FIRST DATE IDEAS FROM MEMBERS
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By the time we meet we will already be anticipating a great chemistry with only the excitement that accompanies a first real time encounter left to overcome. No one reallu gets to control chemistry, it's either there or not. If its there we'll begin a romance...if not we will part friends.
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Quick and public a getting to know each other period to deer if the chemistry is there.
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I think something simple for the first meeting is perfect. A cold drink or coffee
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We could do something as simple as go for coffee and chat or go out to dinner and walk and talk afterward.
If we like each other, on our second date we could use the already paid for river raft trip down the Deschutes River that we could use.
If you like the water, we could go kayaking in the Portland area on a sunny day.
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Maybe a meet in a cafe, a cup of tea or coffee and maybe go for a walk if the weather is nice!
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I have a secret obsession with Second Cup, maybe we can meet there?
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A coffee shop, a restaurant, the zoo, a park...anywhere you will be comfortable talking.
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Is to have a causal date meeting in a coffie hutt for general conversation to see if there is an intrest there on either of our part. I think as with any relationship it should be in a relaxed atmosphere. A sort of checking each other out to see if there is any chemistry
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I think it would be nice to go to coffee and maybe walk and talk.
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Meet for a drink or coffee and see if we click, can do something more interesting after that
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out for dinner, or a coffee just so we can feel comfortable, then a movie at the theater or at the house depending on our feelings
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Drinks/coffee in a quiet setting/ go for a walk/drive. If compatability is there, go for lunch.dinner. If compatability continues, set up second date for dinner and a night out.
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I'm still a bit old-fashioned so my ideal first date would be to meet at a cafe for coffee or tea with lots of conversation to get to know one better. That would then be followed by either lunch or dinner depending upon the time of day. We could then take a stroll along the street or a nearby river to walk and talk more while walking hand-in-hand. Stopping every so often to hug and kiss while enjoying each others company.
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Every person is different, and as I get to know you, we will figure out what to do together
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Coffee and conversation at a nice spot. If there is chemistry we can go from there.
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Go for a walk, go for a coffee or dinner or cinema
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A quiet cafe or bistro where we can be comfortable and talk. It will be our first meeting in person, and we will be nervous no matter how much chatting we have done. But as we relax our conversation will be smoother and more confident as we realize we like each other already. Shaky small talk will gradually give way to the deeper curiousities we have about one another. Because we met online, we will know a good bit about each other already, and we will build on that. Even if we feel no romantic spark between us, we will each have made a friend with the other, which is always time well spent.
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Something very casual. Although it's cliche, a coffee date is most comfortable for me.
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I think a first date is really more of a meeting to just hang and see if there's any chemistry. Should be someplace public, where we can chat, maybe walk around, get coffee, drinks, or a bite. I don't think a movie or anything where we're essentially not communicating is very good. Perhaps an art walk, a (good) divey bar, coffee (yeah, I know - not original, but there's a reason). A hike in Griffith is always good.
Or, we could get abducted by aliens, do a little time traveling, save a galaxy or two, and THEN have coffee.
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Sitting close together at the bar at P.F. Changs restaurant with a cotton tablecloth and silverware where we received constant attention from the bartender and can eat a delicious gourmet meal together with a glass of wine.
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