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  • View author's info Author Posted on Sep 05, 2010 at 06:17 AM


    Where are the men interested in real women and not the cookie- cutter, air-brushed, model types? Real women are come in all sizes, ages, amd color. Real men need to appreciate these qualities. Anyone left out there that does?

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  • View author's info Posted on Oct 29, 2011 at 09:06 PM


    I do think that what you are sort of getting at here is that men and women are ... well... basically different. That is, generally speaking, on a fundamental level women view potential male mates differently than men view potential female mates. I do think there is something basic, fundamental and biological at work/play here.

    As I've grown and matured over my years I've come to realize how very similar we all really are - men and women, boys and girls. However, I've also come to recognize the very real differences that seem to be hard-wired. For example, there is a reason why there are probably about a thousand different titles of pornographic magazines targeting the male heterosexual audience and maybe only one or two targeting the female heterosexul audience. And,I recently read that roughly half of Playgirl's purchasing public is homosexual males.

    Having said that, I also believe that men have come a long way in recent decades in regard to transcending that fundamental difference in approach. We are seeing more and more older women and younger men couples precisely because young men are recognizing the very real beauty within the older woman in the same way that younger women have viewed older men since forever.

    In the end, however, both genders have their hard-wired lines in the sand, so to speak. Some guys only date gals with big breasts. Some gals only date guys of a certain height.
  • View author's info Posted on Sep 09, 2010 at 04:28 AM


    Thanks Shar 726.But a lot of the reasons why those 'shallow' blokes are getting away with it is because of all the shallow girls who are happy to give those blokes what they're looking for.You'd be shocked by the numbers of young single women who are looking for married/seperated/divorced blokes for a casual 'relationship' but leave single ones looking for something serious like me on the shelf.Although having said that I've also seen plenty of single girls who preferred to actually marry divorcees and give them more chances in life to have another family while I'll probably get none and which is why I'm on here still hoping having lost out to those blokes when I was younger.
  • View author's info Posted on Sep 08, 2010 at 12:18 PM


    You've got it all wrong. I see no problem with you looking for someone younger to start a family with. I'm talking about the shallow guys only in it for what they can get and not a lasting relationship. I hope you get your family.
  • View author's info Posted on Sep 07, 2010 at 03:10 PM


    shar 726
    If only more of those so called married/seperated/divorced 'real men' would go for the older women like you leaving the young,single ones for single blokes like me to have a family with instead of those divorcees being given second or more chances in life to have another wife and family.But it seems a bit hypocritical that you seem to be complaining about blokes like me looking for a younger girl for the chance to have a family when you've obviously had yours.
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