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Vaxxxxxx

Medellín, ANT, COL

Me encantaría una primera cita en un lugar bonito, con buena comida, una conversación agradable y muchas sonrisas. Me gusta arreglarme, sentirme especial y disfrutar de esos pequeños detalles que hacen que un encuentro sea inolvidable. Lo más importante para mí es la química, la atención y que ambos nos sintamos cómodos.
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jexxxxxx

Pennsville, NJ, USA

If we went on a first date, would you choose dinner and drinks, a little friendly competition, or an adventure neither of us planned?
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PAxxxxxx

Spokane, WA, USA

Fishing, Walk in park, Coffee, A good dinner and some wine, and Go back to the pad & GOD WILLING Make LOVE, Time is short, and I am 1/2 way through this life if I make it to 80, and see where it goes from there, back at the PAD, A TEDDY BEAR? A BIBLE? ROSES? or an Envelope with a ZONK from "LETS MAKE A D.E.A.+L" + Wayne Brady
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Doxxxxxx

Bethany, LA, USA

I’m open to anything for a first date as long as we can talk. I want to get to know you not watch a movie.
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Joxxxxxx

Boise, ID, USA

Let’s start with coffee or drinks somewhere cozy, then wander through a bookstore, where we each pick out a book we think the other person should read. A little friendly teasing, some great conversation, and hopefully enough chemistry that neither of us is ready for the date to end. Bonus points if we find somewhere to grab dessert afterward.
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stxxxxxx

Port Macquarie, NSW, AUS

Dinner at a nice restaurant in Port Macquarie town centre then a walk up the breakwall to the beach then a walk back into town.
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jexxxxxx

Mount Gilead, OH, USA

Casual dinner, low key, soft music, dark corner speakeasy type of place to have some great conversation and get to know each other. Hopefully in the future, staying at home with a fire, cocktails, music, cuddling and sweet talking.
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Blxxxxxx

Cleveland, OH, USA

Something relaxed where we can actually talk and enjoy each other’s company. I’m open to trying new things, especially with a woman who enjoys taking the lead and showing me a good time.
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Caxxxxxx

Lanoka Harbor, NJ, USA

Anything as long as you are kind. It says Minimum 100 characters so now I am just typing to fill this out but overall kindness is the most important thing.
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brxxxxxx

Ridgway, CO, USA

We will fly to the Gilbert Islands so we can (very probably) be the first couple there with this first date plan. I will bring my EEG kit. Rather than dinner, I will wait for you to get hungry and cranky. Then I will squirt electrode gel in your hair and lecture you about brainwaves. Then I will ask you to pay for the electrode gel and quiz you. God I'm clever. Oh yea you gotta pay for the flight too.
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Saxxxxxx

Selinsgrove, PA, USA

Depends on how well we click. Coffee if we don't connect through text and dinner and a show if we have an instant connection. The vibe is everything
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Boxxxxxx

Randleman, NC, USA

I think that's something that I haven't decided yet. Don't worry about it. I'm pretty good at coming up with something. You have to cover the woman who want to be surprised.
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Dexxxxxx

Jacksonville, NC, USA

Im happy with simplicity in dates. Nothing extravagant. Beach, Park Music and getting to know each other.
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Haxxxxxx

Saint Paul, MN, USA

Well I think we will figure it out and hopefully we click and don't want to separate and we start our happily ever after. If not making out in the car is cool to! Lol.
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stxxxxxx

Red Wing, MN, USA

Hi, I'm Jeff. I'm looking for a younger woman who wants someone with a little more life experience — someone steady, not trying to keep up with the crowd. Not here for games or matching bios. If you want something real with an older guy, say hi.
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Zaxxxxxx

Pukekohe, AUK, NZL

A nice dinner or coffee, followed by a relaxed walk and good conversation. No pressure, just two people enjoying each other’s company and seeing if there’s a little chemistry between us
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rixxxxxx

Plainview, MN, USA

Let's go to an escape room! Rip around on some go carts or take our anger out in a smash room! ... or just binge something :)
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dexxxxxx

Silver Springs, NV, USA

Id invite you over to my place and is lead you into my room where we would sit, talk, and start to make out. You follow my lead!!?
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moxxxxxx

Fall River, MA, USA

Dinner and a movie on the couch sounds like the best date ever to be honest. Im super introverted so the public and large amount of people sound awful lol.
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nyxxxxxx

Hornell, NY, USA

Something thoughtful. Show me you’ve been paying attention. A great meal, easy conversation, and a little gift to remind me of you afterward is always a good start.
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