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Posted on Aug 07, 2006 at 09:13 AM

There are many HONEST reasons that married men look for ongoing affairs. such as a wife who is ill and can not have sex, or other health resons ,besides (my wife doesn't understant me) I would love to know.

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Posted on Mar 20, 2007 at 07:35 AM

Sir, There are many reasons why some Women won't date or get involved with a Married Man? A whole lot responsiblies, Partner! and I feel sorry for you, when your wife needs you the most, and out here all you want is a "One Night Stands" that's being really low, even for you, Let, me tell you a story: "When I was young, I've met a Man, and he was in his mid 20's and I was 18, he was handsome, sweet, and kind, I could just love him to death, he wanted to see me, then I said,"No!" and kept walking away, and he kept pursuing me, until he wanted to be with me, until I was his, then I finally gave in, to go with him{and, boy, Big Mistake I made!}We started seeing each other, and yes, the chemistry was there, and the passions and all, and,I almost fell in love with him, until a noisy neighbor{his friend} told me about him, that he was Married, and had a child also{whom was a little girl at the time} telling me to stay away from him and all, but did I? no, I didn't{another mistake}I still kept seeing him, until I read an article in a magazine with a female advicer{you know those ones, like "Dear Abby" ones} and read about a Single Women seeing a Married Man, she told her, why? would want a Married Man, whom has other responsiblies, and he will never leave his wife for you, no how, would you want that? and hoping he would come back to you, don't let that happen to you, you go on and find a Single Man to have in your life, because a Married Man will lead you on and on, until he move on to the next Women besides you and her{his wife}" so, I had to make that decision, to decide to keep seeing him and waiting for him? or leave him and move on? so, I told him, and I moved on, and he left me alone after that, once I explain the situation to him, and now you know why, why should us women want you, when another needs you more then we do,so why put us through that, Sir, why? knowing you have a sick wife, and that needs you more, and all you want do is want, is a good lay? Wow! what a Gentlemen you are, then you might as well leave her, if you are so tired of her,{give her that kind of dignity, and for someone else to love her then, if you can't handle it,{it makes me sick, that guys like you don't have that kind of compassion for the ones that you loved, give her a divorce then, and so you can go on and pursue all of the women that you need or want as much as you want, without any attactments in your life, Lover Boy!} and with you being married, you want to take a women and be with her{more like your Mistress} but, not your wife, gees how sad this is? my advice, seek help for you and your wife to find out why? and once you decided, then make some choices in your life for you and for her, like leaving her or work things out with her, ok. well, at least try, and it's up to you, ok. so take care, and stand by your wife for now, and see, and you take care too, I'll be praying for the both of you, no matter what you decide in your life, Sir. so you have a Blessed Day and Night, to you both, Yours Truly.

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Posted on Jan 04, 2007 at 07:19 PM

What an extraordinary question..

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Posted on Dec 22, 2006 at 12:12 AM

There is no HONEST reason that a married man looks for an affair. What kind of cheap trick would it be to abandon a sick partner (even if the shoe was on the other foot so to speak). If your partner has a sexual hangup for one of many reasons, then therapy would be more appropriate that sex-on-the-side. You know cheating (and a lot of wanna-be cheaters are writing to me) assume older women are game for anything, like they are desparate? NOT. We want to basically be in a relationship that has something to offer us too apart from great sex. Oops, did I say that? Well I mean sex is fine (kiss me again etc.) but I am free (divorced) and so I would not and cannot deceive or cheat on anyone. A true and honest relationship, even if it goes nowhere, is a memorable thing rather that what you suggest - a major REGRET.

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Posted on Nov 13, 2006 at 07:50 PM

yeah, why would they want to be a third wheel, lol. I don't think i'd want to share a woman with some other guy.

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Posted on Sep 06, 2006 at 09:56 AM

I wouldn't want 2 get involve with someone who is already married. I think that married people who date, are confused, and hurt others. I feel like this what's the use of u being married if u're not going to be faithful.

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Posted on Aug 25, 2006 at 04:40 PM

mrhorndog: To your question: how come these sites have so many married WOMEN ??? Women also cheat! but does that give her the right?? She did say she wanted her man "till death do they part". I don't believe that a man or woman should cheat within a relationship...if you're not happy with whom you are with...then get away from the situation..."You can't have your cake and eat it too"! nor can she! End one thing before you add another...1 + 1 does not make 3.

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Posted on Aug 25, 2006 at 12:57 PM

I only date guys with integrity. I would never want to marry someone who takes their marriage vows so seemingly lightly.

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Posted on Aug 20, 2006 at 08:21 AM

None of us are perfect. But for me.. I have been there where the MAN in my life was the one who was unfaithful. Knowing what it caused, the hurt/humailiation.. I could never do that to someone else. I do have to say at least you were upfront in saying you were married. Many on here are not. (Men and women alike.)

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Posted on Aug 15, 2006 at 02:31 PM

because most women who are single are looking for an attachment or relationship of some kind. I agree with the woman who said that some women aren't looking for that.. and want someone who is safe emotionally.. but those of us who are seeking a meaningful relationship steer very clear of married men, because a married man is already attached. That should be a no brainer question ..

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Posted on Aug 13, 2006 at 05:59 PM

all ofyour arguments are excellent, BUT ,if they are all true , how come these sites have so many married WOMEN ???

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Posted on Aug 11, 2006 at 09:53 AM

Mr Horndog Who says woman don't like married men? These men are safe emotionally. I mean that if a woman doesn't want a "relationship", why can't she have that. Woman can have "man" sex, too. Sometimes that's all someone wants. poetess

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Posted on Aug 10, 2006 at 12:06 AM

I can only speak for myself but I really do think that MOST women feel this way. A woman wants a man to be HER man , not suzie's and carol's and beth's man too. Damn when you get married you take vows to be faithful IN SICKNESS and IN HEALTH, just as the lady above speaks about. I agree with her 100%. And if your spouse is really THAT sick , how could you even think about sex anyway????? Myself , I would be so worried and concerned about my spouse's health, that SEX would be the LAST dang thing on my mind. Besides, it's not fair to involve another party whose feelings may grow for you. AND if an orgasm is REALLY needed, you do own lotion and have hands right???? Maybe marriage was'nt the right thing for you after all.

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Posted on Aug 08, 2006 at 09:20 PM

I hear ya Mr Horn Dog. There are various reasons why a married person may seek intimacy elsewhere, other than their current relationship. But what happens, if say the "other woman" falls in love with you?......There many downfalls to the type of relationship you are suggesting, but also many positive things :-). Take care in your search and its awesome that you are honest in doing so......... ~~~~~~~~~~~~~Jessi~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

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Posted on Aug 08, 2006 at 10:05 AM

If you don't know, i will explain it to you. When you get married you take a vow to be faithful. It is not a vow that changes according to how you feel at the time. It is a vow that is about unconditional love and loyalty. There is part of the vow that says"in sickness and in health"

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Posted on Aug 08, 2006 at 09:53 AM

Because a woman wants a TOTAL relationship with a man, possibly leading to moving in together.

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