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Posted on Oct 14, 2012 at 12:02 AM

I often blog, and lots of people read them, but never make a comment, you must have some opinion [even if you think its boring] Please post some comments, I try to write blogs on subjects that include everyone, and apart from a few old friends on here posting comments no one bothers, I always try and make a comment on other peoples blogs too, so I am having a moan at you all today, apart from my faithful old friends. Give me a Sweet Surprise I am fed up with talking to myself, I am always optimistic but  Im having a pessimistic day today. Has anyone read any good books, or do you have any self help suggestions that might help someone that reads them. Are there any NICE people out there? if there is, give me some sugar. A lonely and unloved litenbrite xxx


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Posted on Nov 14, 2013 at 02:10 PM

Women are a little more diplomatic....and if you were so sincere you would show your profile......Are you ugly then? Lol


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Posted on Nov 14, 2013 at 01:24 PM

Hey dude women are never really Openly Sincere ..... Otherwise they would tell you the truth even if it hurts , Like ............  Yes I am still looking for a husband but you are to damn ugly and I want an Antonio Banderas or a George Clooney .   I have yet to come across a woman that Brutaly Honest !    That may be cruel but it's better than waisting a guy's time with bullshit and lies .


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Posted on Nov 11, 2012 at 10:15 PM

Hello Again Friend, I was very interested in  your response because, believe it or not, I too was extremely shy.  Everytime anyone spoke to me I blushed, got flustered, you have described it too for you.  Perhaps it was being a British kid who was to be seen but not heard?  Who knows.  Now that I am Canadian and feel quite liberated, my tongue has followed suit.  Please admonish me members if I have given you a tongue lashing but usually it is all in good fun....


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Posted on Nov 05, 2012 at 11:36 PM

Hello Helena, Good to see your comment, I do try to encourage others to be a little Bold, and show them it can be fun to express their opinions. and get interaction, I'm much better at speaking to people one on one, you won't believe me but when I was much younger I was extremely shy. and I know that when you are shy you don't really want to be...in fact you wish and wish you could just be bold. Also I have always been very Psychic and didn't say anything about it then. It really wasn't until I became a Mother that I got bolder as I got older as I had to find my voice to protect and nurture my Son. and he is not shy at all a Teacher and does Voice Overs and comedy on the side. Life is much more fun when you get the courage to express yourself.


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Posted on Nov 04, 2012 at 09:49 PM

Dear LTB, I have tried to blog in this vein before.  Those who want to reply will put themselves out there and make a comment.  While the others are not necessarily visual members only, they follow it all without ever interjecting a comment.  Perhaps they are lucky enough to have side convos and only check in here to see what us longer-term contributors have to say.  Maybe  my friend you have to take off your working hat and see us all outside of your profession - lonely folk trying to connect with different degrees of confidence. 


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Posted on Oct 17, 2012 at 12:08 AM

Hello Claudia, Thank you Lol! I did mention that my old friends always help me out, but its good when some new people start Blogging or Posting sometimes its Only you Helena and me that keep this going. Did you see the Ghost Story? interesting wasn't it. My pictures are only web cam ones nothing special,but Thank you for the compliment.

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Posted on Oct 16, 2012 at 11:56 PM

Thank you Loyd and I am still communicating with someone. what I meant that I was lonely and unloved on my blogs as I wasn't getting any posts Lol!

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Posted on Oct 15, 2012 at 06:17 PM

I am still here. And I still love you but you told me you were involved. Broke my heart. Hope you are well and I do read. I believe in Ghosts also, Especialy good Ghosts. LOL Eddie


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Posted on Oct 15, 2012 at 09:19 AM

Thank you, Now thats better, more please.


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Posted on Oct 14, 2012 at 09:21 PM

...YEAH, I KNOW I'M NOT YOUR TYPE...

...BUT I AM ALWAYS LISTENING LITE!!! LOL ;)

BY THE WAY, YOU LOOK TOTALLY CUTE IN THAT PICTURE!!!

GREETINGS!!!


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Posted on Oct 14, 2012 at 05:20 PM

Self help suggestiions???

Got to do more than read them...>>APPLY THEM

THINKING ERRORS
PATTERNS OF THOUGHT THAT LEAD TO ABUSIVE BEHAVIOR
1/ Victim stance > (blaming friends;blaming the enviroment)
2/ "I can't" attitude
3/ Lack of concept of injury to others
4/ failure to put oneself in the place of others
5/ Lack of effort
6/ Refusal to accept obligation
7/ No concept of trust
8/ Unrealistic expectations
9/ Attitude of ownership
10/ Irresponsible decision making
11/ Failure to plan ahead or think long range
12/ Flawed definition of success and failure
13/ Fear of being put down
14/ Refusal to acknowledge fear
15/ Anger used to control people
16/ Power tactics
17/ Pride or refusal to back down
18/ Senimentality
19/ Externalizing blame
20/ Avoidance (of life's problems, responsibilities)
21/ Super-optimism
22/ Lack of perspective


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Posted on Oct 14, 2012 at 02:32 PM

what makes you think so baby? lol


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