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Posted on Jul 04, 2013 at 05:50 AM

You can be so commited to your beliefs at 20, 30 and into the 40's and stick steadfast to them and then you top that hill and see a whole new world. Sometimes it happens earlier or was just lying hidden deep within you.  

  Never ever, being the mother of sons, did I even consider seriously getting involved with a younger man. My friends would see a hot young man and say..  OMG, wouldn't you just love to.....  I would see a healthy young man who could be my son. That's how my brain worked. It just didn't go there.

  Then into my life came someone who grabbed my attention and my heart who happened to be 30 years my junior. Oh believe me I fought it, pushed the feelings back but it wasn't meant to be. Even at just being friend stage, we got looks, questions, jokes and some tsk tsk stuff. It's so hard for most people to see or want to see such age differences enjoying each others company. 

  I know since this man has come into my life I see things fresher and have become curious about things around me again. He has learned from me how to have more patience and tolerance for people.  It's not all about sex sometimes, but to most..that is what it has to be can't be anything but ...shame on her!

  Any relationship, no matter the ages, upbringing, race, gender, etc happens because that person fills something in your life you are needing to grow as a person. How you present that relationship to others is up to you. If you color it cheap and non-respectful then so shall it be. 

  I personally love my man and color him with pride, respect and my total belief in him.



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Posted on Nov 03, 2013 at 12:42 AM

 

Very happy for you. You are one of many couples I find where this works.

I had returned to this site just now once again since 2012 without results. I am on a mission to have my soul and mind attracted and connected to a much younger man and being. I am bringing it to the next level after going out on empty dates.

In the past it was just unsuspecting. Now, it is slowly being accepted. I am here because of a fellow member, and was fed up with the experience of other sites of those cruising for none other than a good time live in the moment thing. Congratulations on your awakening.


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Posted on Jul 05, 2013 at 09:02 AM

Hello Lite, nice of you to comment and also nice to meet you!

  I agree, has to be legal and agreed between those involved.  I currently am 61 and he is 31. I had a heart attack before Christmas past and its made me re-think a few things in my life and those in it. I passed and was brought back so I do look at life very differntly now.

 My point in my post was, I was never one to drool and make sexual comments about any man close to my sons ages so opening the door to this experience..  it was about the person, not a fantasy about a sexual image for me.  Age gap relationships happen for many reasons, sometimes not what people perceive of how it began.  I have had friends withdraw from me over this. Even though they know me quite well. These are male friends, so I have to feel they had desires they now know are not gonna happen, so they weren't a good friend after all.  Funny how true colors come out in time.  

  Thank you again for commenting and for the compliment, I think I regained back 15 years when he came into my life, it helps!



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Posted on Jul 05, 2013 at 02:02 AM

Hello SherSum Fun, Great Blogs, I echo your sentiments as long as that comes within lawful guidlines. Love is love, you can't stop it, and who would want to stop such a wonderful thing (only a few jealous or narrow minded people perhaps) We need more joy and love in this world, and hearing about it inspires others, you look really great by the way :-) 


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Posted on Jul 04, 2013 at 08:13 AM

where do u live which state


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