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Joxxxxxx

White River, MP, ZAF

Somewhere sunny, great wine, nice slow music, private setting. Somewhere we can talk and look into each other's eyes
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isxxxxxx

Cape Town, WC, ZAF

I’m a spontaneous girl with a lust for travel and spur of the moment plans so anything exciting or interesting makes me very happy.
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dexxxxxx

San Jose, CA, USA

Going to a book store and picking out books then having a picnic in the park. Getting to know each other
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Vaxxxxxx

Agra, UP, IND

Let's have a cup of coffee where ur lipstick melts and ur heels gets off easily. I also wouldn't mind some stains on my shirt
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adxxxxxx

Wichita, KS, USA

The Subterranean Speakeasy Because you're explicitly keeping things physical and light, avoid bright daytime dates. A dimly lit, underground speakeasy—think somewhere with the secretive vibe of Dockum downtown—sets an intimate, adult tone the second you walk in. You handle the logistics of getting the table and managing the evening, so she just has to show up, have a drink, and see if there's a spark.
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Loxxxxxx

Manlius, NY, USA

Nice dinner in a very nice restaurant followed by a horse carriage ride in Central ParK in New York City
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jaxxxxxx

Spanish, ON, CAN

Location not too important, some walking is great for conversation, a nice resturant. I usually like to go with the moment, explore, see what events or other activities are available if there is interest.
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Haxxxxxx

Iowa City, IA, USA

I would like to meet at a local eatery first to make sure you are comfortable that I am who I say I am. When you are comfortable with me I’d like you to come to my place to get to know me and my girls.
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Emxxxxxx

Long Beach, CA, USA

Somewhere we can take a short walk, then dinner over candle-light. We are sitting together, close enough where I can inhale your cologne. Our words flow with ease. Sweet awkwardness excites the mood between us. Maybe we slow dance like no one is around.
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Caxxxxxx

Cabot, AR, USA

Something fun and memorable for the both of us. Could be something simple , could be a road trip to the beach
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Blxxxxxx

Hammond, LA, USA

First we walk & talk around old down town, next check out the local eateries downtown then to the show & finish at a local coffee house like C.C's or P.J.'s. it would be a date to get to know each other. Or we can just play it by ear.
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Jpxxxxxx

Portland, ME, USA

Depends on the women tbh. I try to get a feel for who I'm thinking about taking out and I plan the date to what I've learned about the women. I'm pretty good at making a great first impressions on picking out the date plans.
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jsxxxxxx

Rogers, AR, USA

Anything from the gun range to a mountain range, life's an adventure, tell me 3 things you haven't done and we'll check off 4 by date #2
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juxxxxxx

Stafford, CT, USA

Looking for someone I can take out for dinner, talking, then going out for a walk so we can talk some more and get to know each other. Someone that's not shy and confident about who she is and what she looks like. Going to a museum, flea markets, antique shops
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shxxxxxx

Sacramento, CA, USA

I'm thinking we go out on a nice summer evening Go have a casual dinner on a rooftop bar or outdoor patio. I have a couple of cocktails or glasses of wine and then maybe go play some miniature golf or go to the batting cages or just a nice simple walk in the city lights
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Scxxxxxx

Miami, FL, USA

Watching a movie over the phone with each other or just talking for hours getting to know each other<3
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Maxxxxxx

Worcester, WOR, GBR

Grimsby Fish Market, 2:36 am, in the middle of winter, sharing a single bag of chips and a can of flat Carlsberg.
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Sixxxxxx

Bradenton, FL, USA

Some place in public and a comfortable surrounding. Not overly loud so we can focus on each other and get to know one another.
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Baxxxxxx

Scranton, PA, USA

A candlelit dinner under the stars, soft music playing, a glass of wine in hand, and stargazing to end the night—romance at its finest.
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RIxxxxxx

Schenectady, NY, USA

Something simple to feel the vibe. Anything where we can communicate. Like mini golf. A dinner. No movie because you cant speak with one another.
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