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smxxxxxx

Wappingers Falls, NY, USA

meet for a coffee or a cocktail. and go from there
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spxxxxxx

Grand Haven, MI, USA

My idea of the perfect date, would be dinner and drinks at my favorite outside beach bar/dining spot, with great conversation, and getting to know eachother. Then a nice walk on the beach after dark, or at sunset, and maybe a nice swim if it's hot.
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Caxxxxxx

Arvada, CO, USA

A short visit to chat , over a glass of wine, coffee or a beer & lunch so that we have something to do with our hands! The best way to start is to say hello in person [casual] and then we can make a proper date! [ Skydiving-Bull-riding & of course Bowling! hee! hee! fun!fun!
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Roxxxxxx

DUR, GBR

is one which leads to a second date
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smxxxxxx

Naples, FL, USA

I will stand outside restaurant.You drive through parking lot and decide if I am attractive enough for you to stop and come in.If not keep going.Its ok.I have been accepted by enough beautiful in my life that my ego is intact.I will not call you back. If we each pass the eye test we can sit at the bar for a drink.We can then decide whether to continue on to dinner.If we do I will pay for it.I was born and raised in the South to act as a gentleman.The man pays for everything thru the relationship unless she insists.I open doors and pull chairs again until further notice.I have no expectations beyond dinner.The woman decides what is best for her.
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MIxxxxxx

Waterford Works, NJ, USA

Nice place to do Lunch, (love outdoor Patio's)
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Boxxxxxx

Umatilla, FL, USA

I hope no one will take offense, but I like to call the first meeting an"interview"...anyway I would request that it would be a public place down by the lady,to make it convenient for her.I would recommend a coffee shop,restaurant,nice pub,a Metallica concert(just kidding about the concert),something like that & see how things go & we'll take it from there.In regards to ,who pays the check? I might be a little old fashioned but I would,unless she insists on splitting it,but generally I would say
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nexxxxxx

Danville, IL, USA

Well it could be what makes you feel comfortable too,we could talk about it. I am comfortable with a coffee date, walk at the mall,or having a lunch date or whatever sounds good to you too!
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TVxxxxxx

Bloomfield, NJ, USA

I do not have a written "perfect" first date. It could be a candlelit dinner or coffee at Dunkin' Donuts. Its the person I'm with that will make it "perfect" for me and I hope I would make it "perfect" for them.
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1mxxxxxx

Albany, OR, USA

The perfect first date would depend upon time, place and the individual.
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Stxxxxxx

Collegeville, PA, USA

A first date would be dinner so you can learn more about the person. A quiet place that would allow you to have a conversation without yelling. First meet would be for coffee or a drink to see if you want to have the first date.
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Brxxxxxx

Stockton, CA, USA

First date...coffee and conversation...maybe dinner??
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trxxxxxx

Tyngsboro, MA, USA

Hmm, tough one. Depends on the person I'm dating, but I do like quiet dinners in a restaurant with class.
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Dexxxxxx

Scottsdale, AZ, USA

There's no perfect first date. Whatever we both want to do would be the best way to start getting to know each other.
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soxxxxxx

Seattle, WA, USA

Just bring your enthusiasm! I will take care of the rest and it will be good!
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rixxxxxx

Cody, WY, USA

An afternoon of horse back riding and then an evening of dining
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joxxxxxx

Buena Park, CA, USA

Someplace casual for a glass of wine or a cup of coffee/tea...someplace where conversation can be heard and a relaxed atmosphere allows for a chemistry check...
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brxxxxxx

Spring Valley, WI, USA

dinner cooktails great conversation and see what happens
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bixxxxxx
Go to a nice dinner and dancing
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Anxxxxxx

Ballston Spa, NY, USA

I prefer a first MEETING at a place like Starbucks, Borders etc............ after that we can decide if we mutually agree that we would like to meet again and where we would like to go, too. OR if things are going GREAT.... and we both have the time........ go do something fun then. Hint: I LOVE surprises.
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