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Inxxxxxx

Fort Wayne, IN, USA

Let's keep it low-key so we can have a no-pressure, no-expectations conversation. I hate small-talk, so let's be open and honest from the get-go.
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Vixxxxxx

Indore, MP, IND

I have no idea but it will be a great date. I will get maximum places where I love to go and enjoy.
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Maxxxxxx

Acworth, GA, USA

A nice quiet café, where we can talk and drink whatever you feel comfortable drinking and get to know each other!
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maxxxxxx

Yuma, AZ, USA

Someplace where we can begin the process of getting to know each other that is low stress and low key.
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Knxxxxxx

Leamington, ON, CAN

To talk and get to know each other. My treat Talk about our things we love to do for fun. What we are looking for. See if we are compatible
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isxxxxxx

Paulo Afonso, BA, BRA

Conversar sobre tudo Dar gargalhadas Conhecer um ao outros olhando nos olhos Podemos sair para jantar Comer um lanche Um Assaí
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joxxxxxx

Ann Arbor, MI, USA

Casual coffee, ice cream or lunch to get acquainted, see if we find a chemistry and decide on what to do next, or excitedly plan our next encounter or gracefully part as friends.
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jaxxxxxx

New Hyde Park, NY, USA

I'd love to start with something cozy, say a good coffee shop or a really nice pub where we can talk and absorb each other on first face. If it's got a great vibe, that would be perfect for getting to know each other without any rush. There are no guarantees that a given place will provide such vibe but I’m willing to take a risk and explore a new place and see what we both enjoy. It's a simple way to connect, talking about something as everyday as our taste in drinks. After that, if the weather's nice, I'd suggest we take a walk in a nearby park or garden. It's a laid-back way to keep the conversation going, enjoying the scenery and each other's company. There's something about nature that just makes talking easier, more real. I'll share some stories from my adventures, maybe a funny moment from my motorcycle rides, or talk about the poetry that comes to me when I least expect it. I'm curious about you too, wanting to hear about what lights you up, your passions, or even what you find beautiful in the world. The idea is to keep it genuine, see if there's that spark, that connection. Maybe we'll find moments where we feel that vibe closeness where we share a laugh over something silly. I'm looking for that warmth, that potential for affection, but all in a way that feels right, natural. Whether this turns into something short and sweet or has the legs for something longer, I'm open to see where it goes.
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lixxxxxx

Connahs Quay, WLS, GBR

A drink maybe a meal somewhere to get to know each other,You cant really get to know someone in the pictures.Another one is Ten Pin Bowling
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Foxxxxxx
Small little cafe, something light but enjoyable. A place where we can look into each other's eyes and see our souls.
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daxxxxxx

Federal Way, WA, USA

Man in America are So Cheap They just want to walk in the Park somewhere So they didn't have to buy Coffee for 1st Date.. But Expecting Hookups without the Treditional Date ~ That case Bye Bye ~ !!! Nowadays Men are Demending 50/50 ~ Married Woman Working Same much as her Husband and Plus Cooking and House Working and Raising his Off Springs.. That is NOT Fair Game.. That's Not 50/50.. That's 90/10...Women Working 5 times more than Men... If Ur Woman is Working too then U need to Help Cooking and House cleaning and laundry and Raising children 50/50 Too Don't be a Grown up kid in the household.. Clean after Urself and Helps Ur Woman... I have been Single for 14 years Cuz I don't dealing with ******* I am Super independent Woman but I also don't dealing with Poor manners If I am the one that who invited my friend then I always Treat her lunch or dinner 100% .. Man Who wants to meet Me in Real life for 1st Date but He demands Dutch pay ??? Bye Bye.. It just Coffee Not Steak dinners.. Man that drink few Alcoholic with Meal and Demending 50/50 ?? I don't even drink Alcohol.. My Meal was Under 20 and Ur Meal was 50 included Ur Alcoholic... Bye Bye ~ All of this happened in My 1st Date in Past and I blocked them Allllllllll.
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Mrxxxxxx

Altoona, PA, USA

Prefer a lunch date to learn about each other, good conversation face to face is the best way to find out if someone is compatible to start a possible relationship. After lunch, go for a drive or a walk depending on the season or weather. Some of you girls might find this lame but guess what, most of you are only after how much money can be spent on yourself, that only happens if and when you are in whatever type of relationship is agreed upon. Don't like this statement don't reply back.
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utxxxxxx

Brookfield, WI, USA

Ooooh. We're on our first date already?! Well since things are moving right along maybe we need to grab lunch followed by a walk through in town or along the river. Miniature golf perhaps?! No cheating though.
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Lexxxxxx

Springfield, MO, USA

Someplace quiet where we can meet up and have a conversation. I'd like to get to know you and I want you to feel safe and comfortable. I'm very open to your requests.
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paxxxxxx

El Paso, TX, USA

A spontaneous date with many ideas and open topics of interest with a strong minded lady. I am really interested in a like minded lady that I can spend quality time with and expand in our mutual interests and open minded topics without being afraid to express ourselves freely. I do love a lady that takes the lead and can exert her dominion.
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boxxxxxx

Goodyear, AZ, USA

Just a simple date in a small cafe or something similar, nothing too flashy. Me and you sitting in a quiet place, getting to know each other.
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Cuxxxxxx

Brockville, ON, CAN

How about a little coffee date at sweet ophelias or another coffee place, we can sit and chat to figure out if I'm the right one for you
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bixxxxxx

Whangarei, NTL, NZL

I think we go pick up some coffee, go down to the beach with a spliff and sit there for hours yapping to each other
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Nixxxxxx

San Miguel de Tucumán, Tucuman, ARG

Something that I have is that I love coffee shops. I think my ideal first date would be to go to a coffee shop and sit down to get to know each other and talk about life.
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Quxxxxxx
I’m looking for something mutually beneficial that allows me freedom while also fulfilling my need for security/stability adventure and spontaneity. I love new experiences and to be babygirled. My wishlist is a happy place.
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