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Posted on Jan 22, 2009 at 06:42 AM

Hi there! I thought it would be fair 2 share some thoughts on how to get more attention on this site. Who am I to give advice? well Ive noticed that the rate of replyes/winks has gone up !7! times since I've followed a females advice and made some simple changes to my profile. worked for me, might work 4u!? SO? so here is my male perspective. Ladies, cougars, older girls, or which ever name is to your liking, remember that a lot of guys is here because we LIKE the fact that u r OLDER. hence the signs that you have lived are NOT something to hide! 1.the typical hand under the chin position, it is just shouting: "I have issues w. my neck!". Let it go! Most of us are well aware of the fact that female neck goes through some changes! And we like you as you ARE! quite a few of us are dating older because we want someone who is at peace w.their looks.Ladies u've lived long enough to know, that thouse who think who such shalow things matter,will not be atracted to older in the first place. what is atractive is some amount of peace and harmony w.your self! 2.The same goes for some boxes, tv-sets and even a pendrawn dark squares after the neck. We LIKE to see you! We DO understand that in general older ladies are a few pounds havier. and we DO like you AS U R! Do not hide the rest of your body behind objects, boxes and squares. At the very least just take another pic. where you limit the shown parts to what you desire to show. but prefereble follow BRIT fashion and say after me: If you got it, flawn it!!! ;) And belive me, evry last one of you has got something to flaunt!;) 3.no pics from the 80's! Belive it or not,most of the time its quite obvious!;) most likly we will enjoy you as u R! as u r right now!;)

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Posted on Mar 13, 2009 at 09:49 AM

2 JAG600:"In my own case that view has,nt changed since my teenaged years." Touche JAG, touche. . . it's in very early teens or even imidiate preteens that many of us form our preference, towards which we gravitate most of our lives. So for me much older wemen where a preference way before I knew the English word preference :) and its true that most common combination in society is YW/OM (1-5 years older). than come thouse men who desire even younger. so obviously u r in majority. but one would be blind not to see the structural/social difficulties that are imposed on us, w. YM/OW preference. how long ago was it you saw a comercial where woman is NOTICIBLY older than a man??? *I've seen the oposite in a casino comercial just minutes ago.

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Posted on Mar 13, 2009 at 09:30 AM

2Helena: "Both Bette and Demi look great and natural and I totally agree that their personalities have improved with age." and IMHO their physical appearnce too ;)

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Posted on Mar 03, 2009 at 06:46 AM

Don't listen to them Helena that's the answer.Also if you think that being asked if your younger partner is your son,(in just the same way as many people would say that mine is my daughter,if I could find one that is)is the worst that you'll hear you are kidding yourself.However the worst comments,these days,are only thrown at older man younger woman couples.I,d suggest that you try to obtain the story of Joe and Nicola Philpott over here Sunday Mirror 17 August 2008, he dated her when she was 15 and he was 53.He married her soon after that and,like my relative,they had their first child before she was 17.The story contains what people called him and it had nothing to do with being mistaken for her Father.If you can't stand the heat keep out of the kitchen.

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Posted on Mar 02, 2009 at 09:17 PM

Well yeah but when you have your 20+ something guy younger than you on you arm what happens?  People constantly assume he is  your son (perhaps your sun, but no,  your son).  I know I have learned to stand up to the occasion but why make such stupid assumptions in the first place.?

Vive la difference?


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Posted on Feb 25, 2009 at 07:42 AM

They're posted in the context of a comparison with Gig,s liking for Joanne Lumley and Janet Leigh.Why is my taste 'adolescent' but his is,nt in your view?.Gig I would have gone to that wedding of yours with Joanne if I,d have been invited. But you could,nt have married both her and Dianna Rigg. It,s just as well too because I,d have got a ring on Dianna,s finger first with any luck.

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Posted on Feb 25, 2009 at 04:42 AM

And last, but not least. or actually probably foremost. how about DEMI MOORE?! compleatly regardless of what we think of her appearence, she's probably done more for YM/OW couples than most ! ! ! Thaaank you DEMI! and tnx 2 Kucher as well!

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Posted on Feb 25, 2009 at 04:35 AM

or how about Bette Midler? I think she is somewhere around 50 in this pic. and it has been a few years since than, and she is gettin' more intrestin' for evry year that passes! And on top of it all, practicly EVRY time I see her filling in for Lary, she pushes gender equality agenda, which makes her even more attractive ! ;)

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Posted on Feb 25, 2009 at 04:24 AM

ofcourse its hard to change the entire social doctrine at once when it comes to preception of older women. but . . . there can be some compromises. I think she is 62 in this picture...

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Posted on Feb 25, 2009 at 04:14 AM

2:Helena - - - these women all looked great in their day but so did a lot of us. We are, however, not physically those people your are showing. This is the stuff that adolescent men use... - - - Helena, on one hand I agree w. you, these wemen for most guys will hardly qualify as "mature", but on the other hand . . . we might agree w. pic. posters, we might disagree, BUT AT LEAST THEY R DOIN' somethin' about it ;) I have a sugestion 4 you. How about YOU post pic. IN THIS topic of someone who you would say could be "representative" of attractive mature woman? IMHO it could be picture of you your self ;)

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Posted on Feb 24, 2009 at 07:58 PM

these women all looked great in their day but so did a lot of us. We are, however, not physically those people your are showing. This is the stuff that adolescent men use...........

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Posted on Feb 20, 2009 at 09:13 PM

I first saw Joanna in Trail of the Pink Panther and would have married her spot on. Dianna Rigg also made me a loyal subject...

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Posted on Feb 19, 2009 at 04:38 PM

This is also a photo of Dianna Rigg.

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Posted on Feb 19, 2009 at 03:51 PM

That,s Dianna Rigg below.And this is Jenny Agutter.

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Posted on Feb 18, 2009 at 06:52 AM

Gig she played Purdy in The tv programme The New Avengers.Did you remember the original one with Dianna Rigg who played Emma Peel.I reckon that Dianna Rigg might have been the winner between those two at the time?.On the subject of small time 1960,s and 1970,s British tv programmes,and relatively older (than me) girls,I always fancied Jenny Hanley (Magpie),when I was a teenager that is.You can find her on the internet photo libraries.She was also a film star.Her mum Dinah Sheridan was arguably even better looking when she was young.There was another good competitor for Joanne Lumly and that was Jenny Agutter.I just wish that I could download all the photos of these girls from the time.

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Posted on Feb 17, 2009 at 10:49 AM

Jag, I'm still entranced by that U.K. Goddess Joanne Lumley...

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Posted on Feb 13, 2009 at 05:32 PM

Thanks for posting that photo of Liz Gigolo.I reckon that it showed that money ain,t everything.She won,t be able to take it with her when her time comes.But I,d have given everything in my bank balance,and hers,to have been in Richard Burton,s shoes just after that film was made.Can you now post any pictures,of the other two girls,who I commented on,from the 1940,s and 1970,s?.I reckon that I,m proving that,in many cases, they don,t make ,em like they used to and the younger they are/were the better.By the way you did,nt answer the question as to wether Liz was the winner between hers and Janet Leigh,s looks?.I reckon it was a no contest.When The British girls are good they are REALLY good.But as Richard Burton found they often don,t come cheap or easy.

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Posted on Feb 10, 2009 at 05:07 PM

Dear Luna mor, #Everything you say is true, but #still, women always enjoy that #extra bit of reassurance. ;) well, the very fact that this site even exist is already a reassurance! ;) there is enough of us who: "try mature,n' will never go back 4sure!" ;) ;) ;) (c)jamy to make this whole site to go around. >As we all know too well, our >culture emphasizes youth, beauty >and fitness so much in women Luna, regarding the culture I have to say: TOUCH?!!! that is why in a topic near by I'm talkin' about older woman/young man books.THE CULTURE! we just have to take it back! we have to take back, the things that already exist! books, songs, movies etc. etc. etc. and than add some of our own! Lets face it, we do not exactly fit into mainstream, we YM/OW form a rather direct oposite to the mainstream. a clear alternative. but evry alternative worth its salt, has always been able to claim & CREATE culture of its own. Older guys have Nabokovs "Lolita" (by now recognized so widely that he is a step away fr.schoolbooks). Gay culture has its "broke back mountain" and eurovision (european song contest). Lesbians have antique culture, island of Lesbos, English queen to fall back on. What about us, YM/OW ? ? ? We have a whole SITE dedicated towards agegap relationships. IMHO The very-very least we can do here is to celebrate older women, in all possible cultural and not so cultural ways ;) To make sure that its absolutley clear, that there are plenty of us who think that older women ARE the best, and there are plenty of us who ll' any day any time pick them over younger.

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Posted on Feb 02, 2009 at 11:47 AM

Liz Taylor's average daily bank balance looks as lovely today as it did during Cleopatra in my estimation...

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Posted on Feb 02, 2009 at 10:53 AM

There,s no need to make an issue where none exists.Most ,if not all,blokes can tell the difference between a girl who,s really 18 and an older woman of 30 +.We can spot a dodgy photo a mile off.If younger women are what we are looking for we,ll find them,if they,re here.However there,s not much point in an older woman turning up for a date with a bloke who was going by a 30+ year old photo of her when he arranged it.As for Gigolo,s example concerning Janet Leigh I,d rather have pulled Jane Russell in the 1940,s or Raquel Welch in the 1970,s if I,d been old enough and lucky enough and Gigolo would you really think that Elizabeth Taylor is as attractive/gorgeous today as she was when she was in her teens and twenties and do you think that Janet Leigh was, and would still be,better looking than her??.


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