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Posted on Aug 27, 2010 at 11:54 PM

Hello litenbrite Hats off to you!!! See? I knew you were a very intelligent and determined woman. I'm truly glad things turned out so well for you. You must be very happy for your son; but most of all you have to be really proud of yourself. It's always a pleasure to read your comments. Take care :)

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Posted on Aug 27, 2010 at 05:53 AM

sentsurereal I'm not looking to take another bloke's family away from him just as I'm not looking to get involved in the wreckage of someone else's failed marriage.It's just a shame that more people don't have those morals.

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Posted on Aug 27, 2010 at 05:47 AM

litenbrite it seems to me that just because you could'nt sort out the good blokes from the bad ones and landed yourself a bad 'un you're now tarring all blokes with the same brush.However the context of this issue is 'supposed' to be OM/YW age gap relationships NOT good versus bad relationships.The fact is that it's just as,if not more,likely that a girl will end up in a bad/abusive relationship if she starts a relationship after she's 18 as if she starts one before she's that age.Yet again I'm going to raise the issue of Joe and Nicola Philpot which,like Claudia 2000's,blows your case out of the water even though having said that his second chance in life probably came at the expense of a single bloke going without and a girl is increasing her chances of finding Mr Wrong by going for a bloke who's already got a track record of failure in a previous relationship.

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Posted on Aug 27, 2010 at 01:44 AM

Claudia, I agree, I myself was originaly Married at 17, and was physicaly abused, when my son was two years old, he turned that on to him, I then managed to get away. It was then a very difficult position to be in as the Laws in England were that you could not give Evidence against your Husband [they have changed now] When Police were called all they could do was tell him off. I was so young when I married and innocent. certainly was not expecting violence. and that was in England. I grew up very fast, got away worked and bought up my son by myself. He turned out to be a very wonderful human being and is a great Husband and Father. I turned out okay too, and I realise now that I had to experience all of that so I could help people in simular circumstances. So it isnt anything I hold any grudge about. I chose it. and had to get on with it. No, young teenage girls and boys are not mature enough to go into a relationship. i know this from personal experience.

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Posted on Aug 26, 2010 at 07:31 AM

Claudia 2000 Your comments sound like the typical uncivilised, contradictory,and ridiculous stereotypical anti age gap relationship bs so often relied on by those who's motive is to stop such relationships.Firstly the idea of 'buying' a wife without her consent to the marriage would,in reality,just mean a sham marriage based on a forced physical 'relationship' in which neither partner actually loved each other.In other words a type of prostitution and criminal sanctions in regard to that oldest proffession in the world should be applied,regardless of wether a girl is under or over the age of 18 and has absolutely no connection to a proper loving large age gap relationship.The fact is that there are many different ideas as to marriage in different cultures and countries.Over here we hear a lot against the Asian way of arranged large age gap marriages in which the propaganda tries to always paint a picture very similar to the one which you've tried to put over of girls being forced into marriage,with someone they don't want or love,at a too young age.In most cases it's hypocritical bs being put up by our sick societies which prefer to see only same or close age casual childless 'relationships' in a girl's early years and then marriage and having a family in her early middle age (when in reality it's too late for her to have children as you said yourself).Put that together with the massive rates of abortion and marriage failures in the developed western countries like the US and UK and the hypocricy becomes much clearer.In addition to which there's the cases which I've seen happen in life,in which relationships like the one between Joe and Nicola Philpot are brushed aside by the anti age gap establishment as an inconvenient truth because they show that an under 18 girl can fall in love with a middle aged bloke in a proper loving relationship/marriage without any accusations of force or buying a wife being able to be made,which is yet more hypocricy by the establishment.The fact is that the critera,as to a bloke's eligibility and wether a relationship is considered an abusive one or a loving one,should'nt be based on age where a girl is of child bearing age and is therefore biologicically an adult.Which is how the age of consent laws were formulated in certain US States long after that wierd arrangement which took place concerning your Great Grand Parents.But for some reason it's now considered criminal to do what was considered legal not long ago in those states concerning normal heterosexual relationships and vice versa in the case of perverted same sex ones.The wrong side won the US civil war.

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Posted on Aug 26, 2010 at 04:15 AM

Hi, just thought I'd add an observation, Young women don't look for older men to fall in love with. It just happens that way . There looking for sexual energy , confidence and a look that tells them that they are undeniably the best thing you ever seen. Then you walk up to them and smile , pause and check her pulse. The next time you see them should tell you if you have a chance or not? Move on , try talking to women of all age's see what they got to offer in form of friendship and maybe more. You want children? open your heart to a lady that already has them, and maybe you will add 1 more of your own!

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Posted on Aug 25, 2010 at 05:19 PM

Claudia 2000,you are right that most women will not go for a age difference of more than 10 years ,at least here in the States.From your comments,it seems that the same apply to women in Mexico.Too bad.However,there are some countries in which women will accept a great age difference.Even here in the states ,a few women will accept a great age difference.Sometimes,because,the guy is rich and they just want money.Not always.Sometimes,the motive is really love.Look,I have even seen two couples in which there was a great age difference.It ,s rare,however sometimes it happens.The reason .I seek a younger woman is for a possible future family.It is hard,Winning the lotto may be easier,in fact and far more likely.I am not planning at present to renew my membership on this site.On Sept.17, I may not be a gold member.Because,I do not think my odds of finding who I am looking for are great enough here.If I seek a woman my own age or older,my chances of success would be greater.That   probably mean giving up on any possible future family.Too many young women here have ulterior motives.I may find the person I seek,however,I doubt it will be here.


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Posted on Aug 25, 2010 at 06:34 AM

Searching the issue of what Joe Philpot did is irelevant in this context.The most relevant thing is what his wife Nicola did,or for that matter Jerry Lee Lewis' wife/widow or the teenaged girl of my own age who turned me down at the time and married someone of 48 when she was 18 or my relative who married someone of 47 when she was 16 and that blows your (and Claudia 2000's)arguments out of the water and those bs present day US age of consent laws.The fact is there's probably less chance of finding the right girl,who's still single,in the 25 + age range than there is in the under 25 range.

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Posted on Aug 24, 2010 at 11:07 PM

Hi there Searching Thanks for your comments, I do agree with you that anyone younger than 18 is too young to be considered an adult. I think you asked before how things went on to this respect this side of the border. Well, for the most part a relationship between a man who be much older than his mate is something common and not really criticized, that is if the woman be someone considered mature enough to make such a decision and if the relationship be strictly consensual. On the other hand I come from a country where sadly it is still possible to buy a wife, and you know what? They're not even expensive. I have heard girls (because that is what a 13 or 16 year-old female is) from poor parts of the country (meaning rural areas populated by indigenous groups) tell really harsh stories about how they had been bought by a man who paid for them with a box of beer bottles. I do know that is very near to how my great-grandfather (45) married my great-grandmother; a 13 year-old girl. He just picked her, and took her. And no, years ago that wouldn't have been considered paedhophilia. I wonder though, what this girl's opinion on that sense might had been (because her consent wasn't important at all) Now,I don't expect for everyone to understand that this is how things go in some parts of the world, or why this fact may change your perspective on this isssue. Neither am I saying that such thing happens on this site, but my point is that there is no way that you may consider a relationship with so young a person anything else but some kind of abuse.

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Posted on Aug 24, 2010 at 07:53 PM

Claudia 2000,do not worry,you are still young,yet.I also think most of the young women,here have ulterior motives.Not all.Some are for real.As far as women of 18 years of age, I believe here in the States are legally adults.How about Mexico?Although that does me no  good.Am sure no one of that age would  be interested in a man my age.My profile presently states I think my minimum age range  as 25.Still great age difference.However,under 18 years is a juvenile and if you have sexual relationships it is statutory rape and you can go to jail.I think it is a good law.It is too young too make up your mind.I do not care what Joe Philpot did.


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Posted on Aug 24, 2010 at 10:17 AM

i have always dated young woman they have more energy and they are just way better the biggest gap has been 27 yrs shes 20 im 47, the sex is great and they give me more energy i think they keep me young

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Posted on Aug 24, 2010 at 03:26 AM

Hello Claudia, Thank you again for posting here. Just where are the younger women. I have seen quite a few on who viewed my blogs, but not even one is brave enough to say they are interested. I have mentioned before I created these 2 Blogs to encourage people to post [some are too shy to put up their own blog] I feel quite sorry they havn't. Maybe they think they are expected to look like super models. and if they did, would they be a match? however I think its good to post a picture, unless your writing skills are so good your personality can be actualy felt. [like yours Claudia] And as for the laws, I think the age of consent is 18 in USA.But I beleive it used to vary from State to State. I know its 16 in England. My advice to the mature men is not to sound too creepy. It could be a little scary for a young woman.

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Posted on Aug 23, 2010 at 02:45 PM

Claudia 2000 like so many others I think you're confusing OM/YW relationships with paedophilia.Firstly a girl of 18 is'nt a 'minor' under US laws and a girl of 16 is'nt here in the UK.It's that confusion which is one of the main causes as to why most young teenaged women won't go for large age gap relationships with middle aged men these days.Having said that the age of consent becomes irelevant in most cases involving same or close age relationships.The fact is most law enforcement authorities and parents rightly see early to mid teen same age relationships as nothing unusual and normal.However that all changes massively these days if it's a middle aged man/teenaged girl relationship.As I've said before check out the story of Joe and Nicola Philpot.Hopefully that should help to stop your 'confusion' on the issue.Just as having to come to terms with being rejected by a girl of my own age as a teenager,who then married a divorcee of 48 when she was 18,and seeing my relative of 16 marry a divorcee of 47 did in stopping my 'confusion'.But now the irony of seeing your ideas,concerning the OM/YW age gap issue,predominate and prevail brings it all back to me and confuses me to a higher level than you could ever dream of.

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Posted on Aug 22, 2010 at 01:17 AM

Hi again litenbrite Well, as it turns out I am (sadly) the only woman who's written here (maybe that's because I'm not so young, lol). It still puzzles me how women don't seem to be interested in saying anything about this topic (that must be very disappointing for male older members, too bad). I somehow get the feeling that most men who have formerly complained about the lack of young women on this site might be right, because I myself haven't seen many young women around -and the ones I have, well they don't seem to have anything to offer other than "company" they expect to get paid for. On the other hand I do know that most women I've talked about this with would not go for an age gap of more than 10 years, and from what I've heard from men here; that's not something they would consider a significant difference. I'm begining to think that when men here talk about what they are looking for, they don't mean a woman who is younger but a woman who is young (meaning 18 years or so) and quite good looking too, but...isn't an 18 year-old a minor in the States? (Is it even legal for them to sign up to this site?) So I'm starting to get really confused about all this... Any ideas?

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Posted on Aug 19, 2010 at 03:35 PM

Speaking from personal experience I will simply state the obvious. The "coventional" wisdom in the US is that men are generally 7-10 years older than their mates. This is, of course, backwards since women outlvfe men by approximately 10 years on average. On the otherhand I believe that men age more attractively than women - its a generalization but nevertheless a fact. I'm 72 and consider myself above average - whatever that is. I like younger women because they are simply sexier - who wouldn't prefer filet minion to hamburger. The  vast majority of younger men seeking older women OR young women seeking older men, in my opinion, are simply in it for financial reasons. They both expect to be compensated in some way for their interest. This website is full of 20 something women peddling telephone sex or implying other favors are available for a price.


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Posted on Aug 18, 2010 at 03:43 AM

Lucasa, Thank you, that is so nice of you.

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Posted on Aug 17, 2010 at 12:01 PM

Lite....a little of topic..but you look stunning in the red jumper.

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Posted on Aug 17, 2010 at 04:40 AM

Dogeestyl, Yes you are quite right, The original idea of this blog was to invite all the younger women that prefered older men to post. [and I put a blog out for the younger men that prefered older women too] So far Claudia is the only one that has posted. I am trying to unite people here...doesnt seem that any young women are brave enough to admit that they prefer an older man. But the men seem to be posting,I suggest you put your pictures up Guys, just incase there are younger women looking at this blog. I take all my pictures with a webcam, so its easy and dated. you can too.

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Posted on Aug 15, 2010 at 07:36 PM

Shouldnt the woman be on this site not the men writting about this and were are the woman , half of them are to busy trying to find someone young to babysit or at least try to train them , this is a old repeaditve problem we seem to have all the time no matter wat are age may be , alot of times we are to quick to judge jus like I posted earlier this is how easy it is to do this ,this is why we need to give one another an oppertunity to meet instead of saying I want a younger or older mate to meet give one another chanceto to say hi instesd of jus passing them on thats why were on this site in the first place to meet someone ....

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Posted on Aug 14, 2010 at 07:46 AM

Emerson,as to whether this site is worth the money.It depends on who you are looking for.I think many of these younger women are just on this site to take advantage of others.Not all.However,a whole lot.I am thinking of becoming a standard member again.Have not yet decided.However,I am looking for a younger woman,wanting a family.However,the women,your age or close to it may be more sincere.Especially,those on these blogs.The scammers are probably too busy looking for marks to even read them.Look at all these response this blogs got,if you do not believe many of these younger women here are not sincere.One thing I notice is many of these younger women here who sent you e-mail and winks will often tell you how much they like your profile.However,if you check who view you,they are not there.That should be a dead give-away right there and then.However,if someone view your profile it is probably at least not a scammer.Maybe,she will not be interested,however not a scammer,probably.In any case the older women may be more sincere.I think very few of the younger ones are sincere.Althrough there are a few,who are hard to find.


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