FIRST DATE IDEAS FROM MEMBERS

no commitment luch at a nice casual restaurant to begin to see if appropriate chemistry

We Will go to a good restaurant For Dinner,and a walk in the park.we will go for coffee and then go sight seeing,where ever she desires,it will be her favorite spot.

To be in class right before a long weekend stressed and tired come back to my dorm where i a have a bouquet of flowers waiting for me with poetic yet passionate card that states I've missed you and cant help thinking about you all the time and attached is a airplane ticket to montego bay, jamaica! So i pack a bag and get there when I receive an email stating my hotel room information, then I check in go up to my room with a lovely hot tub, champagne, and caress pomegranate body wash waiting for me...After I sip and soak, wrapped in light blue terry cloth robe I come to my bed with a beautiful dress and heels waiting for me and dinner reservations....oh yeah this is my ideal date not the first date

Assuming funds permitted,My ideal first date would be to impress,A whirl wind, month long trip around the U.S. by train(Always wanted to do that)Winding up on a beach some where.

sitting on the porch watching a monsoon

nothing really comes to mind when it comes to first dates.but if i had to think of something. it would have to be horse back riding , or the dinner after a walk .

MY FIRST OFFICIAL DATE: Was with a French Canadian high school exchange student that went to the same high school as me. We went to Vancouvers notorious nude beach ,Wreck Beach, and climbed the sand cliffs on a warm July night. After some kissing and fourplay she leaned over and asked "Would you like to fuck me?". I was16 & she was 15; did she have to ask? It was obvious she had done it befor but I was a virgin...until that night. So we did, again and again and again over the next 6 months until she went back to Montreal.

cant really answer this one on my own think its something we both would agree on have to laugh tho when i read lets do lunch or meet for coffee(NOT)(come on please)at least pub or wine bar

hello all,, I'm very easy going, enjoy most things, so I'm sure between the two of us, we can figure out something we are going to both enjoy,,!!!,,<3

is a good dinner on olvera street or morton's steakhouse,then proceed to the beach for a cozy stroll and have a good conversation,by then some chemistry should come into play to decide if we want to proceed to the next level.after that one day at a time!

my house or hers anyone suits me so messgae me .....................................

movies,dinner, long walks, or just hanging out.

Something where we can relax, be ourselves, and get to know each other.

Meet in a quiet place for wine, coffee, or.....

First date huh? Well, I haven't had to think about one of those for around 20 years (widowed in 2009, over it but a bit unsure what to do next..times have changed) I would imagine it would depend on what you like to do when YOU are out on a date. I was military for over 30 years..highly adaptable in stressful situations, or not so stressful. However, I am NOT a fan of OPERA..so please..that can be a GNO thing (Girl's Night Out). If I'm near one of my boats, putting out to watch the sunset or pulling into a marina with a live band or something might work. I don't drink and don't smoke (used to do both, body paying me back for it in spades now..especially for combat damage). I'm not a virulent anti smoker but prefer those who don't, simply because I've had too many friends and loved ones die from lung cancer (one at 40 in 2009 and the reason I'm widowed) so I'd prefer, if we hit it off, not to have that happen again. I never dreamed I'd be in this position at 48 (49 July 4th) at this age. It's ridiculous. However, it has given me a HUGE appreciation of what the rest of the family did on my behalf while we were together. Never realized it (most guys don't, being busy with earning money and saving the world..we don't notice the stuff that's done quietly) So, picking something to do would be something I did back in my youth that I can still do well (short list, unfortunately). I can dress up or down as needed, but I only have one suit,, as I used my dress uniform for that up until 2007, nor a tux (mess dress for that) but I still think I clean up pretty well, and my daughters oddly agree with that statement.. I still race but despise nascar/circle track..going left for hundreds of miles isn't very interesting to me. (done it, didn't enjoy it) Road racing is what I do, or autocross. Now if there was an autocross happening, THAT I'd take you to..and I'd be sure to let YOU drive (as fast as you can against the clock..no cops to arrest you!)

First date should be a drink, coffee something casual. If we click then we can decide to continue for something more fun.

well what ever the lady wanted candle light dinner, macdonalds i dont really care :L

The ideal first date is to get to know each other. You can't do that at a movie. So maybe put-put then a movie then dinner.

This is the hokiest part of the profile. We can all say we love holding hands while taking quiet, midnight walks on the beach, candlelit dinners, and all sorts of cheesy stuff like that. I can truly say I have never heard one person tell me that they actually went for a midnight walk on the beach with their date. Honestly, I do not care what we do for a first date as long as it is not illegal or involves running. Many years ago while serving in the military I injured my knees, so running is not recommended by the medicos. :-( Although I will have ideas based upon my match's likes and dislikes and the season of the year, it is better is we decide together what to do. It is my desire to have a woman who has a brain and contributes. Remember earlier when I said I desire to share in decision making with my sweetheart? Whatever we go and do it should be in a venue where we will be able to talk with each other. Going to a movie does not quite allow for that. We might be thrown out of the cinema for talking! :-P

First dates vary depending on who it is that I am going out with. It could be out for dinner and drinks or to an amusement park or to a shooting range. Just gotta be spontaneous!