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Thxxxxxx

Mukilteo, WA, USA

How about joining me on the bridge of my boat for something refreshing to drink, and then a nice laid-back conversation at an Italian or French restaurant...maybe Thai?
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Baxxxxxx

Kinsman, OH, USA

Somewhere that we would both like to be and to do something mutually interesting.
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grxxxxxx

Honolulu, HI, USA

I would difinately love to go eat out dinner at romantic place where not to crowded and go watch movie as well ;)
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Hexxxxxx

Pomona, CA, USA

A MEETING IN A PUBLIC PLACE. WE COME IN SEPARATE CARS SO THAT THE LADY HAS THE OPTION TO LEAVE IF AND WHEN SHE DESIRES. I WOULD PRESENT HER WITH A TOKEN OF MY APPRECIATION FOR AGREEING TO MEET WITH ME. EITHER WE WILL HAVE DINNER OR ATTEND A PERFORMANCE, PARTICIPATE IN AN ACTIVITY, OR TAKE EACH OTHER'S MEASURE THROUGH CONVERSATION. WE WOULD CONCLUDE OUR EVENING WITH A CORDIAL GOOD BYE AND AGREE TO MEET AGAIN, OR AGREE NOT TO MEET AGAIN.
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bixxxxxx

Savage, MN, USA

Somewhere nice and romantic so we can talk and get to know each other. An outdoor patio, great glass of wine. Or something totally out of the ordinary, like a shooting range, for target shooting, Maybe a Twins game.
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Blxxxxxx

Wheaton, IL, USA

A mutally agreeable location and activity where we can get to know each other.
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caxxxxxx

Norfolk, VA, USA

i'd like to meet you first at something like a steak buffet restaurant, we have golden corrals here that are reasonable and nice to give us time to enjoy our meal and to talk to each other, then, maybe go to a comedy club or a nice comedy move or action movie, or take a short train ride round trip of course and have dinner on the dining car...wow i like that one, but would probably cost alot...we also have spirit of norfolk here, a very fancy oversized yacht which cruises the elizabeth river in the evenings for 4 hours, they have a band, an outside deck and bar, and serve a 5 course meal as the first part of the journey. talk about romance, wow... just basic twists on dinner and a movie which allow conversation too , even though i may be kind of shy and need drawing out, however, i can be very blunt and outgoing once you've got me to open up...so anyhow bless all of you who are reading this, whether you are for me or not, i hope you find companionahip. i know what it is to be without it as well.
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laxxxxxx

Niles, MI, USA

I would like a water park. maybe. whatever we decide
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maxxxxxx

Chicago, IL, USA

A nice picnic by the river, where there is a cascade of water floating down while we enjoy each others company. Or Surprise me with your best homemade candlelight dinner, then we take a walk by the beach.
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suxxxxxx

Fort Worth, TX, USA

A cup of coffee,Lunch in the park.Or a dinner under the stars
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sixxxxxx

Spanaway, WA, USA

the perfect date would be to do whatever the woman wants to do. its never bad to ask what they want to do. I'm open for anything.
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stxxxxxx

Richmond, BC, CAN

They tell me that for some women, going to a place that is noisy, fun and exciting hits the spot. I'll go for that - but I believe that a chance to have some discussions would also be nice. A little red wine is great, also a nice dinner. I really try to stay away from fast food places.
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scxxxxxx

Salt Lake City, UT, USA

I would like for you to bring a swim suit , Relax and kick back watching TV and eating dinner and talking a while so we can get to know each other better. Afterwards if you would like to use that swimsuit we can get in the enclosed hot tub .
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Grxxxxxx

LAN, GBR

Walk along the beach just as the sun is setting, or a trip in the mountains
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Alxxxxxx

El Paso, TX, USA

my 1st date idea is going to the park....laying in the grass....having a picnic
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guxxxxxx

Tampa, FL, USA

It can be anywhere, I would like to maybe sit down some place public like the beach, coffee shop, dinner, park etc. Maybe have some lunch some place were we can chat and get to know each other. Then if everything goes well we can plan some else.
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thxxxxxx

Miami, FL, USA

it would be in a place u feel relax, like beach and the sound of wave,or a restorant close to the beach, with a romantic dinner for both, eating and sharing food eachother, tell me if u like my idea,,
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shxxxxxx

Everett, WA, USA

A nice romantic dinner at Elliotts on the waterfront or late lunch so we can go for a walk down the beach and window shop the curious stores.
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hoxxxxxx

Plympton, MA, USA

A 24 hr coma with a back massage in between, and a happy ending. Wait a minute. Thats not a fist date, I think thats my dream after an extra long week. In all honesty. A think a good first date is going out, having fun, eating, drinking, and dancing the night away. As long as you don't mind getting your toes stepped on a little.
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JExxxxxx

San Antonio, TX, USA

I think I would enjoy going on a double date either with a couple-friends of yours or mine and play together and compete against them either in a game of billiards pool or foosball. This way we can be a team from the beginning. So, do you think we could beat them? Of course we would! Where's your faith? LOL!
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