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Posted on Oct 27, 2012 at 01:31 PM

i have been on many sites and decided to try this one .i have a handicap but am not an invalid.it seems that when anyone  sees that they run.[i am not as active as some]that's not the problem here[or maybe it is].i'm not sure that i fit into the age gap thing.but then again,i don't seem to fit in too many social sites.i'm not moaning just musing.thanks.


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Posted on Nov 04, 2012 at 09:37 PM

There have  been previous and very enjoyable contributors on this site who are also handicapped and they contributed immensely to the conversations here.  Just hang in and keep with it and perhaps that special someone will appear.


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Posted on Oct 30, 2012 at 04:53 AM

you may be right.thanks


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Posted on Oct 29, 2012 at 07:50 AM

i have tried handicap sites.


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Posted on Oct 29, 2012 at 05:30 AM

Suds00, Its not a question of do you fit in,,,,its a question of who is a match to you, as you have said you have tried different sites, and I wondered if you tried the sites specialising in people with handicaps, as you mention that you have one. Good luck with your search.


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Posted on Oct 28, 2012 at 07:44 AM

I think we're all caught in a catch 22 of the vagaries of human attraction both in terms of what makes a bloke attractive to women and what makes them attractive to us.I've reached the conclusion that it's during the teenaged years when we find out wether we're going to be lucky in that regard or not.If we're not lucky at that age it's a fair bet that things aren't going to get any better as we get older.They'll only get worse and  being disabled or not doesn't make a lot of difference if that attraction isn't there anyway in just the same way that having no money or not enough when buying something in a shop is the same thing.With some obvious exceptions concerning certain types of disability which prove the rule.

 

 

 

As for the age gap thing either a girl has what it takes in the case of being happy with a very large age gap or they don't.But the fact is there's no way that anyone will realistically ever find that type of 1 in a million chance on any online dating site.Which realistically just leaves the choice of searching for a woman of the same/close age or wait until the next life.Although there's nothing to lose by leaving a profile on here and looking just in case that 1 in a million chance might just turn up on here (doubtful).


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