FIRST DATE IDEAS FROM MEMBERS
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My first date ideal would be to meet somewhere public. Get to know each other, see if we click. Then maybe go have dinner and then hear the movie at the cinema.
Category: Sightseeing
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Something "low key" where we can talk and get to know each other. Maybe throw in a walk through the park or around the lake.
Category: Lunch
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Somewhere public and quiet with a nice atmosphere, where we can get to know each other over a cocktail and good food.
Category: Lunch
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Casual dinner Casual conversation not trying to get married the same day we meet . See what our likes and dislikes are
Category: Dinner
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A nice dinner and wine, talk and get to know alittle about each other and see if we click or feel comfortable around each other, then if so, karaoke and drinks for the night.
Category: Fancy Dining
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I think that's something that I haven't decided yet. Don't worry about it. I'm pretty good at coming up with something. You have to cover the woman who want to be surprised.
Category: Others
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Im happy with simplicity in dates. Nothing extravagant. Beach, Park Music and getting to know each other.
Category: Others
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I believe a first date, or at least first meeting, should be somewhere simple and leave room for either person to end it easily. This is mainly to save us both time and avoid hurt feelings if we don't have a spark, or if a major red flag comes up. After that, I think actual dates should be at a nice restaurant or venue, or some type of outing or destination we both appreciate. If we have been talking for some time and will be meeting for the first time, we might skip the simple meeting if we both feel that we can.
Category: Cafe
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Lunch, dinner or picnic maybe bowling, movie or walk afterward depending on how we are getting along.
Category: Dinner
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Anything goes Nothing taboo. Let’s just both laugh and smile and see what happens you never know what might pop up
Category: Spontaneous Daytime Activities
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A walk at a local park or downtown Greenville, grab a drink, and just talk. It keeps things light, natural, and gives us both room to be ourselves.”
Category: Spontaneous Daytime Activities
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I’m a chef so truthfully, a dinner I prepared. My love language is cooking and having a partner enjoying a meal I cooked makes me feel good.
Category: Dinner
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No candles for me thank you.
Informal, no pressure, no dressing up to impress. Just do your best to be you and I’ll do the same. That’s not always easy I know but nervousness is an essential part of being real so bring it along to.
If there’s chemistry then great, if not let’s do our best to enjoy the evening and wish each other well.
Category: Spontaneous Daytime Activities
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Somewhere we can actually talk. A coffee that turns into a walk, a beautiful garden, an interesting exhibition, wandering around somewhere neither of us knows particularly well, or finding a tiny restaurant and ordering things we’ve never tried. Chemistry matters more than the venue.
Category: Walking or Hiking
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Until the weather changes a motorcycle ride and fine some out of the way place to eat stop at any place that looks interesting or a car show or what ever
Category: Sightseeing
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Meet at a restaurant, or I can pick you up at your home. Out for drinks and dinner. Nice wine, best steaks. Laughs and meaningful conversations.
Category: Dinner
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Start easy, be kind, see if we attract with an honesty not to play games. Life is too short to mess around.
Category: Drinks
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Simple and easy does it. walk through the park or along a beach. If its colder out something inside maybe a movie.
Category: Walking or Hiking
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I think the best way to get to know someone is over great food and excellent music. My perfect first date would start with an upscale dinner locally at Cal's Wood Fired Grill and Bar for some wood-fired steak or fresh seafood and easy conversation. Afterward, we'd head up to Northampton to catch a live show at the historic Iron Horse music hall—maybe grabbing a shared table to enjoy some incredible blues, rock, or R&B. It’s the perfect blend of a relaxed dinner and a vibrant, memorable night out.
Category: Dinner
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I’d love to meet at a museum or gallery cafe for brunch. If things go well, we could extend our date and do a walking tour of the venue.
Category: Cafe
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