FIRST DATE IDEAS FROM MEMBERS

My ideal date would be a dinner cruise followed by something fun where we can get to know each other better .

If you play tennis I would love to meet you at tennis court Or in my favourite city Roma But I also like surprises so I might you to plan everything

I like to fuck on the first date. I will lie and manipulate you to believe that you are something special I will tell you how lucky I am to have met you....it will all be a.lie but it sounds good!

Pick a theme from an era in history and dress up accordingly. Pick a few places to go to that are fun and low key to really stand out. Cap off the evening with a fine dining experience.

Discreet location meet up round dfw area talk about wants or needs and kinks prior and get to know eachother without our clothes on...

I'm down for anything really, but only if we're both comfy for it. I'd like us both to have fun. Even if it's just playing video games or watching a movie!

It'd be the date to start a relationship that hopefully flourishes and makes us last together for years

This would be totally dependant on the person who i would be considering going on a date with ......

First date should feel electric, flirting, laughs, chemistry.....and i sparks fly, I want it ending between the sheets, not at the door.

A night time picnic under the stars while talking and getting to know eachother followed by maybe something else ;)

I'm down for just about anything! Beach trip? I'm very shy; so maybe something where we don't have to sit there and stare at each other the whole time.

Date one - Something fun. Down to earth. High speed go carts and a rage room. Followed by dinner at Texas roadhouse or olive garden. Maybe a few beers. Then probably go downtown to the river walk or something... get ice cream and a latte Date two - If first date was a success, on our second date I will wine and dine the fuck outta you!!! Well go to one of my favorite spots. Of course, the best part will be walking into the dining room (15 minutes late for our reservation)...me the handsome older guy with my super sexy special little thing on my arm... cocktails and a nightcap. Classy, classic date night. Good food, good drinks and good conversation Date 3 - I'll send you some money so you can go get something new to wear (whatever you'd like, literally any attire ...)and maybe get your nails done or fresh highlights? while you're out I'll be preparing dinner for us. This is a special date, not because I bought you things, but because I'm sharing one of my favorite hobbies with you! I love to cook... and I'm petty good at it. Keep your schedule clear the day following our third date. Assuming we hit it off to this point, I'll be hoping for extra innings... maybe we'll talk all night and really get to know one another. And maybe after talking all night...

Let's have some adult fun. Take care of each others needs. Open minded. Have free time. Let's get together.

Good first date, watching the sunset, best time in summer. A few drinks by the fire. Staying in cooking dinner. Im easy going so whatever you do it's the thought that counts.

My perfect night? It starts with soft music, dim lights, and a glass of good wine. I’m a young, confident man in my prime — strong, passionate, and craving a deep connection. We laugh, we talk, we touch… slowly. Every glance carries heat, every word — tension. It’s not just about the body. It’s about the energy, the fire, the way our souls flirt before our hands do. A night where desire meets tenderness, and time doesn’t exist.

Im here to please, so tell me what lights your fire? Is it romantic, passionate, fun? Theres only one way to find out.

This is a bit of a loaded question. Just because I have an idea of a potential first date doesn’t mean the other person would enjoy it too. So, I’m not going to give a direct answer—let’s talk first and plan something we’d both genuinely enjoy.

Bonfire and blankets under the stars, maybe some music playing low and a warm drink in hand. Or a photo walk through a scenic trail, capturing the golden hour while we get to know each other. I like dates that feel natural—where we can talk, laugh, and see if there’s a real connection without any forced scripts.

First date? Keep it simple: a beach walk, a drink, maybe a movie. If the vibe’s right, a kiss to see if the spark’s real. Whether it leads to friends with benefits or just a real connection — I’m open. You set the time and place, I’ll show up. Hopefully, you’re nearby. Let’s find out what’s real. Cheers to us.

acting like it's our last 24 hours on this earth and doing everything we want to for the next 24 hours.