that I will be gone in less than 30 days...but will have enjoyed every moment of it.

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Posted on Jul 13, 2007 at 05:37 AM

NOT all of us !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Posted on Jun 16, 2007 at 05:21 AM

One thing I know for sure, that you are right, about the sexual encounters. One time just this resently, a young Gentlemen, that I communcate with said to me,"When, I told him, that for his age, he has so much wisdom, and it's turning me on." But, I find it fun and exciting, but, he thought after I said that, that I would want to have sex with him, but, I wouldn't want to do that to him, because, he is my Friend, and I made it a rule{not unless there's going to be a serious relationship going with us} that I don't have sex with my Friends, no not ever, so, I explain it to him, so, I would ease his worries about it, and believe me, I run from guys like that, that just want to have sex with me, I'm not all about that, not unless we are going to get married, and have a life together. but, no way, I'm going to have sex, from just getting to know the Gentlemen, there's got to be more, that's for sure, but, anyway I clear it up for him, to ease his mind, that's how I am, and I'm going to stay that way for as long as it takes, ok. so, you take care, and have a good weekend, and a happy Father's Day, lol, hugs from I.

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Posted on Jun 15, 2007 at 04:08 PM

This is very true! They say men are hardwired that way, and it seems to be the case. I have always been sexually attracted to older women, even in my teens. I guess it has to do with the fact that older women are more charming in many ways than young immature ones.

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Posted on May 28, 2007 at 08:28 PM

Too funny Gig! What a great joke! Peace, Dreamer

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Posted on Mar 11, 2007 at 06:13 AM

WOW !!! I had forgotten I even started this blog.I took some time to try and answer most of the postings. I came on just to cancel my 'gold' level and close my profile off because I honestly dont have time to answer the messages. I have met some great guys here and will spend what time I have getting better acquainted, rather than trying to screen anyone else. I don't know for sure when I will remember to check back in here so....my best wishes to you all.

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Posted on Mar 11, 2007 at 05:54 AM

You are quite right. I also believe that everyone has the same need for emotional security and intimacy. However, it is easy for many people with their wide variety of hang ups and/or expectations(much of the time the result of being in abusive families or past relationships)to seek short term gratification and then get lost in the labyrinth of what choices they have made as apposed to what they want and need in the closed off places in their soul. This is at the root of what I am talking about.

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Posted on Mar 11, 2007 at 05:41 AM

True....unless they are having to beg the judge for a restraining order! hahahahahaha

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Posted on Mar 11, 2007 at 05:38 AM

I wasn't suggesting when I talk about sex that it was a "get down to it" type of thing. I meant really a more broad context concerning the content of conversations etc. I disagree with the idea that it is harder to meet someone even for just getting laid out in public. BTW!!! I WOULD LIKE TO DISASSOCIATE MYSELF FROM ANY MENTION OF BINGO HALLS OR SALOONS WAS IT. I have never been in a bingo...establishment nor do I go to bars. Sorry I just had to throw that in since miss darkstar whoever felt that this was somehow worth suggesting. Anyway, I just mean that most people are a lot less likely to approach someone that they are attracted to in a face to face situation. I am quite sure that is the case even more so if the object of your interest is significantly older/younger. Also when I spoke of motive, it wasn't motive for joining this site I was referring to. It was the motive for seeking out someone in a different age group.

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Posted on Mar 11, 2007 at 05:15 AM

hahaha....satanic huh. Well it isn't intended to be anything like that. It's lyrics from a favorite song of mine. Don't worry I dont worship the devil or drink the blood of small animals. The song is called "angry Johnny" by a group called POE(THEY ARE AWESOME BTW). My ex's name was JOhn. He loved to accuse me of being a whore, while he was sleeping with multiple other people(that's something that happens alot...when someone is guilty they mask it by making accusations). Hence the "jezebel" part and being married to him was like being in hell. So NOPE...sticking with the screen name, but thanks for your concern.

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Posted on Mar 11, 2007 at 05:03 AM

Look! I wasn't complaining you dim wit! I was creating a subject for discussion. Pretentious? Puritanial? You need to work on your reading comprehension. I was simply making a general statement. I didn't even exclude myself from being sexually motivated. I'm sorry if you get so few responses that it hasn't become clear what the ratio is of those who try to have substantive conversation and those who go straight to asking what you?re wearing. It seems to me that you are being adversarial towards me because you have nothing better to do or say. It could be that you only wish your butt looked as good as mine so you could have a picture of it that close up without causing blindness or convulsion...who knows. You should try getting a real life. You may notice I haven't been in here everyday worrying about what random nobodies think about me. I have met and dated someone from this site, incase that answers why the hell I'm here. It's not to exchange useless banter with those who are meaningless and of no consequence to my life...such as yourself. Actually honey I have unlisted(hidden) my profile because my dance card is full. I like online dating. It is akin to ordering off a menu. I am not normally one to be harsh and sarcastic, but you came straight on attacking me as if you have a f*cking clue who you were talking about or to. I suppose now you'll turn me from a prude to a slut. Whatever makes you feel better just knock yourself out. The beautiful thing about it is you, in your complete insignificance to me, can spend all day finding ways to pick apart what I have said in an effort to restore your prideful ego, and all the while I will be enjoying my life outside the confines of cyber nowhere AND the company of the young good looking men in here that have what you obviously lack...an original thought and ANYTHING better to do.

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Posted on Mar 07, 2007 at 05:05 AM

I dont think men or women go on line to find sex. They go on line to meet new people. If sex was all a man wanted he wouldnt waste time on the internet. he would be out in the real world (same for women).

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Posted on Mar 06, 2007 at 08:12 AM

My Dear! I there something you can do about your utterly Satanic name??? Larisa

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Posted on Mar 05, 2007 at 05:14 PM

if it happens it happens...

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