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Posted on Jul 25, 2010 at 06:09 PM

I am getting a number of messages from this web-site in my e-mail that persons I am communicating with have their profiles blocked because they have violated the service agreement.While it is great they are catching these persons and getting rid of them,why are there so many on this site in the first place.It is really discouraging to find out so many persons you are in contact with have ulterior motives.Bluntly,I am asking myshelf what is the point.I do not like to waste my time.It is valuable to me.I am now wondering how many persons on this site is sincere or just have other motives.


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Posted on Aug 17, 2011 at 03:15 PM

OK, so now back to the original question: How many people are genuinely sincere, honest and serious about finding thier soulmate on this web site ? ME !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am (1) :)

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Posted on Sep 07, 2010 at 07:22 PM

Jag6000,thanks you for your advice.I agree it is probably just as hard for men our age to find women young enough to start family.However,otherwise it is a great country.


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Posted on Sep 06, 2010 at 09:15 AM

Amaz2000 There's also one more simple way of finding out if they're genuine and that's to ask them very quickly after making contact if they're up for a date and any African scammer who's masquerading as a young white western woman is'nt going to want to meet up for a date lol.But I can't understand why African scammers would involve the UK in their scams.The fact is the UK has one of the worst numbers problems in respect of young single women so if you see a young woman's profile over there with any type of connections here then there's a good chance that it's too good to be true and that it's probably a scam.However the genuine ones we've got here are now so spoiled for choice that it's just a lottery who gets them.The States does'nt seem much different either.

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Posted on Sep 05, 2010 at 07:35 AM

Amaz2000,thanks you for your information.I am sure many persons will be help by your tips.A lot of persons will also tell you how much they like your profile,even if they did not look at it.Best of luck.


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Posted on Sep 03, 2010 at 04:51 AM

In my experience, those with less than honorable intentions tend to: 1) Post an amazing picture of high quality and "too good to be true" beauty. 2) Ask for Yahoo or other addresses. 3) Weave this heart-wrenching story of being mugged or have a dying parent. 4) Typically use the word "Cos" in place of "Because." "Cos" is an African dialect - typically used in Nigeria among English-speaking people. RED FLAG. 5) Start calling you "sweetheart" or "honey" even before you get to know them. Typically in the first or second email. 6) Rave about how much they love your profile when you know in your heart of hearts that your profile is - at best - superficial or lacking in details. 7) Ask for money. 8) Live in this town in the U.S. but are writing from the U.K. 9) Cannot give you details on the town they live in (or any other thing) despite your insistence on specific answers to questions. 10) Don't write like ordinary Americans do. I find them to be very annoying and counterproductive, but with a little practice you can weed them out quickly. Best -

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Posted on Aug 26, 2010 at 06:09 PM

Mrs,Romantic,you are welcome,I am not a expert,However,I have encountered scammers here and elsewhere.You are right not to divulge your e-mail address until you feel comfotrtable.Good luck in your search.


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Posted on Aug 23, 2010 at 11:47 PM

Searching, thank you very much for your quick reply. I went on another site and I had people ask my for my yahoo e mail address right away. They claimed they do not want to use their credits and its better to chat on yahoo. I always try to avoid people like that because I am only comfortable talking via the site for a while.

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Posted on Aug 23, 2010 at 07:59 PM

Mrs.Romantic,Just use common sense.For example ,if someone tell you they live in the United States and then say they live in another country.Or maybe they want your personal e-mail address right away.They may not want to communicate with you on this site,because the site will have the experience to know what they are doing.Or if someone say they like your profile,and They are not in the who,s viewed you,when you click.Or they say they,re in the United States and yet talk like a foreigner.You can read the Dating Tips on this site for more information.Whatever you do,never send anyone money under any circumstances.We can not be scam unless we let it happens.


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Posted on Aug 23, 2010 at 03:32 PM

Searching2007, How can I tell if one is a scammer? what sign should i be looking for? i am new to this blog. Thanks.

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Posted on Jul 27, 2010 at 05:56 PM

Good points now.Maybe,I will take your suggestions Jag6000  ,see what happens.You are right Lucasa, we should be glad this site get rid of these scammers so fast.I think the reason so many are drawn to this particular site is because it is a age-gap relationship site.The real truth is most persons are not interested in age-gap relationships.Of course there are a few.There is always exceptions to any general rule.Good luck and thank you.


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Posted on Jul 26, 2010 at 05:31 PM

Thanks for your comments,Litenbrite,it is true that there are scammers probably on all dating sites.They do waste our valuable time,however.Yes,this web-site does get rid of them,which is great.no,these scammers are not smart.One person actually before expected me to believe they were going to send me two million dollars.No one will do that for any reason.As for men and women both being scammers,I am sure that is true,however a man may pretend to be a woman and vice-versa ,depending on who they are trying to scam.However,when I wrote this blog I was frustrating,because it seemed like everone I was in ciommunication with was found out to probably be up to  something.It seems very hard to find the really sincere ones.


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Posted on Jul 26, 2010 at 09:56 AM

Searching if you don't want to waste time ask them in the first,or at most second,e mail if they're up for a date.The result will usually,in my experience,be an evasive answer.Some/most will be just timewasters but not scammers.It's best to rely on the site's blogs,forums,and wink services until you can find someone,using them first,who really seems to be worth paying for the e mail service to talk to and arrange a date.

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Posted on Jul 26, 2010 at 09:09 AM

Searching a tend to agree w/ Lite. People are scammers whether they live in the virtual world or real world. Be happy that this site is able to find them and give them the boot.

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Posted on Jul 25, 2010 at 11:00 PM

Searching, Its happening on most of the dating sites, only Age Match Support are very good at weeding them out, and on here you can ask them to verify who they are. Fortunatly the people that are Scamming [both Men and Women] are not very smart, and you can tell when they start emailing, they don't ansew direct questions, they go over the top, talking at you rather than to you. None of us have time for their nonsense, but at least this service does exist, and this particular site tries to get rid of them.

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