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Exxxxxxx

Peoria, IL, USA

Whatever makes you the most comfortable! I would suggest a candlelit dinner and a movie. I also love to dance, but that is not a deal breaker in case you don't. I am also a private pilot. Flying to a location for that dinner would be something different I'd love to do for you. I would do everything possible to make sure our first date was memorable. You would be treated with the utmost respect...you would be engaged in great conversation too. Laughing would definitely happen throughout our first date.
Category: Dates That Make a Difference
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Bixxxxxx

Indianapolis, IN, USA

The first time together....lunch is good because lunch doesn't have to last long. On the other hand, if it goes well, lunch can last for hours! Being honest is the only mandatory part!
Category: Lunch
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haxxxxxx

Aurora, CO, USA

Meet for a drink and a bite to eat. Then go to a club for some dancing and aother drink. Then,well we will just have to see what happens after that.
Category: Live Music / Concerts
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maxxxxxx

Goodyear, AZ, USA

A dinner or lunch somewhere we can talk and get to know each other.
Category: Dinner
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maxxxxxx

Norwich, NY, USA

our first meeting will be a cup of coffee, a glass of wine and conversation to see how we relate to eachother
Category: Drinks
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mrxxxxxx

Montgomery, AL, USA

we can enjoy each other in many ways...there is a big world out there i will love to exployer...and there are some little small thing that we can enjoy that have been overlook...the possiblity is endless what we can do...just take one day at a time and enjoy each moment..;ever we chose to do
Category: Spontaneous Nighttime Activities
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wrxxxxxx

Columbus, OH, USA

I always love lunch on a Saturday. It is safe; there are no expectations. If it is good, you can let it run its course. If it is bad, either of you can bail and it is not uncomfortable. This time of year, lunch outside is the best. Lazy cocktail to start with conversation. Start to eat when you want. More conversation and then, if all is going well, a meandering walk while the conversation continues and the rapport gets built. Simple, safe, easy and fun
Category: Lunch
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1Axxxxxx
One of the suggestions provided by "Agematch" for a 1st date is, "dinner and a walk on the beach." All those that come from the coast or the "shore" who say they "really miss the beach." I tell them, "We have thousands of miles of beach in Arizona! Oh . . . you probably want the ocean too. Just wait. Given the right circumstances, we'll have the ocean here too." A first date, I would think, is a talking date. Learning about each other and see if there is 'something' there. In that vein, I would provide my 'date' two choices for a quiet, popular restuarant for a lunch or an early dinnner with a defined ending time. That way, she (or I) would know when the suffering would be over. On the plus side, we might have enough information to put together a 'better' 2nd date.
Category: Cafe
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dhxxxxxx

Sulphur Springs, TX, USA

Meet for coffee or tea and see if there is chemistry in conversation.
Category: Lunch
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Grxxxxxx

Hialeah, FL, USA

Anywhere or anything that would make her comfortable
Category: Lunch
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Wixxxxxx

WIL, GBR

Your the man you give me some options and I will chose.Seriously,I think a meal to get to know each other.
Category: Lunch
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pexxxxxx

Phoenix, AZ, USA

Ask me later....it will be a date that is mutually agreed upon. One that we will both be excited about making happen.
Category: Spontaneous Nighttime Activities
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Igxxxxxx

Friendswood, TX, USA

Strolling the beach, scuba diving or hitting a casino
Category: Cafe
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Jaxxxxxx

Knoxville, TN, USA

Like to go to a nice local outdoors cafe, I think that would be nice
Category: Cafe
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C1xxxxxx

Rochester, NY, USA

Coffee and conversation to learn a little about each other.
Category: Cafe
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vixxxxxx

Memphis, TN, USA

this is the change of once in a life time,memphis is being floor now go down to the river and have a picic and wrathing the deer run by trying to find some place they lived now
Category: Sightseeing
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kaxxxxxx

Cartersville, GA, USA

Would be over a meal where we could talk and get to know each other.
Category: Dinner
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foxxxxxx

Alton, IL, USA

it really depends on the weather. if it is summer, there are all kinds of things to do. picinc, zoo, go to Pere Marquet, look at the scenery, bar-b-que, walk the mall & people watch. go to garage sales, see the botanical gardens.
Category: Museums and Galleries
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drxxxxxx

Waukegan, IL, USA

meet for coffee or a drink, and after come over for hours of fun
Category: Spontaneous Daytime Activities
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toxxxxxx

Palm Desert, CA, USA

Somewhere we can talk without having to worry about food falling out of our mouths.
Category: Live Music / Concerts
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