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Posted on Aug 12, 2012 at 06:30 AM

Why more people just look at the blogs but don't make a comment. everyone has an opinion, come on lets hear from you, and some sassy comments would be great. You dont have to write a Biography but please talk to us and widen your circle of friends.


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Posted on Aug 09, 2013 at 06:47 PM

Thank you Italian Knight.


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Posted on Aug 07, 2013 at 04:09 AM

At litenbrite's request, I will make my first post in the blog section. She suggested I say something "sassy" if I have nothing else to say, and I like the word "sassy," as I've been hearing it a lot more lately and I find it an intriguing word for some reason, so that convinced me to break the silence barrier :-)

 

I was a gold member for a  while, but have since gone back to the basics for now since I was spending $30 per month for that, not to mention spending an inordinate amount of time perusing the profiles of the younger women, and sending out a minimum of 10 e-mails per day for four consecutive days in the hope of receiving maybe a few replies by the end of that week.

 

I found myself receiving either no responses back from any of them, or (less often but often enough) having the same experiences described by jag6000 and other gentlemen on this site's blog: ladies who respond with one or two e-mails, but then vanish abruptly, even if they happen to come on very strong and seem very interested up front; many ladies who apparently do not come back on the site to see if they had responses until a month later; or simply seem to want to e-mail back and forth forever; moreover, these latter ladies will often take umbrage when I eventually point out that while I'm certainly not averse to making new friends and being an active member of this community, I was not primarily looking for pen pals over cyberspace, or a large number of platonic friendships with ladies. Then I'm invariably told something like, "Oh, so you're *only* looking for romance here? What a shallow jerk! I know lot's of people who join this site just to make friends!"

 

Okay, since the last thing I'm here for is to make enemies or get involved in one conflict after another, I suppose I should ask: Isn't this, first and foremost, supposed to be a dating site? Don't official subscribers pay a good amount of money for that? Is it that much a display of jerkitude to be interested in finding a cool younger woman who I am mutually compatible with for a romantic relationship as my first interest and priority here, and not put equal or greater concern with building up platonic friendships or cyberspace pen pals, even if I do like making friends? I mean granted I'm not elderly, but I am approaching middle age, and I'm not getting any younger (despite remaining *very* young on the inside ha!), so I'm no longer functioning with an "all the time in the world" attitude.

 

And don't even get me started on the scammers! That's been heavily discussed here, and anyone who has frequented dating sites are all too aware of those miscreants. It seems, also, that every wink I've ever received from a fellow member turned out to have a non-existent account here whenever I've checked her profile. Hmmm...

 

I understood coming in that the competition would be fierce (no harsh feelings towards my fellow OM members, though; you're all very cool, and it's great to be able to talk to some kindred spirits who understand this preference and are not so quick to judge it, or automatically assume my motives for wanting a younger woman as a girlfriend "must" be "bad" or sinister). However, maybe I found myself a bit discouraged and dismayed by *how* great that competition actually was. I certainly do not expect a plethora of the many amazing YW around here to fall all over me in hordes (that would be nice, though...LOL!)... but it would be really nice to have one very cool and special YW develop a genuine interest after sending out so many e-mails every week for a few weeks.

 

With my griping aside, it's nice to actually meet my fellow members of the community, both my kindred spirits of both genders, and the many cool YW who are members. For those who may be curious (and not be inclined to ask too many specific personal details on a public blog or forum), I'm a single male in my 40s, I live in the Northeastern United States, younger women (YW) are my preference, and I'm a writer and freelance editor by profession (published, but not rich, yet working hard towards financial security!).

 

 

 


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Posted on Aug 22, 2012 at 03:18 AM

Thank you Correct, I can tell you are very kind, and I hope that you find the woman of your dreams.


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Posted on Aug 21, 2012 at 09:26 AM

Some you you men are hard on these ladey as in RUDE.I was tought to be nice or say nothing at all.yes i mis spell words and it dont matter to me what you RUDE people say to me.By the way there some great looking ladeys on here and nice.I did not think i would ever be on a web sit like this but we never no I mite meet the ladey of my dreams here.


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Posted on Aug 19, 2012 at 11:02 PM

Thank you Cariad, So nice of you , I am trying to encourage everyone to join in, especially on the last 2 blogs because it is interesting how people jump to conclusions that we all want the same general things, like older men only want younger women.....its just not true. Its different strokes for different blokes, I look on my "Who has viewed me" and who has are men asking for much younger women, if that is true why are they checking me out? and I would love to know everyones opinion.


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Posted on Aug 17, 2012 at 09:04 AM

Hi Lite, another Brit over on the West cost of FL. Great Blog nice to see we Brits can still hold a rational discussion.


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Posted on Aug 14, 2012 at 12:24 AM

Thank you Claudia, What a lovely post :-)


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Posted on Aug 14, 2012 at 12:09 AM

Thank you Jag,


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Posted on Aug 13, 2012 at 01:25 PM

Quoting CTyouthful:

It's grammar, not grammer.  And it's "than", not "then", in the sentence you used.  And misspelled is not "miss spelled".

No it ain't it's eiver mis spelt or it's correctly spelt.

But as litenbrite says all that matters is that it can be understood.As anyone who lives in a country made up of Scottish,Welsh,Cockney/Suvern from near London,Northern,West Country and East Anglian dialects,knows because we all speak the Queen's English as good as each other.Except sometimes the Welsh and in even rarer cases the Scottish.

But the grammar police are like my old English teachers.When asked why,if it's always i before e except after c,ven ow is it vat i is after e in vat word eiver.To which the reply was for the same reason vat vere's not supposed to be a v in the words either,this,that,then or there and there is supposed to be an h in the word how .LOL.


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Posted on Aug 13, 2012 at 07:28 AM

Thank you Ct :-)


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Posted on Aug 13, 2012 at 07:08 AM

It's grammar, not grammer.  And it's "than", not "then", in the sentence you used.  And misspelled is not "miss spelled".


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Posted on Aug 12, 2012 at 11:26 PM

Hello Loydjr, You have made a point, Spell check is not on here, and sometimes when I type it doesn't come out in the same order as I typed it. But I am not the best at spelling there is, however my son is an English Teacher in England and what he says is....Language is about communication and as long as it is understood, that is the main point of it. I think people sometimes write as they speak and there are many different dialects here in the USA, so I do not mind miss spelled words as long as you can understand the message they are trying to give. So if anyone is worried about commenting because their spelling and grammar isnt good, I do not think you look stupid at all. I am just really happy that you are giving your opinion. Sorry to hear you think my blogs are stupid, they might be, but the main point of them is to get more people to communicate what they think, not to be ridiculed because they have forgotten something they learned years ago in School. :-)


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Posted on Aug 12, 2012 at 11:18 PM

WELL LITE, I SHOULD SAY THAT'S A GOOD QUESTION!

I MYSELF, WONDER WHY PEOPLE DON'T LIKE TO WRITE ON THESE BLOGS...

 

I THINK IT MIGHT BE QUITE HARD FOR SOME MEMBERS TO SHARE THEIR OPINIONS THIS OPENLY, BUT TIMES ARE CHANGING AND OUR NOTION OF WHAT IS PRIVATE HAS CHANGED TOO.

MAYBE THAT'S WHY SOME OF US FIND IT EASIER TO POST THAN OTHERS.

 

I BELIEVE THE OPPORTUNITY TO INTERACT -LIKE IN HERE, WITH PEOPLE OF ALL AGES AND FROM DIFFERENT PARTS OF THE WORLD IS PRICELESS.

 

 

IN THE TWO YEARS OR SO, THAT I HAVE BEEN AROUND THIS SITE, I HAVE NOTICED HOW SOME MEMBERS AT TIMES HAVE SHARED VERY PERSONAL STORIES AND THOUGHTS. I FIND THAT AMAZING, AND CONSIDER IT A PRIVILEDGE TO HAVE BEEN ABLE TO READ OR CONTRIBUTE TO THOSE POSTS WITH A LINE. 

 

 

NOW THAT I THINK OF IT, I HAVE REMAINED ON AGEMATCH BECAUSE OF THEM.

THE REASON I HAVEN'T REMOVED MY PROFILE IS BECAUSE I WOULDN'T BE ABLE TO WRITE, OR TO READ WHAT PEOPLE POST IF I WEREN'T A MEMBER ANYMORE.

 

 

I HAVE HAD GOOD AND BAD EXPERIENCES IN HERE, BUT IN THE END MAYBE IT IS TRUE THAT GOOD THINGS HAPPEN TO THOSE WHO WAIT (PATIENTLY) AND I KNOW THAT I DO OWE BIG, BIG TIME TO THIS WEBSITE.

 

 

SO, AGEMATCH PEOPLE, IF YOU'RE READING THIS, THANKS SO MUCH!!!

 

(BIG SMILE HERE!!!)

 

 

GREETINGS LITE!!!

 

WISHING YOU ALL THE BEST (BECAUSE I KNOW THAT'S WHAT YOU DESERVE)!!!

 

CLAUDIA2000

 

 

 

 


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Posted on Aug 12, 2012 at 09:41 PM

I think Some of you guys should get spell check on your Computer, or go back to school. All of your missed spelled words and poor Grammer make you look stupider then Your actual message and some of them sound pretty Damn Stupid.


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Posted on Aug 12, 2012 at 09:13 PM

Hello Softball chic, Welcome to Age Match, Well this is a Blog, and there is  a subject  you can make a comment, like you have, On this blog I am talking about the response to another blog called  "What do women want" where I ask everyone to make a comment about what they would like in a relationship. and you can read it and just make a comment on what you think. Thank you for coming on anyway.:-)


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Posted on Aug 12, 2012 at 03:50 PM

heyy im new here and i have no clue what im doin hehe....


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Posted on Aug 12, 2012 at 01:20 PM

I most certainly did answer you, Please check out the blog, Everyone does change their lives a little when they have a relationship, and so I answered with what I would like. sometimes its good to change your life a little otherwise you tend to become an old cumudgeon, and get stuck. Lol! if you didnt change a little how on earth would you experience anything better or worse, you have to sample life, to appreciate and live it, or else its the same day after day. You see you changed your life a little bit today by commenting on this blog. Lol! even if you were having a little dig at me. Lol! and I did say I would not put up with a medioca relationship just for the sake of having someone around. or be involved with a rich man just for the sake of living in luxury. I suggest you get some new glasses and read it. Mind you goodness knows what I might do if a tall blue eyed Irishman paid attenton to me.....ahhh!!!


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Posted on Aug 12, 2012 at 12:32 PM

you don't answer either so how is it a mystery? I asked you specifically " would you want to give your life away to somebody" there is a big difference on sellng our selvs out to somebody that we are not compatible and how has other agendas such as security rather than a mutual partenr. I truly don't think you really want to know what men really think. It is a catchy line for conversation though.


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