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hoxxxxxx

Niceville, FL, USA

A nice dinner at a quiet location so we can have a nice conversation. A walk afterwards would be nice.
Category: Dinner
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tixxxxxx

Topeka, KS, USA

My ideal first date is relaxed and gives us a chance to actually get to know each other. Meeting for coffee, a drink, or dinner at a place where we can talk without shouting over the music is perfect. If we're enjoying ourselves, maybe we take a walk, browse a bookstore, check out a local market, or catch some live music afterward. I'm much more interested in genuine conversation and seeing if we click than trying to impress someone with an over-the-top evening.
Category: Lunch
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coxxxxxx

Vienna, Vienna, AUT

around a classical concert, opera, or ballet we can have dinner before, drinks afterwards. Though, it could be a movie, a museum, a walk... I am open and fascinated by ideas and personal preferences —
Category: Live Music / Concerts
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Kixxxxxx

Marana, AZ, USA

Dinner, movie or can do something you prefer, relationships are a 50/50 proposition! If things aren’t equal it can’t be survived
Category: Dinner
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Luxxxxxx

Ottawa, KS, USA

I will make you dinner around a campfire. Will take a long walk with my dogs and meet my horses, perhaps spending some time grooming or even a short ride. We will take in the sunset, and then finish off the night sitting and talking around the fire with a few friends.
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pexxxxxx

Skellefteå, AC, SWE

Vad som helst där vi kan se varandras ögon och leenden. Det viktigaste är att vi faktiskt ses. Att skriva länge ger lite ledtrådar, men öga mot öga avgör :-)
Category: Brunch
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Fexxxxxx

McLeansboro, IL, USA

I would like to meet in a public place for coffee where we can both feel comfortable & see if there's any chemistry. Then if there is then we will decide.
Category: Cafe
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joxxxxxx

Broad Brook, CT, USA

Start with a cup of coffee. You can make a quit getaway if necessary. Lol. Seriously I think the answer is some agreed upon activity.
Category: Sightseeing
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roxxxxxx

Henderson, TN, USA

Let's keep it light and simple. if lunch goes well we can take a walk in a nearby park or just linger and roll with the flow.
Category: Lunch
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JAxxxxxx

Spring Branch, TX, USA

Breakfast or lunch just to get to know each other. A walk afterwards and open communication. I value this very much.
Category: Lunch
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scxxxxxx

Madison, WI, USA

Either a nice Sushi restaurant or a Hibachi Japanese Steakhouse, great atmosphere and time to get to know each other, and then a walk by the lake.
Category: Dinner
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joxxxxxx

Oslo, Oslo County, NOR

Like romantic dinner, home or restaurant. Homemade food can also be excellent. Theater, cinema or concert.
Category: Dinner
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nixxxxxx

Weybridge, ENG, GBR

Warm and friendly dinner to get to know each other and find out if there might be a spark in a future relationship.
Category: Dinner
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Joxxxxxx

Des Moines, IA, USA

Introduce me to new music. I’m a drummer, I want to hear what you love, what moves you, what drives you mad. Then eat out.
Category: Live Music / Concerts
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Clxxxxxx

New Haven, CT, USA

Grab a coffee to see if we connect, take things from there. The best way to learn about someone is to meet them.
Category: Cafe
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zixxxxxx

Richmond, IN, USA

Cooking a meal together, talking to get acquainted with plenty of touching followed by a meal and sex
Category: Others
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Haxxxxxx

Iowa City, IA, USA

I would like to meet at a local eatery first to make sure you are comfortable that I am who I say I am. When you are comfortable with me I’d like you to come to my place to get to know me and my girls.
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Noxxxxxx
Somewhere intimate and exceptional — a chef's table, a private room, a meal that becomes a memory. I believe first impressions should be unforgettable. I handle the details. You just show up. Or.. A chef's table in my home. I'll handle everything — the menu, the wine, the atmosphere. Cooking for a woman is one of the most intimate things a man can do. I do it very well.
Category: Dinner
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60xxxxxx

Memphis, TN, USA

Let’s cook our first meal together. Cook a little, talk a little, eat a lot! Then go out for dessert, or stay in.
Category: Dinner
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maxxxxxx

Mankato, MN, USA

I don't care what we do. What you do isn't important. It's who you do it with that counts. I tend to like relaxed, casual encounters on a first date. It is easier to just relax and be yourself.
Category: Others
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