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waxxxxxx

Horsham, PA, USA

First date should be anything that is agreeable to both parties,but something like a simple lunch,so that we can chat and get to know more about each other.
Category: Lunch
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Lyxxxxxx

LND, GBR

will be going for a long walk and a nice chat along the way to get to know each other.
Category: Sightseeing
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saxxxxxx

Melfort, SK, CAN

I would enjoy an evening of watching a movie and just cuddling on the couch with my lady and a glass of wine. where we could just talk about ourselves, and leave no stone unturned, so their will be no surprises.this would be at our own leisure. where we could ask any question we wished, of each other.
Category: Walking or Hiking
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vaxxxxxx

NTH, GBR

I don,t mind. How about a walk along the beach? Not many of them around here!
Category: Drinks
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fuxxxxxx

ESP

Hop over on the ferry to Melilla & take drive out into the Sahara to an Arab village I know where the food's excellent. Maybe spend the evening at a nightclub in Marrakesh, Morocco or Oran, Algeria, isn't far. They speak French there, la langue d'amour.
Category: Spontaneous Nighttime Activities
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Paxxxxxx

Placentia, CA, USA

Coffee, juice or appetizer in a quiet place by the beach.
Category: Cafe
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Tixxxxxx

LND, GBR

My ideal first date idea would be to meet up at a restaurant for a drink and a good meal, while we break the ice and get to know each other. I am assuming that the fact that we have decided on the first date means we have exchanged enough correspondence & photos and already feel attracted to each other. Later a real kiss, and perhaps holding hands, would be a confirmation that we like each other and would like to carry on -- with whatever comes naturally later. I am an optimist and I like a sincere demonstration of warm and happy emotions -- but I am also realistic enough to recognise negative signs if things are not working out (especially if she is 'cold' and keeps her distance!). If all goes well on the date I would invite her home after dinner, perhaps for a few more drinks or a coffee, if it's convenient to her -- otherwise I would make her understand that she is welcome to my home anytime!
Category: Dinner
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Nuxxxxxx

Oakland, CA, USA

A CUP OF COFFEE OR CHOCOLATE AND GREAT CONVERSATION THEN, A TRIP TO THE FLEA MARKET...
Category: The Movies
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bixxxxxx

San Diego, CA, USA

dinner, cocktails, and dancing a must!
Category: Dancing
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suxxxxxx

Panguitch, UT, USA

A walk in a park to talk and get to know each other better.
Category: Others
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uhxxxxxx

Riverdale, GA, USA

Somewhere quiet where we can talk and get to know a little more about each other.
Category: Dinner
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toxxxxxx

FIF, GBR

Would love a nice cup of coffeee & a chat
Category: Cafe
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Hwxxxxxx

Marina del Rey, CA, USA

If it is during the summer, I am a sucker for rollerblading from Venice Beach to the end of the bike path going North, parallel to PCH (ending at Temescal Canyon in Pacific Palisades). By the way there are plenty of restrooms and snack bars for quick snacks and beverages along the way. If it is during the fall or winter, I love the vibe at and around LACMA (the Los Angeles County Museum of Art). There are the visual arts, usually music and dining - a lot to do. Spring is perfect for an outdoor snack, good conversation and people watching at any of the restaurant's in the Sunset Plaza area of West Hollywood, along the Sunset Strip.
Category: Museums and Galleries
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93xxxxxx

Pacific Grove, CA, USA

Some place quite for lunch to find out what my date is like and visa versa then a walk on the beach.
Category: Walking or Hiking
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Daxxxxxx

Baltimore, MD, USA

A nice night out, dinner, a movie and dancing.
Category: Live Music / Concerts
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Muxxxxxx

ESS, GBR

Happy to meet up for a meal at a mutually accessible venue, followed by a short walk along whatever river happens to be local. Any time of the day.
Category: Dinner
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SWxxxxxx

Port Jervis, NY, USA

A nice dinner in a small, romantic restaurant would be a nice setting for a first date, to talk and get to know each other.
Category: Dinner
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Abxxxxxx

Kelowna, BC, CAN

I am sure we can decide on something fun and memorable !
Category: Drinks
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Bixxxxxx
Candlelight dinner and then a walk on the beach...:)
Category: Performing Arts
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Flxxxxxx

Saint Paul, MN, USA

A first meeting would not necessarily be a first date. I think a first date should be at a place where we can sit and talk. It might just be for a cocktail, or lunch, but where there is minimal distraction.
Category: Lunch
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