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Haxxxxxx

Towson, MD, USA

Up close and personal in a comfortable and cozy setting. Casual but classy with an easy, measured vibe.
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Crxxxxxx

San Bernardino, CA, USA

Going out to eat dinner and go for long walks or long car rides around the neighborhood or anywhere.
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Aqxxxxxx

Berlin, BE, DEU

My idea of a date would be to sit and talk about all sort of things in a café then go on a walk in nature
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zexxxxxx

Ithaca, NY, USA

Just a time to meet over coffee or ? I really am not into "dating" a great deal and never was. Whatever we both like is OK with me. Just need a place to talk and understand each other better
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Buxxxxxx

Plymouth, IN, USA

I’d love to meet at a museum or gallery cafe for brunch. If things go well, we could extend our date and do a walking tour of the venue.
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shxxxxxx

Miami, FL, USA

A simple brunch with a nice view and comfortable atmosphere where we can relax and get to know each other.
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Hixxxxxx

Ottawa, ON, CAN

Open to what makes you feel comfortable. Going for tea or coffee in a nice public place where we can chat.
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Goxxxxxx

Covina, CA, USA

I am an easy going woman. Simple, yet doesn't mean I don't enjoy the finer things in life. The Cancer in me loves the beach. No pressure...if your time, which was the most valuable gift from our date was masked as a great latte..I'll take it.
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jaxxxxxx

West Bloomfield, MI, USA

I think a great icebreaker is meeting at an upscale espresso lounge or bistro in the afternoon. It keeps the energy light and easygoing, and if we're completely hitting it off, it can easily turn into a walk or early evening drinks.
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Rixxxxxx

Gary, IN, USA

I’d choose something that’s a local favorite cafe or diner for a first date, so we can get to know each other , if things go well maybe we go for a walk or get drinks
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coxxxxxx

Sacramento, CA, USA

I think this is a silly question but I'm pretty much up for anything. I just like to get to know someone and see if we're real and easy to get along with. I love it when it just doesn't matter at all what we do. We take a walk in the park or grab some food or jump on a plane and go to Cabo. If we have instant comfort and ease of being around each other than anything's possible
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Fexxxxxx

McLeansboro, IL, USA

I would like to meet in a public place for coffee where we can both feel comfortable & see if there's any chemistry. Then if there is then we will decide.
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esxxxxxx

Altunizade, Istanbul, TUR

A deep conversation over quality coffee in a quiet, aesthetic boutique cafe. The 'soul' of the place matters to me; I prefer a peaceful setting where we can truly hear each other and share our visions for life. Sakin ve estetik dokusu olan bir butik kafede, kaliteli bir kahve eşliğinde derinlemesine bir sohbet. Mekanın bir ruhunun olması benim için önemli; birbirimizi gerçekten duyabileceğimiz ve hayata dair vizyonlarımızı paylaşabileceğimiz huzurlu bir başlangıç.
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Clxxxxxx

New Haven, CT, USA

Grab a coffee to see if we connect, take things from there. The best way to learn about someone is to meet them.
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Joxxxxxx

Peyton, CO, USA

For our first date/meeting I would like to keep things simple. Coffee or tea and good conversation to see if we click.
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bSxxxxxx

Lawrence, KS, USA

Going out and grabbing coffee/tea/etc. or something low-key that allows for a relaxing environment to get to know each other with no pressure or expectations from either party.
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Roxxxxxx

Dansville, NY, USA

Coffee or drinks with a walk nearby Easy conversation, no pressure, and you can keep it short or let it flow if the vibe is right.
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maxxxxxx

Pune, MH, IND

A coffee & deep conversation Secret: I'm a graphologist. We will sit talk, I will tell you wat I'm looking for, u share ur story, all good!
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Stxxxxxx

Edgewater, NJ, USA

I feel getting to know over coffee and then bowling. See my dates competitive nature. Coffee we can get some eye contact
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Chxxxxxx

Broomfield, CO, USA

I know it’s probably cliche but I love first dates at coffee shops, or bookstores. Somewhere more calm and low stress. Plus, if the date goes well-there’s always the opportunity to go find other adventures afterwards.
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