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Posted on Oct 02, 2012 at 02:40 PM

Yes to an extent, that one special wonderful woman who can be our strenght when we need it, or motivation when we are tired. The drive when we are ready to give up. As if that isn't enough to ask some of us even want that special one to be some of the reason we want to celibrate life and we just hope we find one that makes us say "God how did i get so lucky?".


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Posted on Aug 24, 2012 at 02:07 AM

Jag Thank you for posting.


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Posted on Aug 23, 2012 at 07:55 AM

In answer to shannangrace's answer on the what are women really looking for topic.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

In my case it's just a young potential wife who wants to raise her family while she's young and therefore,hopefully,be there for them for a long time and who wants to do that with an older single never married bloke.That obviously seems too much to ask for.

 

 

 

 


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Posted on Aug 13, 2012 at 05:28 PM

Helena, Thank you so much, so good to have a positive comment. :-)


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Posted on Aug 06, 2012 at 08:50 PM

Claudia, Blog is up waiting for all the women on here to post what they really want.:-)


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Posted on Aug 06, 2012 at 12:13 AM

COOL!!!

THAT'S A GOOD IDEA LITE, YOU SHOULD WRITE A BLOG FOR WOMEN!!!!

I'LL START MAKING MY OWN LIST AND WAIT FOR IT...PATIENTLY...

...IT'S HARD, THOUGH...

DON'T TAKE TOO LONG GIRL...OR WE'LL START INVADING THIS BLOG!!!! LOL!!!!


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Posted on Aug 05, 2012 at 09:53 PM

Deanfish, Good question, I personaly would prefer to have my own independence, and for a partner to have theirs, but equally share when we were together. and would prefer a monogamous relationship, but for me the chemistry is so important, I would not want to put up with a medioca partnership just to have someone around me. or in fact have a relationship with a wealthy man just  because of the benifits of luxury. I would like to share love, affection, intimacy, spirituality, [not religion]humor, kindness and understanding. with someone that I just love being with. But they also would have to love being with me. and I also love being a very feminine woman, and want passion. is that too much to ask? I like the way you cleverly turned this around to " What do women really want" Lol!


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Posted on Aug 05, 2012 at 09:39 AM

Question for you, seriously. Would you want to give up our life style for somebody, or would you rather have a man that blended with it. Don't you have pretty much everything you want in life except somebody to share it with? There is a huge difference in sharing and giving your life away.


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Posted on Aug 05, 2012 at 04:23 AM

Hello Claudia, Thank you for being supportive [I often wonder what I would do without you and Helena] I thought it a good subject. But at least  we have two brave men posting on here so far, lets hope there are more. Happy Summertime to you too, I have just been in England for a month visiting family and friends. It was nice, Exciting year in the UK, Jubilee, Olympics, Celebrations galore. But I didn't get a chance to do everthing I intended to do  while I was there. Time just went so fast. :-)       ​        ​        ​        ​        ​        ​        ​        ​        ​        ​        ​        ​   Havn't heard anything from Searching, Hot Pro Dude or Gig.I expect they are all busy or they have met their "Dream Girls".


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Posted on Jul 30, 2012 at 10:25 PM

Wow!!!!

This turned out to be a very interesting blog Lite!!!!

I'm so glad people have been reading!!!

It would be nice to see more comments, though. But I'm glad you posted it either way.

So nice to hear from you and Helena!! I haven't seen any posts from Searching2007...I wonder if he's doing Ok...

HAPPY SUMMERTIME TO EVERYONE!!!!

 


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Posted on Jul 30, 2012 at 10:33 AM

LOL. well they do it all the time. especially gold diggers who relly want other things besides honest connection, and have a little life of her own. Just have to watch who we connect with. It's easy to end up bartering rather than relating. People have hidden agendas and I mean even hidden from ourselves. Thanks for the feedback.


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Posted on Jul 29, 2012 at 10:06 PM

Deanfish1, Don't worry I am sure there wouldn't be anyone that would want you to give up your lifestyle.But thank you for your input.


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Posted on Jul 29, 2012 at 07:46 PM

I DO AGREE, EVERYBODY IS DIFFERENT. I ALSO BELIEVE THAT WE ARE ALL PRETTY MUCH THE SAME IN MANY WAYS. a LOT OF IT DEPENDS ON UP BRINGING. iI GUESS I WILL HAVE TO ANSWER THE QUESTION BY ASKING ONE. WHAT IS THE PURPOSE OF HAVING A RELATIONSHIP? I SAY TO FILL IN THE GAPS. FOR EXAMPLE I HAVE PRETTY MUCH EVERYTHING I NEED OR WANT , ENOUGH MONEY, SECURITY, WORK. FAMILY, COMFORTABLE HOME AND VERY LITTLE STRESS, AND I PRETTY MUCH DO WHATEVER I WANT TO WITHOUT ANYBODY TELLING ME WHAT TO DO WHERE TO GO OR HOW TO DO IT. SO MY QUESTION IS WHY WOULD I WANT TO MESS THAT UP? WELL , I DONT, SO WHAT IS THE GAP I NEED TO FILL? WHATEVET IS LACKING, IS LOVE AFFECTION SEX AND COMPANIONSHIP. I WOULD RATHER NOT SELL OUT WHAT I ALREADY HAVE TO BE ABLE TO HAVE THAT. I AM PARTIAL TO PEACE AND HARMONY, I LOVE WRITING SONGS AND PLAYING MY INSTRUMENTS GOING FISHING TRAVELING OR WHATEVER. I AM NOT ONE WHO WANTS TO CREATE MORE WORK FOR MYSELF UNLES IT IS WORK I WANT TO DO, OR HAVE A WOMAN CREATE MORE WORK FOR ME EITHER, BY WAY OF HONEY DOS OR LISTS. " WHY WOULD I?" I DON'T HAVE TO DO IT NOW SO WHY WOULD I WANT TO DO IT LATER. I HAVE A HOUSE KEEPER I PAY TO DO THINGS I DO NOT WANT TO DO, AND I PAY FOR THAT. ITS MUCH CHEAPER THAN HAVING TO LISTEN TO SOME BODY TELL ME HOW THEY WANT LIFE TO BE IN MY OWN HOUSE. I AM NOT ONE THAT WANTS THE RESPONSIBILITY OF INITIATING ALL THE AFFECTION AND SEX AND I BELIEVE IT NEEDS TO COME FROM BOTH WAYS AND IF THERE IS NOT A FLOW COMING FROM TRULY LIKING SOMEBODY THEN IT IS A WASTE OF TIME AND ENERGY AND WILL BE WAY TO MUCH WORK BASED ON ACCOMODATION RATHER THAN GENUILE LIKING SOMEBODY AND HAVING THE SAME COMPATIBILITIES , ITS LIKE CRAMING A SQUARE PEG INTO A ROUND HOLE. THANKS FOR LISTENING. DEAN


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Posted on Jul 28, 2012 at 02:24 PM

I am extremely happy to relate that I know a member here who has not only met that special someone, but they are both madly in love.  They have met several times and it just gets better. Just wanted to pass on that "feel good" information for people who have doubts i.e. there are times it really is worth making the connection and meeting!!


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Posted on Jul 26, 2012 at 11:05 PM

Helena, Absolutly, Its really hard to get anyone to write a few words on here on what  appeals to them....let alone meet anyone in person to feel the chemistry. It is possible though as there are some very nice people that are not just playing around on here.


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Posted on Jul 26, 2012 at 10:43 AM

Well LTB I do believe that Claudia and I pretty much gave the same opinion about it being different things to different members.  I guess we each establish exactly what our personal criteria are as each new relationship arises.  Gotta get past the actual "meet" first and worry about the rest later LOL


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Posted on Jul 24, 2012 at 12:07 PM

Hello CTYouthfull, Please take a look at my Blog "There are log in features on here." It does explain a little about the features members can use.       ​        ​        ​        ​        ​        ​        ​       And thank you so much for your input, the reason I wrote this Blog was that I think it unfair that some people really do generalise about both genders, and I find everyone so different. and you are right about "Chemistry" but in order to find that you have to meet people first, but strange though it may be you can get a twinge of chemistry when you see how people write. In both a friendship way and a romantic way. and it would be so nice to see the varied comments from all the people that read the Blogs. And of course adds a sense of community from everyone that participates. We are here trying to communicate in some way or other we all have that in common. I have made nice friends on here.                                                                                                                              ​        ​        ​        ​        ​        ​        ​        ​        ​        ​        ​  As far as pictures go the reason I use webcam pictures is that you can put the date that they were taken on them. they are not just flattering pictures but at least up to date.


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Posted on Jul 24, 2012 at 10:27 AM

Hello L&B.

I addressed it to Claudia since I referenced the steak and potatoes thing, but since you started this topic of course it was meant for you too.  You two seemed to be looking for answers, so I just thought I would offer some input.  Hope it was helpful, but keep in mind I am not "typical" or in the "mainstream" by any means, so my reply applies to me only.

Yes, I have heard some horror stories from women about men who misprepresent themselves, and who have couch potato photos even though they are competing in decathlons...  And I hear some real horror stories regarding posted photo vs. the person they actually met...

As to number of people on here, I am only an hour from NYC, but there is no one active within 20 miles of me.  It's not like I could meet you or Claudia for a quick cup of coffee...  And when a profile says "more than a month" since last log in, that can also mean "within the last decade".....   But interesting and cute site nonetheless. 

If you need more input, feel free to ask.


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Posted on Jul 23, 2012 at 07:25 PM

Hello CT Youthful, Thank you for being the first Man to make a comment, I know your reply was for Claudia so excuse me, I quite agree with you about the Sport thing, and so many men say they play so many Sports, lists and lists of them, [I mention this in my profile] I am sure they may have played some of them at sometime but a little exagerated. when you see a picture and they dont look as if they move off the couch, I do dissagree about the number of members on here though. there are many, But not many are ready to Blog. Nice to hear from you.


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Posted on Jul 23, 2012 at 07:13 PM

Hello Claudia, Lovely to see you, I am so happy my old friends are here, I would truly love to see some truthful replies, and I see we have one man that has, Lets see if any others are brave enough to start telling us what they really want. :)


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