FIRST DATE IDEAS FROM MEMBERS

You,me...12 Light Pink Roses,with only the light of 12 Lilac candles.Topped of with a bottle of PROSECCO...........

Dinner and drinks in a nice restaurant on the beach. Take a long walk on the beach and get to know each other better, and see where it goes from there

I enjoy a huge range of activities from the city to the wilderness, the indoors to the outdoors, the exciting to the sedate, the sublime to the silly, the intellectual to the athletic, the formal to the casual, and I think variety is the spice of life. With that in mind, our dates might be something like … First date: Begin by enjoying conversation and each other’s company while getting revved up on caffeine at a nice coffee house, and then going sightseeing around the city/area. After that, relaxing with a nice glass of wine or a cocktail at a classy bar before enjoying a gourmet dinner at a fine restaurant. We feed each other dessert, and then go for a slow, hand-in-hand walk down the beach. The evening concludes with me kissing the back of your hand while saying goodnight… Second date: We go on a hot air balloon ride, and then have a light lunch before going on hike in the mountains. I carry you on my back and in my arms when you want to rest… Third date: Cocktails and appetizers at a trendy bar before heading by town car to a show at the theatre or symphony, followed by a late dinner at a hip bistro… Fourth date: We attend a university lecture/symposium on art history, anthropology, physics and cosmology, classical literature, math, philosophy, or any other mutually interesting subject, and then go get giant ice cream cones to help cool off our smoking brains. We then further stretch our intellectual and creative faculties by visiting an art museum where some of the exhibits move and inspire us with their beauty while others baffle us with their esoteric bizarreness. Our brains melted, we go home and eat pizza while watching a sophomoric movie starring Adam Sandler, Jason Segel, or some other clown. Fifth date: Backyard barbeque Sixth date: A weekend trip to the mountains for skiing/sledding/snowshoeing or to the beach in Florida for swimming, sunbathing, jet skiing, and more… Seventh date: You'll just have to find out for yourself...

A public place - a walk and then a coffee- could be decided after, it doesn't really matter- not too fussy.

Whatever she wants:..

Almost anything where we can talk and get to know one another. I don't need anything wildly adventurous or expensive to impress me. Often I do like to start with a drink before moving further but it doesn't need to take up the whole date. Go with what feels right.

Lets keep it simple and both have escape plans in case we get terminally bored or think the other is a psycho. Just kidding!!! Well, sort of... ;-) Lets just come up with something fun to do together where we can get to know each other better.

Maybe more something casual, laid-back like a coffee at a shop, and a walk together site-seeing or window shopping, or spontaneous on the moment.

I'm thinkin that depends on what we like,...no sense forcing someone to go somewhere that isn't worthy,...that reflects on the time we have together

Doesn't matter where we are, just so we have a place to get to know each other.

a walk, a museum, some sport, just a smile ...

This is my favorite time of year, Christmas. Something that I loved as a child, and still do today, is the Macy's (formerly Daytons) Auditorium. It is a fantasy land filled with animated puppets and tells a wonderful Christmas story. Do you remember the “Yes, Virginia, there is a Santa Claus” letter (My favorite Christmas story) that was published in the New York Sun in 1897? Macy’s is reviving that memory for this year’s Auditorium / Santaland celebration. Would you like to come and experience the magic with me?

Anything she would want to do unless she wanted me to decide and then I would do something romantic.

Whatever you are comfortable with.

Probably a drink or a evenig meal, with plenty of talking and probably some dancing. But it's not the date that's important, it's the person you share it with.

Just a nice meet and greet at someplace like O'Charlies, Applebees or someplace like that.

This is good one what would I do on my first date, how about going bungee jumping or parachuting. Or really be realistic and we meet at a wine bar and if you are like me be spontaneous do something off the cuff.

An ideal first date would be somewhere we could get to know each others personalities. Could be a few drinks, could be dinner or even white water rafting for the day. Doesnt matter really where, it is the person you meet that is important.

some place simple yet fun but yet not too loud either so you and I can communicate

Movies dinner walk on the beach gameroom anything really