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crxxxxxx

Easton, PA, USA

Light conversation to learn about interests and to see if there is a connection.
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jaxxxxxx

Valley, AL, USA

JUST MEET FOR COFFEE OR LUNCH AND GO FROM THERE
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pexxxxxx

Falls Church, VA, USA

Well, it would start with dinner. Any place where we could sit down and talk--a place that's not too loud and has quality food. Maybe sushi or thai--along those lines. Preferably not a chain restaurant, but some are still fitting at times. And then we'd do something fun, like miniature golf, shoot pool, or go catch a movie (if it's one that we could both agree on. I'm not a huge fan of romantic comedies or even comedies in general). If you'd be comfortable with it, we could also go to a gym and partner workout or racquetball. Then we would finish up the night by going to a bar and continuing to get to know each other. Gauge the time frame and if we're content with just that, call it a night (and however you want to interpret that in the moment.)
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brxxxxxx

WIL, GBR

old enough and wise enough to take life as it unfolds
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lixxxxxx

Orlando, FL, USA

Just friendship
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grxxxxxx

Louisville, KY, USA

An informal get together for a coke or drink and general conversation.
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tfxxxxxx

Marietta, GA, USA

something simple that allows for conversation
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luxxxxxx

Las Cruces, NM, USA

An easy, relaxing first date. First dates can already be nerve racking so a date where there is no pressure and just a desire on both parties to get to know each other and laugh. Laughing is always good.
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coxxxxxx

Upper Darby, PA, USA

The perfect first date would be meeting a nice man who takes me to an event. It could be a lecture by someone we have discussed. It could be a movie, concert of sporting event (like a Phillies game!) Or it could be a play. Whatever it is, the opportunity to talk and get to know each other along with checking out how he handles himself and me. After the event, we would go out to a nice dinner. According to what he likes and I like we may go to my favorite vegetarian resturant or he may take me someplace I never heard of or have eaten. Either way we would review the evening's event or what we liked or disliked as we continue to talk and get to know each other over a delicious dinner. After dinner we would part ways and savor the evening and think about the next time we will meet.
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loxxxxxx

Shenzhen, GD, CHN

on a dinner
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Raxxxxxx

Cape Coral, FL, USA

Nothing special. Enjoyable day or weekend.
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gexxxxxx

Atlanta, GA, USA

I do not know whatever we feel is the right thing to do at the moment
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okxxxxxx

Johannesburg, GT, ZAF

quiet night dinner, where we will be free to talk about anything and just have fun.
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krxxxxxx

New Westminster, BC, CAN

Just good conversation, that's wonderful.
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soxxxxxx

TX, USA

True to oneself...that's all one can ask for
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wixxxxxx

Forest Hills, NY, USA

getting to know one another and see if we click
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maxxxxxx

Lake Placid, FL, USA

meet and greet until we are comfy. Somewhere ez to talk to one another.
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Taxxxxxx

Southampton, NY, USA

Good conversation, connection and fun
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Grxxxxxx

Yucaipa, CA, USA

For a first meeting, just having a cup of coffee or some other beverage in some convenient public place for an hour or so, is adequate to see if there is any mutual "chemistry". If there isn't , it will be pleasant and interesting anyway. If there is a "connection", we can plan something fun together for a "real" first date.
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Hexxxxxx

Farmington, MI, USA

We will chosse together
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