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Posted on Oct 22, 2010 at 06:23 PM

In the last few days/weeks I have received a few winks. Thank you to all who did wink. However after being a paying member for years I had canceled my 'gold membership' due to the fact that most men rarely replied if indeed I winked, even when they winked, replies were still rare when I in fact sent a e-mail to them. Out of the several years I was a 'gold member' I only met 2 men. The best repies when I did receive any was the comment that: You live so far away. (That even when only 2 to 3 hour drives away). With that being said, please know I would luv to contact anyone who 'winks', but I am not a gold memeber any longer. Best of luck to ALL! Diane

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Posted on Oct 06, 2011 at 11:03 AM

Quoting mskitty2000:

I understand exactly what you are saying.. I believe that most age gap relationships happen by chance and that people do not just go out and hunt for them. Also, if the distance is too far or too difficult to maintain then so is the age difference. I sincerely believe that most men unless they are really driven do not like to leave their comfort zone. just my humble opinion...


No relationship happens to me by chance, and when I'm out actively pursuing women, I prefer the older ones. Always will and always have preferred the older ones.

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Posted on Oct 06, 2011 at 10:55 AM

Quoting sanmarcosman:

I guess people don't get it?? Winks are the way I initiate contact so I see if they are interested or not. I'm not going to write long replies to numerous women and then get nothing in return. It seems the men are the same as the women on here, not real and only there to entice you into membership. I'm real, in San Marcos looking for someone new, not to use or abuse, but to meet.


First off, there's a double standard when it comes to winks. Women can get away with winking, while we men are supposed to send an email, usually something that's sappy and insincere, to make her feel like we're more interested in her passions and hobbies rather than in her physical aspects. To the men: quit pretending like you care about what she wrote (those written profiles sound the same to me, anyway). I don't wink and I don't like responding to them. But, if she's hot, and her written profile makes me think she's decent and non-man-hating, I'll probably email her something. Just send an email that's short and flattering, like I do: "Absolutely gorgeous pictures. How are you?" That's all it should take. Not every women will respond of course, but you're likely to get somewhere with that.

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Posted on Sep 10, 2011 at 04:36 AM

Hi Diane,I don't think winks are a waste.

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Posted on Apr 09, 2011 at 04:28 PM

sublimeheart There's no connection between a father/daughter type of relationship and a normal OM/YW husband/wife type of relationship and it's that type of erroneous connection and confusion that is one of the reasons why age gap relationships are increasingly being viewed as a type of socially unacceptable taboo.I'm looking on here for a girl who is looking for an age gap relationship not a girl who is looking for a father figure.

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Posted on Feb 06, 2011 at 01:47 AM

As for the winks, It may be best to reply with a wink. I have sent out a wink to a person on this site and if they respond, I would definately sign up - even if it was just a month to get an opportunity to email them, get to know them better and if things work out, meet.

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Posted on Dec 15, 2010 at 07:56 AM

I guess people don't get it?? Winks are the way I initiate contact so I see if they are interested or not. I'm not going to write long replies to numerous women and then get nothing in return. It seems the men are the same as the women on here, not real and only there to entice you into membership. I'm real, in San Marcos looking for someone new, not to use or abuse, but to meet.

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Posted on Nov 10, 2010 at 10:00 PM

Hon you and i have known for years that winks mean nothing and lead nowhere. I had that option removed from my membership early on. I found they never answered or, they all seem to have videocams on and want to get down and dirty. So, I suggest always ignoring winks; real and sincere members will take the time to write something and if like you and I, they are not members, well you probably cannot reach them anyway. Good luck

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Posted on Nov 09, 2010 at 11:08 PM

ldydiane is a splendid woman! Had a great time getting to know her years ago when I lived across the country in PA. She deserves a wonderful guy!

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Posted on Nov 07, 2010 at 11:40 AM

mskitty2000,you know some women are also bother by physical distance as well as men


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Posted on Nov 06, 2010 at 08:08 AM

Thank You Claudia, With your thoughts and kind words in mind, THANK YOU. We honestly never know when or how things might happen. Patience... if we have any left, is all that it might take. haha Thank You again.

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Posted on Oct 31, 2010 at 03:41 AM

Hello ldydiane. Nice to see you posted again. Three things only: 1) I hope you keep getting winks. 2) I hope that men who send them consider mailing you instead, so that you be able to reply. 3) I hope that one of the men who wink or mail you be the one you're looking for. The very best of lucks to you! Claudia2000 :)

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Posted on Oct 26, 2010 at 06:18 PM

Yes,it is hard on these sort of sites to find persons who are really sincere.I would think however,if a person was actually really interested that they would be able to find a way to meet someone,despite physical distance.Of course,that can be somewhat bad,since you can not spent as much time with them.Still,the right person may not be in your own back yard.Good luck.


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Posted on Oct 26, 2010 at 01:04 PM

I understand exactly what you are saying.. I believe that most age gap relationships happen by chance and that people do not just go out and hunt for them. Also, if the distance is too far or too difficult to maintain then so is the age difference. I sincerely believe that most men unless they are really driven do not like to leave their comfort zone. just my humble opinion...

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