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Posted on Jul 02, 2010 at 11:41 PM

Thanks you,just curious123 for your advice.I got to admit it is good and sensible advice,actually some of the best advice I ever heard in my life.It is easy to get cynical,under the right circunstances.However,you must  try to stay positive and hope for the best.Because being too negative can actually drive another person,s away.Maybe you are right.Am hoping to eventually have at least one child.That why I seek someone younger.It is true that I am a introvert and shy.Possibly,because of a speech impediment.Of course I do try to do new things when I can and try to meet new persons.Everything take time to happens.I bet you are having pretty good luck.You seems to know what to do.Really,thank you,I did appreciate your advice.


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Posted on Jul 01, 2010 at 12:07 AM

Wow, where to start, ok Jag you need to lose some of that cynical outlook as an older single guy I find that humor is an excellent foil against age gaps. listening with interest and being an engaging conversationalist, note engaging not dominating, will get you a much better response. I'm not trying to be rude but sometimes you have to be light hearted and even silly in a comical way to make a deeper connection. Searching you seem a very nice and sincere person and I'm wondering if you're not limiting yourself by putting too much pressure on yourself? Maybe if you just relax and put yourself out there, without any preconcieved notions of who you're looking for, forming lots of social connections? Well the old saying rings true you've got to be outgoing to be going out with women. In my experience that's the key to meeting someone you click with, in any event it gives you the opportunity to showcase the gentelmanly and social traits that will attract the type of women you seek. Nobody wants to stuck with a stoddgy introvert and both sexes are more attracted to lively, funny, extroverts. In any event that's just MHO and I wish all luck and happiness in their lives. In the end we are nothing more or less than the sum total of our experiences so don't pass on any opportunities.

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Posted on Jun 26, 2010 at 06:00 PM

Yes,Jag 6000 you are right.However,I would bet if you did get them the money,you would never ever see them again.Anyhow,thank you for your comments.


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Posted on Jun 26, 2010 at 05:37 AM

Searching it's very simple to filter out that old air fare scam.Just tell them that you'd go over to meet them for a date at your own expense.


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Posted on Jun 25, 2010 at 08:22 PM

Yes,Helena2006.none us are happy all the time.We should try to have a positive altitude,however.As for scammers,there will always be there.Just be careful and do not believe everything you are told.especially like one person told me they would send me 2 million dollars.Right.Some sort of trick.You should also not send money.You must do your own vigilance,the web-sites may take a while to get on to these persons.


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Posted on Jun 24, 2010 at 11:45 PM

Of course none of us is happy all the time but what we do to support each other/or have done, is to post the scammers "identity" and comments - it helps all to separate the trash from the valuable

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Posted on Jun 20, 2010 at 07:24 PM

Thanks you,Helena 2006 for your comments.As for being happy,not all the time.Try to keep a positive altitude however.As for the woman I looking for coming around,hope you are right.Only time will tell.The sad thing some of these women are only scammers.You should have read the far-fetched e-mail Lonely Lauren send me.Another one hinted around she wanted air-fare,Guess what,if you send a woman money for air-fare you will never see her.Don,t anyone fall for it.Still I am hoping to find a sincere person.


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Posted on Jun 18, 2010 at 08:41 PM

Searching2007 you sound like a very nice, sincere person. Handicap should be no handicap to finding someone interesting. You write a lot and have really sincere points to make and you are usually so upbeat about it all. Keep at it and eventually the lady you are seeking will appear. Just don't bother to answer negativity because it drags you down and you actually come across as a happy person.

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Posted on Jun 12, 2010 at 02:47 PM

Yes,Jag 6000,you are right when a woman reject us guys for those reasons.we may be better off with out her.We should all remember that,thanks for pointing it out.


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Posted on Jun 12, 2010 at 08:54 AM

Searching when a girl rejects  someone for any of those trite reasons I always look on it as as saying a lot about her and I'm better off without those girls anyway.I read one of litenbrite's comments concerning my issues in which she said that I might be more attractive to a girl if I was wearing a white shirt in my photo lol.It's just more symptoms of the feminist society and upbringing in which girls these days grow up with feminism forced into their thinking from an early age.I'd go a step further than you back to the thinking of the days before feminism was even thought of.In those days the issue of physical attraction really only applied to how attractive the girl looked to the man not how physically attractive he looked to her and it was just one of those healthy male female double standards.That issue is only a recent thing which the feminists have managed to put into the psyche of young girls who are now all looking for physical perfection in men and reject those who they perceive as not fitting the subjective standard suggested to them by those feminist women who've fed them such bs.I've said it before and I'll say it again it should be eligibility,love,loyalty and personality which are the qualities which girls should be looking for in a man not mainly physical attraction and in earlier pre feminist days that was the main things that girls based their choices on.However men are programmed to look for those qualities in a girl too but physical attraction should apply much more in the case of when a man makes his choice for a woman.It's one of nature's double standards which the feminists could'nt live with and have removed or even reversed in modern society unless you're very lucky in finding a good old fashioned girl,like Nicola Philpot,who sees the feminist bs for what it really is with the exception that even she did'nt seem to make the distinction between a bloke who's single/eligible or giving another chance in life to a divorcee.But the reason for that natural double standard in physical attraction applying as a quality which only men should look for in women but only loyalty and monogamy being what (should) form the basis of the girl's choice is/was probably nature's way of stopping the ridiculous situation in the animal world of harems like deer etc. have in which only the most physically perfect of the males gets to breed with the available females and the rest of the males die childless and single and most of the gene pool goes to waste.The logical conclusion being future generations all becoming inbred half sisters and brothers and future harems of half sister females all breeding with one of their half brothers.What price feminism then.


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Posted on Jun 11, 2010 at 06:25 PM

Yes,Jag6000,you are right I goofed and got it backwards,still you know what I means,I am not only talking about age.I expect most ladies in the country to reject me for that.However,I am handicap.I am sure many rejected me for that.Now I am old and my age is a major obstacle.Many women will reject a guy because of his appearance,economic status or  a handicap.Or even a trite reason like he does not like football and she does.The funny thing is many of these women think it terrible  the guy judge her on her looks,which I don,t.A lot of hypocrisy on their part.


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Posted on Jun 11, 2010 at 07:31 AM

Searching that should have been if there was more women than men maybe the women would'nt be so picky.I think they are often picky in some ways but it's a subjective pickiness that does'nt seem to have any real consistency or reasoning behind it in my experience.But as I've said if there's girls like Nicola Philpot out there it just makes it all more of a total mystery to me.She certainly was'nt picky and if only there could be lots more girls like her out there but who would be picky on the issue of single never married older blokes getting the girl versus married/seperated/divorced ones.But on the subject of feminist career girls waiting too long before having their children that's their problem.But what is unforgiveable is that those same feminists are in places of authority like government and schools and they're forcing their perverted view of society onto young impressionable girls who have'nt yet made their minds up but who don't get to hear the other side of the story.The result being yet more blokes left on the shelf until those new generation of girls suddenly realise too late that they've been fed a load of feminist bs and start looking to start a family when it's all too late for them too.


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Posted on Jun 10, 2010 at 04:59 PM

Well.I wish someone would put single blokes like us out of our misery.Do not feel bad.I am in a very similar situation and I agree our society is indeed hypocritical.Yes,we are indeed only looking for a chance to be happy.The problem is a lot of persons who found someone and are happy ,do not really understand  our situation.They can not.I think it great they found someone.However,they do not  and can not understand  our situation.I would not really wish it on anyone.At any rate,i am not going to worry about what persons  think about me,I am simply going to try to acheive my objective.As for the ratio of men to women,I know nothing about that.It sounds plausible.Maybe,if the was more men than women,.maybe some of the women would not be so picky.Anyhow ,there are some foreign ladies on the web.Do not think there are a lot of Scandanavian ones.As far as women putting their careers ahead of having children,,many later regret it.Their biological clock run out.The fact that a 50 years old woman,will wait till that age,then get fertility treatments  ,and risk her life,prove women who want children are waiting far too long.


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Posted on Jun 10, 2010 at 12:48 PM

lustyinfw and helena money is only some of the issue but not all of it when it comes to hypocricy in modern society concerning age gap or any other type of relationships.How many times have we seen yet another politician who's been extolling 'family values' while at the same time running around doing whatever they want themselves with whoever they want.Many of those politicians being the same ones who'd want blokes looking for a much younger wife locked up while they are often in the type of 'relationships' with their own sex that they themselves would have been locked up for not long ago.And no helena check out Joe and Nicola Philpot if you want to know what true age gap love means although yet again it's a divorced bloke who already had the chance to have a wife and raise a family who got the girl and got another chance to have another family while single blokes go without for life.Searching2007 Edith Piaff was just another of those women who never actually knew the meaning of true love or the sanctity of marriage and you need to get real on the issue of the male versus single eligible young female ratios in other countries despite all of the ill informed information written there as usual by helena concerning Scandinavia.No the fact is it's easy to confuse the general low population density in  Scandinavia with the ratio of men to young eligible women.If there really were that many young women going spare over there don't you think that they'd all be on websites like this one putting single blokes like us out of our misery.If not that at least waiting with open arms when British blokes like me go over there for a trip.But on the subject of hypocricy nothing comes close to the present (non existent) laws concerning adultery and divorce which allow married/seperated/divorced blokes to just dump their wives as they wish and then get as many more chances in life as they want with the few young single girls we've got while single blokes like me get called a dirty old man and a creep for looking for just one chance in life with one of those young single girls.That's in addition to getting called a dirty old man by a society which seems happy enough to now call same sex relationships normal and acceptable and heterosexual large age gap ones perverted and socially unacceptable.However on the age of majority yes helena let's settle on the Scandinavian one not the bs US one worldwide and on websites like this one then at least we might get a bit more of a chance to date those so called spare women there and everywhere else considering as you said 'when needs must' in keeping with the ratio of young single women to men as it stands these days and in my case being able to date a 15 year old girl on here,in as you say a situation when/where there's not enough women to men,she still would'nt be 40 years my junior.I've always said that the wrong side won the US civil war because if it had then that age of majority would be at least 13 just like it still was when Jerry Lee Lewis married his cousin.The answer to supermoto's question is the same as the reason why young women are sometimes on the frontline in war zones and often put a career as more of a priority than having children when they're young.It's feminism and equality gone mad and if you treat that type of woman properly like a lady they will probably take offence not thank you for it.In addition to that many of them prefer to take a bloke with a history of treating other women badly than to give a single bloke who'd treat her right a chance.


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Posted on Jun 09, 2010 at 05:32 PM

Can not help you,sempermoto,I got no idea.why.However,know what you are talking about.It is a very good question.Maybe,someone else can explain it.


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Posted on Jun 09, 2010 at 08:14 AM

Well I saw a few episodes of Lost till things on the tube got so, what's the word? Infantile? I had my cable pulled because the only few things that were redeming enough to watch wasn't worth the cost of keeping the service. Imo we let tv do too much of the deciding for us. How to look, what to wear, the selling of "trend" and who to date. I was recently at a drug store where I saw this sunglass display rack and they had a picture of three people wearing sunglasses one young guy one young girl and the "milf/cougar". No males that looked our age. It's like we're being marked for extinction and mass hypnosis where everybody is starting to look like everybody else and be the same as everybody else. "What's up with that"??? Nobody wants to knock off the bowler hat and say/yell.........THINK FOR YOURSELF!!! It's time someone did.

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Posted on Jun 08, 2010 at 06:10 PM

Thank you,Helena 2006,it id quite true in some foreign countries,a older man like me is at a advantage,Unfortunately,not in the United States.It is a great country,however.The ratio of men to women is not too good.here.However,who is Edith Piatt?


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Posted on Jun 08, 2010 at 04:26 AM

this is for all the young women i see everyday. i see you driving him around then at the pumps i see you get out and pump and even pay, then i see you at dinner does he pull out your chair stand until you sit he eats you leave tip and you pay he walks out and leaves you standin, i cannot understand why no mannors/no job/no respect/ but they find all the finest please some explain. old buck good guys why

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Posted on Jun 07, 2010 at 07:34 PM

You hit the proverbial nail on its gigantic head. Money covers all age disparity. In Scandanavian Europe where the ratio of men to women is definitely to the male advantage, age differences are not so much of a problem. Historically, when there are not enough women to men, again, there is no issue with a man marrying a women 40 years his junior - u No, needs must. Whatever, who cares once you have achieved the age of majority. Check out Edith Piaff and see what true AgeMatch type love is

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Posted on Jun 05, 2010 at 02:23 PM

Oddly enough, if the dirty old man has a lot of money, then society is less likely to point the finger at him, but rather calls the female a gold digger. Apparently, having a lot of money forms a protective barrier to guard against certain kinds of shame. For example, if you cheat on your wife and you are poor, then you are just a jerk or an *ssh*le; if you do the same and you are rich, then you have a 'sex addiction problem'. Go figure...

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