Omg...17 is like wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyy too young. No seventeen year old is going to be "mature" in any way, shape or form. They are still CHILDREN in the teen years. They are developing their personalities and their souls to be the adults they are about to become. Not being judgemental to anyone else on here who wants to date them, but for me, I'd NEVER EVER date a guy that young! I met my love when he was 25 and to me, that is a good age for a young man and an older woman. At 25, they've outgrown their teen years and have had a few years to mature into the young men they are now. So, in conclusion, I think older women should date "younger" men who are 25 and OLDER. Anything UNDER 25 is wayy too young and just asking for trouble, stress and drama.
i had my last encounter with a cougar was one almost twenty years my senior at 54 years of age she was i thought maybe was to much for i dipped into vintage fine wines before but all were under 15 years at most but weird thang was that them 2 ladies knock the socks off me rocked my world the 53 years old was my total opposite and my neighbor plus good freind that one summer turn to 1 with benefits for i loved her undressed then in her unfashionable clothes she wore that and tha fact that she had the biggest most goodlooking breast that was size e or f juicy was her breast and her hips i was the first younger man she had ever been with ever and no she did not regret it she told me all that summer she didnt one word nyphomaniac she called herself 1 we both were boy that summer was fun
I have been asked numberous times what my age limit is and I totally agree with all your comments. I have dated 28 year olds with less maturity than some 20 year olds. Just dont ask me to break the law.
Well..now an interesting question..bascially because i seem to attract younger males. i thought i'd never do it...but i always seem to give in. Age is just a number there is quite a lot of maturity in some of these younger guys...
I'm 37 and have been with several 18 year olds. I don't make any assumptions about them. I was with one 18 year old who totally gave me everything and I needed and more. I've also been with 18 year olds who are very immature. I don't think you should jump to conclusions just because of someones age.
Well, my first fling was age 13, she was 19. And from age 15-23 I was seeing two (married) ladies who were 6-15 years older than me (their husbands approved.) We all had fun, and no one was hurt. Age 23 I married a lady of 41 and stayed married 15 years, and it wasn't the age gap that caused the break-up. I dated ladies my own age or younger maybe two or three times, but just didn't connect with them as well. So in my own experience too young is relative to the maturity of the people involved (and to their ability to be as discreet as I was.)
For a boyfriend? Seventeen is probably the "too young" cut-off for guys, but it does depend a lot on their maturity levels. I can't really imagine dating a high-school student now, (though I CAN imagine sleeping with one, if he was really brainy and cute) but I did have a lover that age about six years ago, and when I myself was seventeen I was self-supporting and had already been in college for a year, so I think it really depends more on the person than on the number.