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bixxxxxx

Niagara Falls, ON, CAN

Coffee or a stroll with a beautiful setting were we can chat and get comfortable and enjoy nature :)
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Boxxxxxx

Las Vegas, NV, USA

I would love to have a coffee or light lunch that is casual where we can actually talk. And, if we are connecting, a nice walk through the park or nearby green space to enjoy the fresh air and more of each others company.
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Doxxxxxx

Linton, IN, USA

Meeting for Coffee or Tea. No Pressure on either person. Casual Conversation. Finding out if we are willing to continue the conversation later or just able to sit in comfortable silence.
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alxxxxxx

Fullerton, CA, USA

Would love to share a cup of coffee or tea. Talk about why we may like one more than the other, and get to know one another.
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shxxxxxx

West Linn, OR, USA

Coffee date first, to check the vibe, and then it depends on the person really..a trip to Barnes & Noble, a walk, an arcade, food truck dinner date, a comedy show. I wouldn't subject someone to a movie when they might want to have a conversation.
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bexxxxxx

Charlotte, NC, USA

Coffee dates are cute :) and safe hahaha. Honestly, my ideal date would be a walk in nature. But....getting murdered in the woods is not on my to-do list!
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Sexxxxxx

Louisville, KY, USA

I'm a simple guy - so a first date idea to me is sitting down over a cup of coffee and just chatting and getting to know each other a little bit.
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Chxxxxxx

Lima, LMA, PER

No soy mucho de citas aunque me gustaría poder salir a tomar café en un lugar lindo. Quizás con una vista agradable y un ambiente cálido.
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fexxxxxx

Tecamac de Felipe Villanueva, MEX, MEX

Podemos estar por la plaza oh movernos por ahí cercas no tengo ningún problema eh igual si es café o alguna otra bebida
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Jaxxxxxx

Nuneaton, WAR, GBR

The classic coffee/tea date. Time to relax with each other and have a good talk. If the vibes between us are right then we would go on to do something else or save that for another day.
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Arxxxxxx

Walnut Creek, CA, USA

Something low-key, low pressure, simple, Casual and relaxing. Definitely something not to loud or crowded.
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Azxxxxxx

Bethlehem, PA, USA

Out for a movie then dinner then walk talk get to know each other maybe a picnic on a nice autumn day
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lixxxxxx

The Villages, FL, USA

I believe a first date, or at least first meeting, should be somewhere simple and leave room for either person to end it easily. This is mainly to save us both time and avoid hurt feelings if we don't have a spark, or if a major red flag comes up. After that, I think actual dates should be at a nice restaurant or venue, or some type of outing or destination we both appreciate. If we have been talking for some time and will be meeting for the first time, we might skip the simple meeting if we both feel that we can.
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Vexxxxxx

Coppell, TX, USA

Grabbing a quality cup of coffee together. It’s simple, low-pressure, and a great way to enjoy a warm conversation and see if there's a spark.
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Alxxxxxx

Chico, CA, USA

Somewhere we can actually talk, laugh, and see if the chemistry is there. Coffee or a casual drink works, and if we’re having too much fun to call it a night, we’ll figure out what’s next.
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scxxxxxx

North Hollywood, CA, USA

Just having a chance to get to know someone one on one. Best place is somewhere quiet in public where we can can just sip drinks or coffee and talk for hours. If it leads somewhere great. If not it’s not the end of the world
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Haxxxxxx

Towson, MD, USA

Up close and personal in a comfortable and cozy setting. Casual but classy with an easy, measured vibe.
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Crxxxxxx

San Bernardino, CA, USA

Going out to eat dinner and go for long walks or long car rides around the neighborhood or anywhere.
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Buxxxxxx

Plymouth, IN, USA

I’d love to meet at a museum or gallery cafe for brunch. If things go well, we could extend our date and do a walking tour of the venue.
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shxxxxxx

Miami, FL, USA

A simple brunch with a nice view and comfortable atmosphere where we can relax and get to know each other.
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