FIRST DATE IDEAS FROM MEMBERS

Lets have some coffe and see if there is chemistry.

Starbucks and conversation..and we will see where it goes from there

SWEET THINGS AND ALOT OF FUN TO CATCH U WITH.

Going out and getting to meet and know one another over a cuppa or a meal

Oh gee. I don't know. I'm not a heavy dater, to be honest. I've been just flying solo by choice for some time now, working on studies and writing a book! Erm, Tea or coffee and possibly a light snack/appetizer? Or even better still, coffee/tea + DESSERT! I adore desserts. No meal is ever required to have one. (^ _ ^) Afterward, if we still wanted to hang out longer and the weather was mild, a walk around the city, perhaps. I love walking just after dark when everything's lighting up and there are the sights and sounds of people coming out for the evening, music and conversation pouring out of places. Maybe wander into a shop or two if we fancy that. I would say definitely not a heavy meal on a first date. And, although I love movies and performances, not that on a first date, either. Nothing that we'd have to sit through and appreciate quietly. I think conversation and being able to laugh together is the most important thing on a first date, to see if interest is there. Also, I do not frequent bars, and am not really a drinker. If that's a big part of a guy's usual social scene, we probably won't click. The occasional glass of wine with dinner or at home, or meeting friends in a nice restaurant lounge on occasion is something I could go for. But not anything nightly, weekly, or anything. And not involving drinking to any excess. Easily, 95% of the days in a year are alcohol-free for me!

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A nice little coffee shop with some cozy conversation.

Local cafe or any other place that's easy and fun for talking and enjoying each other's company.

The where and what isn't nearly as important as the who.

sure we can have coffee if you like, or how about dinner out? any of it works for me.

Coffee or dinner to get to know each other. If we connect we can make future plans.

Tea and cake - cheeky glass of prosecco maybe; on the South Bank.

This would be up for discussion possibly dinner nice quiet place where we can talk and get to know each other maybe a walk or coffee it would really be whatever we agreed upon

meet go for coffee and a chat get to know each other then see how it goes maybe go on to have lunch if all goes well make a day of it and arrange to meet again if we agree

coffe and chat to explore each others mind to find out if we are compatible

I love coffee. so we would meet for a great pastry and coffee. Just sit and talk for hours about what ever comes to mind.

Let's start with coffee/tea and getting to know one another. May we can take a walk afterwards and learn more about each other and the possibility of a second date.

The first date is to get the "feel" of a person, and how we would be together. So that means lots of talking. For me that would be a quiet area in a nice coffee or tea shop. We would see how things go from there.

It would be nice to pick you up in a limo, drive to the airport and board a private lea jet to Paris for lunch ½ way up the Eiffel Tower with a bottle of Bollinger, then off to the penthouse suite in the Paris Hilton. Alternatively we could have a coffee and a bag of chips on Ramsgate promenade…….

Something low key where we can get to know each other..