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Posted on May 31, 2010 at 05:35 PM

This would be a great web-site if the persons would all be honest in their profiles.When someone says in their profiles that they are here in the United States,I expect them to be in the United States,not some foreign country.It possible that I may consider going to some foreign country in time.Not Ghana or Nigeria,however.Nothing personal against persons in those countries.Too many sc ammers there,do not want to risk it.If you are in the United States and you then re-locate to some foreign country,then please take the time to change the location on your profile.Also if you are in a foreign country and you seems to be in a red-hot hurry to get marry,right away I am going to wonder if you are just trying to get American citizenship.In which case,you will probably just dump me once you get it.Just wanting to get that off my chest.I suppose a web-site like this dedicated to age-gap relationships will draw more persons with ulterior motives.After all,really how many women really want men much older than themsleves.Of course,a rare few will.How many of you guys have found out the woman who claimed to be in the United States,was actually in the  a foreign country?


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Posted on Sep 02, 2010 at 11:20 PM

Thanks Richard,for your comments and advice,I am sure they will be many like Jag ,me and others who will be help.


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Posted on Sep 02, 2010 at 06:00 AM

richard sometimes European girls see nothing wrong with marrying blokes who are 30 + years older and a 20 year age gap is'nt enough for my search criterea.However those 'sometimes' are getting far less frequent here now than they were when I was young myself and got turned down as a teenager by a girl of my own age who married a divorcee of 48 when she was 18.That experience and the modern day situation,in which most girls,wether here or in the US, won't look at anyone more than around 10 years older than themselves but married/seperated/divorced blokes still have more chance,just sums up what's been an ironic catch 22 of a life.

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Posted on Aug 31, 2010 at 11:19 AM

oh!! also Jag if you want a younger woman and are not having any luck on this site. that is where i met my future 24 yr old wife Ira i have met her family and everything and she is a wonderful amazing woman. We are just waiting on the visa then she will be here. Believe me i could be an expert as many as i have visited and been ripped off on. But the one i mention above is on the up and up and you actually get to see the girl you are talking with on webcam. It is a little pricey but well worth it if you are searching for a younger wife. And European woman see nothing wrong with dating and marrying men 20 years their sr.

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Posted on Aug 31, 2010 at 10:57 AM

Just so you know any woman that lies about her/his location or country of orgin is a scammer. Been there done that!!

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Posted on Aug 25, 2010 at 12:00 AM

That sounds so cool Helena, "the older man of your dreams".

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Posted on Jul 12, 2010 at 11:11 AM

Helena read my profile if I was looking to fulfil a 'fantasy' that's what I would have written.As for the close sexual relationship that fits the description of marriage in my book and no I've never been married because in a world in which there's supposed to be someone for everyone in my experience it was more than one for some but none for me.I can certainly 'diss' the morals of a world in which having found that 'special person' a bloke can then run out on her and then take another one who should maybe be that 'special person' for me.

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Posted on Jul 10, 2010 at 07:23 PM

Jag, have you ever had a close sexual relationship with the type of partner you seek or has this all been a fantasy? You cannot diss those of us fairly who actually found that "special person" even if it did not last.

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Posted on Jun 25, 2010 at 05:25 AM

Helena it's not a case of them 'not being out there'.My issue concerns the the fact that they are out there BUT my experience through life has been of seeing one young single girl after another prefer the idea of going for a married/seperated/divorced bloke,thereby contributing to a broken home,and rejecting me as a single one in the process.The only difference these days is that where in my younger days it was much older married/seperated/divorced blokes who often got the girl it's now more often a case of 20-30 something married/seperated/divorced blokes standing much more of a chance than a 40-50 something single one.However even in those rare cases where the younger girls will take on a much larger age gap it's those married/seperated/divorced blokes who stand more chance for whatever reason.In view of the fact that most modern day young,single women won't excersice decent morals,when it comes to the 'eligibility' critera,then it's time that the church and the law forced them to.But the issue of me being upbeat or otherwise is totally irelevant in this context.You'll have noticed that I often refer to the age gap relationship between Joe and Nicola Philpot.It says everything about today's morals that their 38 year age gap is what caused public outrage but there were no complaints whatsoever concerning the issue that he was a divorcee who'd already had his chance in life to have a wife and family and if it had been me as a single bloke,who'd managed to find a girl of similar age to what she was when they met,that public outrage would have been just the same.The fact is every married/seperated/divorced bloke's second or more chances in life,with a young single girl,comes at the expense of a single bloke somewhere losing out in a world without enough young single girls of child bearing age to even match the numbers of single men looking for them.


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Posted on Jun 24, 2010 at 11:38 PM

Jag you really have to separate the women on this site looking for financial gain and those who would like to meet the man of their dreams/older man of their dreams. Everyone who has read a blog of yours knows that you seek a much younger female but the fact that you have had no luck so far means you should refine your search or maybe not be so aggressive in your 'hunt'. There are many single lonely women of all age groups as there are men but whether you get a response depends on you being more positive and upbeat not upon them not being out there. Please come up with an upbeat response

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Posted on Jun 20, 2010 at 05:38 AM

Helena I think that there's a 'massive' difference between my complaint,concerning young single women actively seeking married/seperated/divorced blokes (at the expense of broken homes/dumped wives) (while single blokes like me get left on the shelf for life)and the reference which you made concerning some wierd female stalker and I think that my complaint in that context is far more relevant to the issue raised by Claudia 2000 than yours is.But if you can read and if you're able to comprehend what I've written there it's anything but 'self serving'.And by the way Helena those single girls who I'm referring to don't hide or cheat about their motives at all.Their profiles all openly state that they've either got absolutely no preferences about the past/present relationships which a potential match has or they specify married/seperated/divorced.It really does'nt take a genius to understand that a young single girl who has written in her profile that she is looking for a married/seperated/divorced bloke or no preferences about his relationship status is looking for exactly that.For me to complain about that situation,as a single bloke,who has to compete against other blokes who've already got/had a wife and family,in a world which does'nt even have enough single girls for all the single men looking for them,in the mating game, does'nt seem self serving to me.But fairness never has been your strong point in your replies to my comments on here.I'll stand by my comments that it should me made illegal for married/seperated,divorced men to get second or more chances in life with young single women of child bearing age and for those girls to be involved in such homewrecking.


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Posted on Jun 18, 2010 at 08:37 PM

Claudia2007 I applaud you and totally agree that honesty would make a much better site. Unfortunately there will always be cheaters and liars. A few years back I was stalked on-line by a professional woman who got obsessed by my inane comments - not meant to harm anyone but unfortunately, she found fault with everything and everyone who was not weeping and sometimes I see Jag in that same mode where if it is not self-serving sorry (I apologize for the alliteration but it just happened) it is not valid. You are a positive influence here so keep searching and hope you find a good honest person.

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Posted on Jun 06, 2010 at 04:16 PM

Claudia 2000 and Searching I think that it's also the amount of young,single girls who are looking for married/seperated/divorced blokes which should disappoint those in authority who make the laws and the church especially when single men are being left on the shelf while homes are being wrecked by adultery and single girls willing to give married/seperated blokes an easy way out of their marriages.


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Posted on Jun 06, 2010 at 11:44 AM

I know a lot of Mexicans here in the United States.As for married persons being on dating sites,unfortunately that happens on a lot of dating web-sites.The marriage will probably not last,however.


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Posted on Jun 05, 2010 at 07:19 PM

Hello Searching2007 You're entirely right, this would be a much better site if people didn't lie in their profiles. This would be a much better world too if people didn't lie about themselves in general. I'm not quite sure, though, if lying about one's location would be useful in any way. I am a Mexican and I am proud of who I am and where I come from, so that's something I would never lie about. On the other hand I've seen worse lies going on in this site. I can't but think of how disappointed many wives and husbands would be if they happened to enter this page only to find out how mistaken they are about people they love and trust.

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Posted on Jun 01, 2010 at 06:11 PM

Thanks Jag6000 and Litenbrite for your comments.It is true it is almost always the ones who state the maximum age-limit at 99.Europe may be a good place to look.I can see I am not the only one.We should always be suspicious of anyone who says on their profile that they live in the United States and then later says they are in a foreign country.


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Posted on May 31, 2010 at 08:02 PM

Searching 2007

 

 

 

Before I start worrying about the possible motives of the girls in relation to possible immigration scams  there's lots of other issues which seem to apply.However there's no real way of knowing exactly who is behind a profile on any dating site and the proof of the matter seems to me to be that none of the relatively few women who I've been lucky enough to even get a reply from on dating sites seem to be genuinely looking for someone to date.In my case it's easier because I'm mostly,with very few exceptions,looking for White/Caucasian girls from Europe,North America,or Australia/New Zealand.The issue is simple if they don't want to meet for a date then the question must be why considering that there's no point in them replying if I'm not what they are looking for.However the issues seem to range from profiles which seem to have wierd age limits like 99 or distance limits which seem unrealistically vague.That's in addition to the typical issues/motives of single girls who seem happy going for married/seperated/divorced blokes.But if a girl in one of the white developed countries is genuinely looking for a single,older man then there should'nt be any problem with them meeting up for a date after exchanging some e mails and chatting on the phone and if each person phones each other it's easy to tell where the call numbers relate to and there's no real reason why the motive should be immigration between developed countries anyway certainly considering the very similar living standards between Europe and the US.However as I've said before the problem is the massive shortage of young single white/cacasian girls in the developed western/english speaking countries.If you add the issue of the genuine single girls,who are available and looking for older blokes,but who are also happy going for married/seperated/divorced blokes,the chances of those who are'nt yet spoken for not being a scam of one form or another are probably very slim but it's the only game in town so it's probably worth keeping on trying.


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Posted on May 31, 2010 at 06:40 PM

Good Blog Searching, I have found that some people say they live in the USA, then say they are working in Hong Kong or somewhere, you can smell a rat a mile away, but difficult 5000 miles.

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Posted on May 31, 2010 at 05:56 PM

Also I expect the member who said she located to a foreign country to change the location on her profile.If she does not,I may have to report a concern,again.Please  do not make me do it.


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