FIRST DATE IDEAS FROM MEMBERS
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Public place meeting for the first time because of safety measures. Second time will be different and private.
Category: Walking or Hiking
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Somewhere sunny, great wine, nice slow music, private setting. Somewhere we can talk and look into each other's eyes
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Lucheon setting in a cosy restaurant having sea food. Enjoying time getting to know each other in a public space.
Category: Lunch
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That completely depends and hopefully would be different between any two or more individuals. Looking forward to ours.
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Just all the bull crap this pop up quiet area no matter where we are as long as it's semi secluded dropping your knees and well I'll leave the rest of you
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I think a great icebreaker is meeting at an upscale espresso lounge or bistro in the afternoon. It keeps the energy light and easygoing, and if we're completely hitting it off, it can easily turn into a walk or early evening drinks.
Category: Cafe
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A great first date to me is something relaxed where we can actually talk and get to know each other. Grabbing drinks or dinner somewhere with a good atmosphere, followed by a walk, live music, or sitting by the water sounds perfect. Bonus points if there’s good food, laughter, and zero awkwardness.
Category: Drinks
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Maybe not the fanciest restaurant, but certainly a very good one. I'm not interested in pretending to enjoy bad food, while trying to calm my social anxiety! First dates are fun, but insanely awkward sometimes. Let's go somewhere we can foodgasm together.
Category: Dinner
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The Subterranean Speakeasy
Because you're explicitly keeping things physical and light, avoid bright daytime dates. A dimly lit, underground speakeasy—think somewhere with the secretive vibe of Dockum downtown—sets an intimate, adult tone the second you walk in. You handle the logistics of getting the table and managing the evening, so she just has to show up, have a drink, and see if there's a spark.
Category: Dates That Make a Difference
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I suggest we grab lunch afterward, go shopping, and prepare for a romantic date later. We can also talk about each other’s interests and how we can make our relationship work.
Category: Shopping
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A dinner with some drink drinks and then maybe a movie after would be ideal for me. Sushi or hot pot are my go to
Category: Dinner
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What ever she wants to do I am open with first date is always best when she decides what she wants to do
Category: Others
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well, I would definitely have to take you to dinner and then take you to the mall and spoil you rotten and then to a movie or a concert and then probably back home
Category: Shopping
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A great first date? Definitely good conversation, a little laughter, and a nice setting.
I like when a man takes the lead and plans something thoughtful—it shows effort, and I appreciate that.
If we’re both smiling and not ready to leave, that’s usually a good sign
Category: Culinary Adventures
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Somewhere we can take a short walk, then dinner over candle-light. We are sitting together, close enough where I can inhale your cologne. Our words flow with ease. Sweet awkwardness excites the mood between us. Maybe we slow dance like no one is around.
Category: Dates That Make a Difference
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My ideal first date is something simple, comfortable, and personal. I enjoy cooking, so I’d love to make a meal for you — something good, something thoughtful, and something we can enjoy without any rush. Sharing food, talking, laughing, and getting to know each other in a relaxed setting feels like the perfect way to see if our connection has that spark. If the conversation flows, maybe we put on some music afterward and just enjoy the moment.
Category: Dinner
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We can get lunch, go for a walk in a park. Watch the sunset somewhere.
It really doesn't matter as long as you're comfortable.
Category: Lunch
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Let’s meet at the cutest coffee shop, have the best espresso over small talk, followed by an art and culture museum, botanical garden or an escape room.. Depending on the connection all four lol
Category: Spontaneous Daytime Activities
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Going out and grabbing coffee/tea/etc. or something low-key that allows for a relaxing environment to get to know each other with no pressure or expectations from either party.
Category: Cafe
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“I’m confident, caring, and open-minded. I love meaningful conversations about life, future plans, and shared experiences. I’m looking for a mature connection built on respect, fun, and mutual understanding
Category: Drinks
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