Honestly ... I am not sure that there are many who see past the idea of what it would be like to 'be' with an older woman. If nothing more, they want bragging rights to their friends that they have 'done' an older woman.
Ok, so after a few years I have finally gotten rather disillusioned with the idea that there could actually be a younger man who honestly have more intentions than just sex.
Is there anyone who could prove me wrong?
Yes, I have read success stories, I know there are lucky ones, just few and very far between.
I just get along better with the guys that are younger than I am. They seem more open minded, adaptable to changes in life, and respect me for what I know. On first appearance, I"m often mistaken for being younger, but when I show that I can speak of things rationally and intelligently (a blonde? rational? yep!), it shows I have brains too.
In fact, young people to want to pay attention to this fact, a similar problem, because they like older women but this will give them a good good love, age is not a big problem in fact to question is whether the loved each other. You say, right
I'm now 44, and the only 2 younger men I've been with, turned into relationships...they had to convince 'me', to date 'them'...and then love happened...but sadly, they had no real clue what love is.
And as I was good for both of them, neither's family had a problem with our relationship. I am still friends with both of them, and even 'have fun' with the last one...seeing as neither, he, nor I have found someone new. Sadly though, I seem to yearn for what I will not find....a man who is younger, yet still old fashioned....so, in the meantime...I simply play..LOL
I think everyone has their own agenda .... i might state some cliches here but some will be looking for casual sex only since it is different from the norm his peers dictate to him.
On the other hand some younger guys will be a lot more independent from the peer pressure and from giving into it. Not having second thoughts about what others think and they will be the ones who will be able to have longer relationships with their older partners.
I personally always had something for older women and never cared what others think ... and I had a fantastic 4 years with a woman 12 years my senior ... unfortunately I had to move to the other side of the world ;)
What if some one says he wants a casual sex. He can?t be crucified because he is saying exactly what he wants. Its hard to face the reality here. I have lots of respect for older and matured women, but I have been hurt from that before. After a women couldn?t give much attention to me rather giving it to her son from her divoced marriage which is normal and kind to understand. No man will say he loves you if he hasn?t tried you. Irrespective of age. If he does, walk around and fish out something.
Id like to verify this question with a... YES. :) Younger women, while being attractive, outgoing, and readily eager to try new things... i have yet to find a mental/maturity level connection with many of them. Dating a woman that was almost twice my own age, opened my eyes to how stimulating someone with some experience, and real honest insight to the world around them can be, in comparison to those interested in partying, and whats happening on MTV. Just dont seem to find interest in that as much as i once did.
Yes, there are many younger men who would want a relationship.... The thing is, there are also many who enter these relationships with other motives as well... I'm live in Jamaica as wish there were more sweet older ladies here interested in younger men like myself...