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hoxxxxxx

Niceville, FL, USA

A nice dinner at a quiet location so we can have a nice conversation. A walk afterwards would be nice.
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tsxxxxxx

Ruimsig, GT, ZAF

A first date should feel easy and fun, not like an interview. I’d love a cute brunch, a coffee date that turns into a long walk, visiting a market, or trying a new restaurant together. Bonus points if we end up talking for hours and lose track of time.
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Luxxxxxx

Clermont, FL, USA

Dinner, good conversation, and maybe a glass of wine afterward. If you can make me laugh, tolerate my loyalty to the Chicago Bears, and hold your own in a horror movie debate, we’re off to a great start. I especially appreciate a man who isn’t afraid to take the lead when planning a date.
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Alxxxxxx

Montreal, QC, CAN

Going to eat to a restaurant or any similar spot is really fine for me. No need for it to be fancy at all
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ISxxxxxx

Virginia Beach, VA, USA

I have a number of favorite restaurants that I frequent. Not opposed to anywhere but I’d like to have a relaxing meal to talk about each other.
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itxxxxxx

Bloomington, IL, USA

A nice dinner where we can talk and get to know one another, followed by learning each other’s music tastes by sharing YouTube videos.
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Kixxxxxx

Marana, AZ, USA

Dinner, movie or can do something you prefer, relationships are a 50/50 proposition! If things aren’t equal it can’t be survived
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b7xxxxxx

Lawrenceville, GA, USA

uhmm is getting to know each other more and have fun and like getting to actually interact and not be awkward
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noxxxxxx

Columbia, SC, USA

I find a casual dinner/drinks date to be the best to get to know someone. Nice steakhouse or seafood restaurant are my go to.
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rexxxxxx

Ann Arbor, MI, USA

I’d love a first date that starts with dinner at a nice restaurant where we can actually talk and get to know each other without feeling rushed. Afterward, a walk by the water or through a beautiful downtown area would be perfect, just enjoying the conversation, sharing stories, and seeing if there’s a genuine connection. Nothing overly complicated, just good company, great conversation, and a memorable evening together.
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Haxxxxxx

San Antonio, TX, USA

I’m of the mindset that a first date should be a dinner together. I care about manners and how service-industry workers are treated, so I’d like the opportunity to see those characteristics upfront. No ONS please. We dress nicely, I pick you up or arrange a pickup for you. We meet, have a thoughtful conversation without staring into a phone all night. After a wonderful meal, we continue our conversation or end the night, depending on the vibe. No presumptions.
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saxxxxxx

Colorado Springs, CO, USA

Maybe not the fanciest restaurant, but certainly a very good one. I'm not interested in pretending to enjoy bad food, while trying to calm my social anxiety! First dates are fun, but insanely awkward sometimes. Let's go somewhere we can foodgasm together.
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jaxxxxxx

Pleasanton, TX, USA

My kind of first date? We grab some good food, take a drive down some South Texas backroads with music playing, find a quiet spot under the stars, and just talk for hours. I’d rather learn somebody’s mind and laugh until our faces hurt than sit in a loud place yelling over the cro
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Lexxxxxx

Crandall, TX, USA

A dinner with some drink drinks and then maybe a movie after would be ideal for me. Sushi or hot pot are my go to
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jaxxxxxx

Needham Heights, MA, USA

Get to know each-other over dinner and drinks. Have great conversation and a few laughs. Nothing like great food with amazing company.
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scxxxxxx

Madison, WI, USA

Either a nice Sushi restaurant or a Hibachi Japanese Steakhouse, great atmosphere and time to get to know each other, and then a walk by the lake.
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Poxxxxxx

Great Falls, VA, USA

A nice dinner, good conversation, lots of laughs, both of us wondering how the time passed so quickly.
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joxxxxxx

Oslo, Oslo County, NOR

Like romantic dinner, home or restaurant. Homemade food can also be excellent. Theater, cinema or concert.
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nixxxxxx

Weybridge, ENG, GBR

Warm and friendly dinner to get to know each other and find out if there might be a spark in a future relationship.
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crxxxxxx

Grand Prairie, TX, USA

Having dinner and drinks and sharing good conversation, laughs, playfulness and just being ourselves.
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