FIRST DATE IDEAS FROM MEMBERS
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It would depend upon many things! Most likely a cafe or afteroon cocktails, a leisurely walk to talk and see how we rekate to each other. I've had a first date at a nude beach and he fucked me while making it look like he was rubbing in sun tan oil. I later became his submissive for 10 years. I had another first date for coffee and something told me to have one of my friends call me with an emergency and had to leave. He was nothing how he'd described himself, and while I was fine with him being 75 to my 44, he showed up all disheveled and unclean looking more like into his nineties. I'd be open to dating someone in his 90's, but appearance makes a world of difference.
I always try to get to know someone somewhat before a first date.
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Coffee in SF's most beautiful little-known park downtown, followed by a cocktail or dinner in its most visually stunning tower, to stimulate and lubricate while we explore each other's lives, adventures, experiences, hard-earned lessons, worldviews, philosophies, beliefs, and non-beliefs. Then an urban hike up Bernal hill, or an exploration of nature in Glen Canyon, while we continue to get to know each other.
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A first date needs to be simple so we can talk and get to know each other. A simple coffee shop or dinner at a bar/restaurant with live music is perfect. The music must not be too loud so we can spend time talking.
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Café y buena Charla donde nos podamos conocer y hablar de tema de interés para ambos ratificando conversaciones previas
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Something easy to arrive to and easy to escape from if one of us or both need to- just a simple plan so it's stress free.
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I prefer a casual date of, let's say, coffee to see if there is any connection, but I would love to meet a romantic that's ready for me to make a grand gesture by taking them on an exciting first date.
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Grabbing and coffee and talking for hours getting to know each other. From there we could walk to any local shops or just stay and chat the day away
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I'm interested in taking a walk on the river trail. Chit chatting for a bit. Go to the park and see the sights.
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Let's get coffee first. Then go bowling. If everything feels right, we can go back to one of our places to cuddle up and have great conversation or watch something together. Bonus points for falling asleep with each other.
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Whatever makes the both of us comfortable, We could meet for a cup of coffee, a soda, a drink out in the open, Like I said, whatever makes both of us feel comfortable.
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Coffee shop for a talk to see what type of person she is and to find out her goals and dreams. I love to have great conversations
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Meet for a juice and get to know each other! Casual and comfortable way to learn a little bit about each other!
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Coffee or luch. Nice walking in the park or movie. There are so many possibilities in here. Just give a shot. :)
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My version of a perfect date isn’t all about fancy tablecloths or candlelight—think more like a cozy café near a park where we can grab coffee or tea, then take a slow walk under the trees. I love the kind of vibe where conversation flows naturally, the breeze is soft, and we’re just enjoying each other’s company without distractions. A chill spot with good drinks, comfy corners, and maybe even outdoor seating is totally my thing.
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Coffee + a Walk — Easy, casual, and great for conversation and getting know one another and getting all jittery on caffeine!
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Dinner is overrated for a first meet. How about the best tiramisu in town and a seat where we can people-watch and plot our next move?
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For a first date i would like to meet for a coffe and small talk so we can get a first impression of each other
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Meet at a cozy local café for a relaxed chat over drinks. Low-pressure and easy to bail if it’s not clicking.
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We can laugh over crooked latte hearts, debate the best book endings, or play silly guessing games between sips of coffee. It's the perfect relaxed setting to chat and connect especially if you save me the last bite of your pastry.
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Let's meet for coffee and chat. Then see where that takes us. I'm an energy person so I pick up on the vibes.
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