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Posted on Jul 31, 2010 at 05:48 PM

Was going through the blogs here a while back.Notice some persons said they were ignoring winks.One woman said the guy should be willing to talk to her.I must now take issue with this viewpoint.Was sending e-mails.Hoewever,am now giving it a rest.Maybe,I will change my mind.For now,I am not sending e-mail.The reason being  I send a bunch of e-mails out and later it turned out  a lot of these persons was kicked off this site because they violated the service agreement.Now,if I go to the trouble of writing a e-mail I would like to know the recepient is for real.Interesting enough,all these persons contacted me by sending me winks.Also they wanted my personal e-mail address right away.I am a gold member,so I am willing to spent the money.However,I would like to save my time for the sincere ones.On another subject I read that when a woman post a profile on a on-line dating site ,she may get as many as 100 e-mails.Can any of you women tell us if this is really true?That is a lot of competition,right then if it is really true.Also,if you would not mind could you maybe give us guys some tips on how to get our e-mails noticed and get a response?If you do not mind.It may help us.Thank you,in advance.


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Posted on Sep 02, 2010 at 06:23 AM

I am with you here. I have sent numerous emails on various sites and either never get a reply or find they are not real. They reply with a link to their xxx site. It takes so much time to write even a short but thoughtful email. So, I turn to winks because I don't know if they are real or not or, if they have interest in me. With a wink you are letting them know you are interested, They could just wink back to show interest is there for them too. Or reply with an email. Once interest is established investing time in writing emails wouldn't be a problem at all. I am here to get to know someone. Aren't we all... well except those who are really promoting adult sites... and 60% of those are really men.

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Posted on Sep 02, 2010 at 06:22 AM

I am with you here. I have sent numerous emails on various sites and either never get a reply or find they are not real. They reply with a link to their xxx site. It takes so much time to write even a short but thoughtful email. So, I turn to winks because I don't know if they are real or not or, if they have interest in me. With a wink you are letting them know you are interested, They could just wink back to show interest is there for them too. Or reply with an email. Once interest is established investing time in writing emails wouldn't be a problem at all. I am here to get to know someone. Aren't we all... well except those who are really promoting adult sites... and 60% of those are really men.

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Posted on Aug 29, 2010 at 04:10 PM

Well Jag 6000,thanks you for your advice.Below 25 years of age can be legal in my country,as long as it is al legal adult,however I do not know how many young women of that age would be willing to accept a man of my age,in this country,at least.


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Posted on Aug 26, 2010 at 06:03 PM

Claudia2000,thanks you for your advice.However,I have always turned off my auto-renewal.so,on Sept.17 ,I may only be able to send winks.This does not mean I am giving  up.It is just that I feel there may be better places to seek whom I am looking for,than this site.It may be okay if you seek about your own age or older.However,I think many (not all) of the younger women here have ulterior motives.What the point of beating a dead horse ,something does not work,maybe you should consider something else.Yes,I know for a man of my age to find a woman of child-bearing age is not easy.Maybe,harder than winning the lotto.Still.I will not give up until I am sure it is useless.


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Posted on Aug 24, 2010 at 11:53 PM

Hello Searching I'm sorry but you seem to be such a nice man that I'm not going to keep my mouth shut and I'll tell you what I honestly think. I hope that you don't mind. (You can always tell me to mind my own business too, lol) You see, in my opinion you shouldn't go for winks. Imagine this... You send a wink to someone, all this person can see is a customized message -"very flattering" (how long does that take to choose? 10 seconds?) next to a photo. Haven't you listened to the women here? That's not something they appreciate. Now, you don't just want to have a good time with a woman. For what I've read you want to find someone to start a family with. Well, you can't expect the whole thing about finding a woman willing to have a child with someone considerably older than her to be something easy. I -for example, am thirty five and I do consider myself too old for parenting. On the other hand, if that is what you truly wish for, you shouldn't stop trying. You are an intelligent man so... What have you got to lose? I don't thing scammers should be a problem for you (inconvenient and despicable as they may be) I guess what I mean to say is that it would be a waste if someone like you should quit trying. So, don't.

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Posted on Aug 23, 2010 at 02:39 PM

You use too many LOL man

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Posted on Aug 20, 2010 at 01:56 AM

Jag, Too much information.

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Posted on Aug 17, 2010 at 07:46 PM

Litenbrite.I do not know how accurate the Who,s Viewed Your Profile is.All I know is I have got umpthteenth messages from this site that persons I was in communication with have violated the service agreement.None in the Who,s View My Profile section.Read my last post here for my latest thoughts here.Anyhow,thanks you for your comments.


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Posted on Aug 17, 2010 at 07:38 PM

Helena2006,thanks for your post and your compliments.However,I am thinking of going back to being a standard member,again.Unless,I change my criteria,I wonder what is the point.Money and time.Too many of the young women or whomever they are on here with ulterior motives.We are sincere,I think everyone on the blogs are.The older women may at least be more sincere.i do not know.Of course,they may have past child-bearing age.So,possibly my money may be better spent on another web-site.Am not sure.as for Jag blowing his own horn.I think he really want to find a wife and have a family.Which is like he said before for guys our age,looking for a needle in a haystack.


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Posted on Aug 16, 2010 at 09:48 PM

Lady TMI for this site. And to you, you seem very sincere and I do like your input. Just be aware of Jag and the negative contributors and to those only out to blow their own horns. You do have some genuine responses so stick with them

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Posted on Aug 09, 2010 at 03:30 AM

Searching, the who"s viewed you is not always accurate. as I have had people that have commented on my blogs, and sent an email and they have refered to some things in my profile, but they didn't show up on that list.

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Posted on Aug 09, 2010 at 03:13 AM

Jag, I did give my phone number to somone, he called said my voice was very sexy.....then asked what colour panties I was wearing, I told him " Why do you want to know...did you want to borrow them?" and put down the phone.

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Posted on Aug 05, 2010 at 05:52 PM

Searching I think female androids might be something which those scientists might just about manage to be able to produce.But much too far removed from the 'real thing' I reckon so it's back to the drawing board.Having said that being that they would be just artificial robots with no real human attraction and which would take all the fun of natural human procreation out of the equation you can bet that they'd make that legal.

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Posted on Aug 05, 2010 at 04:52 PM

Helena2006,thanks for your comment.While it is true that some persons here sre genuine,such as on the blogs like us.I feel the unfortunate truth is that way too many of these persons are here for other reasons.Just now,I got a e-mail from someone saying she love my profile.The really interesting thing is when I checked out who viewed my profile,she was not there.How can you love someone,s profile without viewing it?As for the cloning.Jag another possibility is female androids.Is that also illegal.


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Posted on Aug 04, 2010 at 11:08 PM

I am actually answering your questions. I hate that there is a disconnect because some of us are genuine,

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Posted on Aug 04, 2010 at 12:16 PM

Searching I think I get your plan.If nature is too stupid to turn out enough girls then get the scientists to do it instead.But the problem is'nt so much the issue of the three headed mistakes it's more like those scientists just are'nt even clever enough to turn out any good looking women at all.But the Welsh blokes would probably be happy with just the sheep anyway but unfortunately for the scientists employment prospects they've got more than enough sheep in Wales already.

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Posted on Aug 03, 2010 at 06:15 PM

Helena2000,thanks for your comments.True,a e-mail is more personal than a wink.However,who are you sending to?A sincere person or a possible scammer?You can only guess.Just now,I got a e-mail from age-match that a person who send me a wink have violated the service agreement.Not a uncommon experience anymore.As for keeping it short,that may also be misconstrued by some as insincere.Just be careful.On a completely unrelated subject,the ratio of men to women and maybe not enough women.Well,as I said before human cloning is illegal.The possibilty of Something going wrong.Well,if the woman had two heads maybe I could get around it.However,probably not three heads.I means like they say two is company and three is a crowd.


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Posted on Aug 02, 2010 at 09:09 PM

It is like re-inventing the wheel - the winks vs e-mail debate. With a wink, nothing of real value is imparted; often there is no picture either. An e-mail is personal but if you go this route, keep it short to be sure the other person wants to respond in a like manner.

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Posted on Aug 02, 2010 at 07:02 PM

Jag, The incident that I was refering to was about as SEDUCTIVE as a plate of Pork fat to a Vegetarian. LOL! And when I said lighthearted to Searching, Its no good keep getting too serious as it can be too intense, after all,we are all on a type of human E bay, and on that people find even the most obscure things that they want...and get them. But if you don't bother to advertise that your available....How can you be found, or find who you want in your life.

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