FIRST DATE IDEAS FROM MEMBERS
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An afternoon exploring a city followed by dinner somewhere worth eating and a sunset hike is my speed. After the sun goes down, we can see where the evening goes.
Category: Walking or Hiking
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Let's go ice skating! If you don't know how to skate, then we'll just have to hold hands the entire time :)
Category: Playing Sports / Games
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Let’s start with coffee or drinks somewhere cozy, then wander through a bookstore, where we each pick out a book we think the other person should read. A little friendly teasing, some great conversation, and hopefully enough chemistry that neither of us is ready for the date to end. Bonus points if we find somewhere to grab dessert afterward.
Category: Others
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I’m a simple woman. A simple dinner, or grabbing drinks. I like to spend first dates being able to talk and get to know each other
Category: Drinks
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Watching the sunset over the horizon while chit chatting away. Especially if it's watching it set over the ocean.
Category: Sightseeing
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Would love to share a cup of coffee or tea. Talk about why we may like one more than the other, and get to know one another.
Category: Cafe
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A nice relaxing dinner followed by some time to talk and get to know each other, I love to listen and get to know new people!
Category: Dinner
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Something relaxed where we can actually talk and enjoy each other’s company. I’m open to trying new things, especially with a woman who enjoys taking the lead and showing me a good time.
Category: Others
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Something fun and exciting that we both enjoy the time and each other vibes and smiles with laughter
Category: Spontaneous Daytime Activities
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Let’s walk around town and just talk and get to know each other. Maybe it changes to stopping in for food, or a coffee, etc. if we continue to enjoy the day, we can just keep hanging out and having fun
Category: Walking or Hiking
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For a first date, I’d keep it simple and comfortable—somewhere we can actually talk and get to know each other. A nice dinner or coffee, followed by a walk and maybe checking out a new place together sounds perfect. I’m also open to something more fun and spontaneous, like trying a new restaurant, exploring the city, or watching the sunset.
For me, the location matters less than the company and having a genuine connection.
Category: Dinner
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"I'm fully capable of funding my own lifestyle, but I still appreciate a man who knows how to treat a woman. Let’s skip the standard coffee interview and do something with a bit more flair. I’d love to check out a new gallery exhibit, followed by premium cocktails at a beautifully designed lounge. I'll bring the sharp wit and great conversation—you handle the reservations
Category: Museums and Galleries
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Let's get ingredients from the St Lawrence Market and then create our own picnic on the beach nearby.
Category: Culinary Adventures
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Nothing too complicated — a nice dinner or a drink at a relaxed pub where we can actually talk and get to know each other. Good conversation, a few laughs and seeing if there’s any chemistry sounds like a pretty good first date to me.
Category: Dinner
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I’d love a relaxed first date visiting a beautiful museum or art gallery, taking our time to explore the exhibitions and talk about the things that catch our attention\. Afterwards, we could have a nice dinner or a coffee somewhere quiet and continue getting to know each other\. I think the best first dates are about good conversation, genuine chemistry and enjoying each other’s company\.
Category: Museums and Galleries
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Meet at a nice bar or restaurant. Start with drinks then head to the next spot with music, food, and more drinks. Laugh and people watch. End the night respectfully and plan for the next outing.
Category: Drinks
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Drinks somewhere with a little atmosphere where we can actually talk, flirt, and see if the chemistry is as good in person. Nothing too formal—I like a first date that feels easy and leaves us both wondering whether we’re ready for the night to end.
Category: Drinks
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im not really a fancy restaurant and awkward small talk kindof guy I’d rather do something relaxed and fun grab a coffee go for a walk try something new and see if we naturally click
Category: Dates That Make a Difference
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A relaxing walk or hike would be nice, and maybe going to have a couple (non-alcoholic) drinks or ice cream afterwards.
Category: Walking or Hiking
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Let's go to an escape room! Rip around on some go carts or take our anger out in a smash room! ... or just binge something :)
Category: Others
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