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Scammers yet again! Posted on Nov 14, 2012 at 05:37 AM

I have been on this site for years. Finally gave up my gold membership due to so many scammers being on here. No, I know it would be hard to filter thru all the members and be able to tell who is and isn't a scammer. It is just so frustrating.

I usually know withing the first few contacts that the person is most likely a scammer. The indicators are simple, 1. They usually have no living family other than maybe one small child. 2. They have only one picture to show you. 3. They work out of the US (usually Africa is mentioned).  The list goes on and on, but with those 3 I am all but certain that within a 2 week time period a scam will be attempted.

Be smart, be aware.

Diane

Replies to Winks Posted on Oct 22, 2010 at 06:23 PM
In the last few days/weeks I have received a few winks. Thank you to all who did wink. However after being a paying member for years I had canceled my 'gold membership' due to the fact that most men rarely replied if indeed I winked, even when they winked, replies were still rare when I in fact sent a e-mail to them. Out of the several years I was a 'gold member' I only met 2 men. The best repies when I did receive any was the comment that: You live so far away. (That even when only 2 to 3 hour drives away). With that being said, please know I would luv to contact anyone who 'winks', but I am not a gold memeber any longer. Best of luck to ALL! Diane
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Questions ... Posted on Jun 19, 2010 at 07:50 PM
Ok, so here goes a simple question... Ok, maybe two or more. :) Again with the younger men, older woman situation. It has been asked many times if a younger man would really want a relationship with an older woman. Some of the replies were positive on the other blogs and in turn that is a great position to read and understand. So may I ask, to the younger men, what is it that most would be honestly looking for? How many of you can carry a conversation about more than just wanting to get the woman in bed. (For the lack of using words some younger men have put to me.) Do the few of the younger men who are honest and sincere in wanting to meet a older woman, know how to carry a conversation of more than "I wanna fuk"? I am sorry, that sound crass and rude, but honestly, that is part of what is bother me about those who do contact me. I wont deny that the idea of sex is in everyones (mine) mind, but it is NOT the only thing I am thinking about. I enjoy a good lighthearted conversation every bit as much as a passionate kiss. The idea that the man might want to be out in public with me every bit as much as he might want to be between the sheets.. The fact is that I have a heart a soul and a mind. I like to share it with the people who know and understand what they are, how to treat someone with respect as well as understanding. So forgive me for feeling a bit on the "used" side if only in words. I just had to voice my thoughts to see how many might understand or agree.
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What is it Posted on Mar 22, 2009 at 12:18 AM
I have been thinking for some time. Wondering why and if anyone knows for sure what it is that they want or why they are here? Let's say that at times I am very realistic. At least for the most part. My first date with a younger man was completely flattering. To the point of overwhelming! It is a wonderful and all but additive feeling, is it not? I totally enjoy the company of a younger man, many more times than that of a man my age or older. For many reasons but a few are: Their ability to laugh, to enjoy talking, listening and wanting to impress. Yes, there are other aspects about the younger man older woman mix and yes we all know what it is about. The few times I have been with a younger man - - - a much younger man, I have been captivated and left wanting more. More of all of the aspects, not just the physical. As I said though, I am realistic, I know that in the overall scheme of things that most men, younger as well as any male much prefer the ?fun and games? verses the sincerity or and passions and feeling of a wanted ?commitment? that often times can come with more than just a quick fuk. I know, even though at times I wish with all my heart that it was possible that a marriage, or a long term possibility could ever come to pass, I know much better. You see, I have found that for most, the smooth words, the kind jesters , the moments, no matter how short or long lived mean little to most younger men. (Not All) It seems at times that it is more of a ?meat market? for them when they find an older woman who is open to the possibilities of something more than ?Hello?. I have talked with many younger men and there are many ?reasons? for the younger man to appreciate the older woman. One is the fact that most say ?Older women know what they want and aren?t afraid to get it?. Ok, that can be true for most all of us, even younger women and all men. Yet I have found through these conversations that most (not all) younger men want to find out what it is like sexually with an older woman. Most will say that it is or close to the best they have ever had. I wont say that I don?t like sex, I do, I miss it very much! But I want more than a quick fuk. I want to know what is in his mind, how he thinks, I want to be able to talk with him about nearly anything. I want to know what is above his waist before finding out what is below. I know that there are people, both men and women who enjoy sex and are very carefree and have no regrets. But there are others who want more out any man than just sex. So what is it that you are looking for?
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Grown Women Posted on Aug 01, 2007 at 10:08 AM
I found this on a site while browsing. I found it to be very very interesting. Not all will agree, but sure there will be a few. Enjoy Smile, Diane Girls- want to control the man in their life. Grown women- know that if he's truly hers, he doesn't need controlling. Girls- check you for not calling them. Grown women- are too busy to realize you hadn't. Girls- are afraid to be alone. Grown women- revel in it-using it as a time for personal growth. Girls- ignore the good guys. Grown women- ignore the bad guys. Girls- make you come home. Grown women- make you want to come home. Girls- leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans. Grown women- make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits. Girls- worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man. Grown women- know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man. Girls- try to monopolize all their man's time ( i.e., don't want him hanging with his friends). Grown women- realize that a lil' bit of space makes the 'together time' even more special-and goes to kick it with her own friends. Girls- think a guy crying is weak. Grown women- offer their shoulder and a tissue. Girls- want to be spoiled and 'tell' their man so. Grown women- 'show' him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate without fear of losing his 'manhood'. Girls- get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it. Grown women- know that was just one man. Girls- fall in love and chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, ignoring all 'signs'. Grown women- know that sometimes the one you love, don't always love you back-and move on, without bitterness. Girls- will read this and get an attitude. Grown women- will read this and pass it on to other Grown women and their male friends.
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Wonder IF? Posted on Jun 19, 2007 at 11:15 AM
I am just curious if anyone else on here has had a 'wink' from someone that after a time, thru conversations, that person has asked for money or financial help? Although it isn't the first or last time I have had that happen. It is rather amazing to me, these men who seem to be 'Well to do' in their conversations, suddenly need help to get something or that keeps them fluid. RIIIIIGHT... My Hind end! I guess all is fare on the enter-net? Hey, all have a great day/week/month... life ;) Smile !
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Agree/Dissagree? Posted on Apr 28, 2007 at 05:50 PM
I think that most guys on this site are just curious; most are pretty lame. There is a small percentage of serious perverts (want to be diapered, cuffed to a crib etc); I think this is a good place for older women to practice dealing with younger men and then use the skill on real live younger men whom they know or meet in their actual lives. This is just a site to have some fun.
Online Fun Posted on Feb 12, 2007 at 08:31 PM
How not funny it seems that there are far more men looking for On Line Fun. The best excuse yet is the idea of distance, with the possibility of meeting in time. In other words.. On Line Fun and then disappear? Sorry.. If I wanted to see pics of 'lower' areas I'd ask. I'd prefer to get to know what is between your ears, which includes your mind. Does anyone else agree with me?