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  • View author's info Author Posted on Aug 16, 2012 at 02:01 PM

    How do you get back into the swing of things when you have been with someone almost forever?  How do you find someone just to have dinner with or a movie, just to have plain fun?
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  • View author's info Posted on Nov 18, 2012 at 08:14 PM

    well i think being on a site like this might be a start.  But for me, it is dealing with my own personal emotions and insecurities and finding something that i like to do and then do it.  For example, i started to play golf (summer and fall, not now) and also started to play pool.  I now enjoy these things and i am having fun doing them.  This gets me out and being with other people not to "look for a woman" but to just get out and stop just focusing inward.
    Also, I met a lady and we really enjoyed our times together.  We are now just friends, so that's why i am now here :).  Good luck to you - i think we all can feel your pain and struggle but just don't ever give up.
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