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Posted on May 19, 2010 at 06:58 PM

Well,I am getting old.Sad,but true.We all do.I do not know how many here watch the soon-to-be-cancelled series Lost.Very weird show.Anyhow there is a character in the show called Richard who never gets any older.Do we all not wish the same was true of  us.Well,unfortunately.that is just fantasy.As for the title of my blog ,those are 2 common names for those of us who seek younger partners.A cougar is of course a woman who seeks younger men.It is also the name of a predatory animal.Well,of course there are women seeking younger men on this site.It dedicated to age-gap relationships.Now a dirty old man is a man who seeks younger woman.Only some are doing it because they may desire family.The biological clock is strange.A woman biological clock runs out earlier.Maybe at early as 37 in some cases.Of course women have children in rare cases even in their 50s ,with fertility treatments.Still,childbirth is always dangerous and more so at that age.A man can still have children even as late as his eightys.No,I not that old,yet,thanks god.Of course,the irony is most women who are young enough to still have children,won,t be interested in older men.Understandable.It could be a bit too much to handle.Fortunately,there are web-sites like this,when we can find them.As for cougars ,if you think a woman seeking younger men is bad,would you rather be pursue by  the other type of cougar?I am not seeking a older woman,since I hope to eventually have one child.However,if I had that out of the way,I may be game.Sometimes,I think it may be hypocrtitical on my part.Anyhow as long as the persons involved are adults and they are both okay with it,they should not be bother by what others think.They also say december-may relationships never work.Well,maybe usually they do not work.However,sometimes they do.Look Aston Kutchner and Demi Moore are still together right and there are others.Well,good luck to all on this site in finding someone.


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Posted on May 08, 2017 at 04:32 AM

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Posted on Aug 22, 2010 at 12:21 PM

Yes,Jag,I completely agree with you about abortion.It is shameful and the mother often later feel guilty.the women libbers who support this are a shame.


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Posted on Aug 20, 2010 at 08:09 PM

Searching I think that it's probably that same supreme court and those feminists who've corrupted the whole issue of human reproduction in developed countries like ours to the point where,as I've said in my previous comments,they wish to outlaw or at least discourage young girls being made mothers at exactly the time in life when it's best for them to do so but are then happy to see medical rescources put into fertility treatment so that women can have children at an unnaturally old age just to suit their career interests and where a medical centre which can conveniently see the value in the life of an unborn/premature born child in medical difficulties to do everything posssible to save it's life but in another case is happy to terminate the life of another healthy child just on some badly informed whim,mostly on the part of others,concerning wether it's mother is considered to be able to do her maternal role in life.In many cases resulting in a lifetime of guilt and regret for the unfortunate badly informed mother and which should bring shame on all those involved,including authorities like that court,in the decision,to end her child's life.

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Posted on Aug 20, 2010 at 12:22 PM

Yes,Jag we both do not like abortion.Like you,I believe that life begins at conception.Unfortunately,our supreme court here said much to the delight of the women libbers,.I am sure that it was legal.What can you do?As for Michael Douglas,I wish him the best.Cancer is a serious disease.Of course,at least fortunately some cancers can be treated.


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Posted on Aug 20, 2010 at 02:44 AM

litenbrite I don't ever remember saying that everything you say is bs but I really can't understand your continuing inability to understand the simple issue of how we've got a society in which a single bloke gets left on the shelf while a married/seperated/divorced one gets second or more chances in life to have a wife and family.That's got absolutely nothing to do with love,chemistry etc etc.But if you don't believe that I'm looking for a loving relationship or that I've ever mentioned the word I'd advise you to check out my comments on the forum topic comments and suggestions amongst others.But on the issue of emotional maturity I'd say that you're way underestimating the maturity levels in most teenaged girls in that that their preferences are programmmed in at that point in life and it makes no difference wether a girl is 15 or 30 as to wether or not she'd rather give a married/seperated/divorced bloke second or more chances in life while leaving single blokes on the shelf.The fact is there's no way that they'd know wether the single bloke has the chemistry and can offer them the love and stability required to make a marriage work if they won't even give him the chance of that first date before deciding to go for the married/seperated/divorced bloke instead.But litenbrite the issue of 'experience' in that context always seems to win out where in reality it just means that the girl is looking for a bloke with a track record of failure in previous relationships and those girls often pay the price of their mistake when true to form he treats them the same.

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Posted on Aug 19, 2010 at 06:35 PM

Jag,thanks for your comments.


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Posted on Aug 19, 2010 at 05:47 AM

Searching thanks for those comments.I'd just clarify some of my points the first being that I'm not saying that we don't have bad mothers over here and there certainly have been cases of dumped new born children.However it's not an age related issue in there are good and bad in all age groups.In general a girl who would be a bad mother as a teenager would probably also be a bad mother when she's older too and vice versa and on that note there's no reason why any father should be convicted of statutory in the case of an under 18 mother but as far as I know that law is only mainly applied there on the typical double standards basis of older blokes,not ones of the same age as the girl,or your prisons would be full of teenaged/early 20's blokes/fathers considering the US teenaged pregnancy rates and the fact that there probably are'nt many 18 year old virgins there just like here LOL?.Having said that it seems that Joe Philpot and other blokes who I know of here who fathered children with under 18 mothers would have been jailed in the States if they'd done that there which just seems stupid to me as it would serve no purpose other than depriving those children of a Father and their wives of a husband but some decent laws against divorcees getting those young single girls in the first place,thereby giving single blokes the chance to have a family,are actually what's needed.The age issue is just a hypocritical red herring.However you're right on the abortion issue and it's the feminists who support it who are just as bad,if not worse,than those bad mothers of whatever age who dump their new born children in the garbage or wherever.There really is something sick about a society which does'nt believe that life starts at conception and in which we have the paradox and irony of an unborn or premature born child receiving medical treatment to save it in one part of a hospital while in another part of the same hospital a healthy unborn child has it's life terminated on the whim of it's parents and the feminists often for no better reason than their economic situation and against a background of childless couples who'd be willing to adopt them.As for Michael Douglas' situation if I'd have had a life like he's had I would say that I had made more on life's swings than I'd lost on it's roundabouts.

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Posted on Aug 19, 2010 at 04:18 AM

Jag, Maybe those young girls chose a "HAS BEEN" over "A NEVER WAS" because they were not Emotionly mature enough to choose stability, instead of a someone that wasn't so stable, but was experienced in life, and showed them, maybe fun, charm, and passion, even if it was short lived. and I never ever hear you mention the words LOVE, Feelings, or CHEMISTRY. but there again, no matter how I have tried to understand you,and actualy listened to you going on about the same old things, I have even felt sorry for you. you always end up insulting me and telling me what I say is always BS. Could it be that your attitude has prevented you from having a good and loving relationship, instead of those Divorced blokes getting second chances. I have been trying to bring people together on this site, You have insulted me many times. I don't hurt anyone intentionly, I am a decent good woman, who has experienced life. I help people every day, I find Missing people, Missing things, Help people Heal in many ways, I am even respected by many members of the Medical and Legal Profession. A lot of this I do free. To help my fellow human beings, If you really think I talk BS and want to run me off, as I have heard you have others, your mistaken.

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Posted on Aug 18, 2010 at 07:39 PM

Well.Jag you wrote a long post with some interesting points.Hope I can recall it all.Did read a little of the story about Joe and Nicole Philpot on the internet.Yes,it is possible that a woman in her fortys can have kids.However,it is rare.It is true,a younger woman is more likely.I did see that I think you was looking for a woman between the age of 18-28.Well.I guess that is at least adult.I still feel that under 18 should be off-limits and always will.Our countries are different in  their laws.However,it is good that to hear that no one in England is throwing babies in the trash.They have a few times here.As far as abortion is concerned,this will get a lot of women mad(probably women libbers)however I believe it is morally wrong.Some will say a woman got a right to do whatever she want with her own body.However,a unborn baby or a fetus  with the potential to become a human being,is not really her own  body.I do not see how you can believe in abortion if you really value human life.Maybe,if the mother life is in danger I can understand it.Or in cases.Still.on the whole I do not like abortion at all.As for women who get pregnant,then do not want the responsibility of being a mother,I would suggest the really novel idea they do not get pregnant in the first place.It is true ,I do not know any under18 mothers.Maybe,because in the Un ited States the guy that does that is guilty of statury.Yes,I knowthat Catherine Zeta Jones is much younger than Michael Douglas.I do not think she married him because of his money or fame.I think she has enough of that aleady on her own.So.,maybe there is still hope for us.Unfortunately.I think Michael Douglas,s biggest problem right now is throat cancer.Thanks for your comments.


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Posted on Aug 17, 2010 at 10:40 AM

litenbrite About those 'hot' 'Latin' girls.How 'hot'?,how young?,how many?,and if there's one of them out there for me then she's found Mr Right right now LOL.But litenbrite no not really Michael Douglas as the circumstances of the start of his relationship with Catherine Zeta Jones were a bit predictable and which would probably rule out an ordinary bloke like me getting a girl like her who obviously attatched a lot of importance to material wealth in her search criterea.However I've said it before and I'll say it again it's Joe Philpot who gives hope to every ordinary working class bloke like me.If he was good enough for a single teenaged girl like Nicola Philpot why can't I be ????.And searching to give you one of those swift kicks why don't you ditch your issues about not being good enough and some of those American preconceptions and follow his example with the exception that over there you'd be lumbered with the US age laws.Unlike me and him LOL.Having said all that if we had some laws which stop married/seperated/divorced blokes getting young single girls it might change that situation in which it's blokes like Michael Douglas and Joe Philpot who get the girls while single blokes like me go without.

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Posted on Aug 12, 2010 at 05:16 PM

Litenbrite,thanks you for your advice.I am sure it was well-intentioned.You know there is already a dating site for persons with disability on the net.However,starting a dating site would cost a lot of money and takes a lot of time.Not to mention that you do not know how it will do.Look at all the competition.Sure I play with the idea ocassionally.Need the money,time and technical know how.It can be hard.As far as Jag blaming others,I can understand his frustration.As  far as dating sites are concerned I may not be a gold member of this one for much longer.Just got a wink from someone who supposedly found my profile interesting.Also interesting when I checked out who viewed me,she was not there.Which is another problem with having your own dating service,you got to try to get all those with ulterior motives out of the site.Thank for your well-intentioned advice.However,I doubt I will ever do it.


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Posted on Aug 12, 2010 at 12:29 AM

Searching, I am not being mean when I say about being shy and overcoming it. and I can understand that a speech impedament could make you self concious, but there are also women in the same predicament. I think you are doing well and are open to good advice. I have heard Jag blaming everyone else so many times, I just think when something doesnt work, change your stratedgy. and stop going over the same thing again and again. Don't get me wrong I think Jag is a genuinly nice man, and would make someone a good husband, I just try and give him a swift kick every now and then.Your circumstances are different, Have you ever thought of starting a site of your own for people with speech difficulties?. Because. I am sure that others that have suffered through this would be so happy to find others that understood. and being as you have overcome this in your life you would be a good Mentor.

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Posted on Aug 09, 2010 at 10:25 PM

Jag, If you are looking for a very young woman....of course they are going to have erratic criteria, they havnt grown up emotionaly, You have your criteria too. which makes looking for what you want like searching for a needle in a haystack. Step back and look at the present circumstances and make some appropriate changes, because you are just making it more and more difficult for yourself. widen your own horizens.and look for someone who will love you first,it might be a young woman, Or just set out to be Michael Douglas, would that be possible? I don't think so. We all have to adapt to our circumstances and make the very best of what we have. and someone that loved you would be a start.

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Posted on Aug 09, 2010 at 01:54 AM

Gig, does that mean those Eastern Europeians have stolen you away from us?.... and they wouldnt understand your jokes! Do you realise there are lots of Eastern Europeans in Miami, a bunch of them are clients of mine, then you have the hot Latin girls.So you have quite a variety of Ethnic beauties on your doorstep. Everyone comes to the Keys to chill out.

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Posted on Aug 09, 2010 at 01:19 AM

Elwood, that is totaly insulting. I enjoy blogging, and if you have an active mind it takes a couple of minutes to type a blog, and since I started others have started to blog again too. Of course when I have finished blogging I still have at least 23 hrs and 55 min left in the day to do other things. You are reading our blogs, I suggest you write your own blog, and see how many people are interested in what YOU have to say.

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Posted on Aug 08, 2010 at 04:07 PM

Well.Elmwoow2000,one good thing about spending a lot of times on these blogs is that I got to know Jag6000 and Litenbrite better.Also I think the persons who write and read these blogs are more sincere than some others on this site.After all,those who are scammers can not spend the time.Althrough,Elmwood,I am sure your motives are good.I do not even think a scammer would take a minute to read them.


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Posted on Aug 07, 2010 at 09:45 AM

Yes,I am on the blogs a lot.However,I do other things as well.Good luck with this site.


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Posted on Aug 07, 2010 at 07:49 AM

elwood2000 if it was a case of having no life,other than searching for a wife,then I'd have given up on life long ago.LOL.But my chances of finding a wife would be a lot better if it was'nt for young single girls preferring to give blokes,who've already had their chance in life and blown it,another chance.But the sad thing is that in addition to there being more young single girls who prefer to give a married/seperated/divorced bloke second or more chances in life,in marriage,there are also more young single girls looking for a casual relationship with a bloke who's run out on his wife than there are single girls who prefer to give a single bloke one chance in life in a decent life time marriage with a bloke who wants to treat them right.That's why I have to put so much time and effort into searching.

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Posted on Aug 06, 2010 at 02:47 PM

you, jag, and litenbrite, seem to have taken up alot of time one here...perhaps you all hve no life, besides these blogs....

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