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pixxxxxx

Prescott, AZ, USA

To meet for coffee or tea....chat and get to know each other and discuss what we are both looking for. Alos a chance to really see who is behind the emails leading up to the meeting. A meeting which is light, humorous, someplace where the lady feels comfortable.
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abxxxxxx

Chesapeake, VA, USA

Just a nice meet and greet. Nothing too serious, maybe a drink. That way if we both dont feel "it", no loss. We can give each other a hug and say thank you!
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jexxxxxx

Guadalajara, JAL, MEX

Cafe y conversacion en gdl ... San Juan de Dios ... cuando tu quiere.
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Chxxxxxx

Ames, IA, USA

It wouldn't be called a "first date" but a meeting to get acquainted. Meet late morning or early afternoon at a coffee shop or cafe such as Panera Bread and talk till we run out of words. If we both are interested in getting together after that we could discuss it. No need to rush.
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saxxxxxx
I'm thinking something casual in daylight. Coffee shop? Festival on Boston Common? Something where it's an easy escape if we're horrified by each other ;) Note: if you can't deal with a sarcastic sense of humor...we won't mesh
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JRxxxxxx

Redwood City, CA, USA

Coffee and conversation, I would really like to listen to you.
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Jaxxxxxx

Far Rockaway, NY, USA

Talking getting to no haveing fun enjoying each others company
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jaxxxxxx

Hamilton, ON, CAN

i would like to just sit and talk and see how things go
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raxxxxxx

Austin, TX, USA

Our first meeting should be loosely structured - nothing elaborate. Perhaps a date for coffee and conversation on a weekend morning, or a light dinner and drinks after work. Play it by ear, see if the vibes indicate the possibility of further involvement. If not, then no one feels cheated or guilty because expectations were kept in check from the beginning.
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luxxxxxx

Long Beach, CA, USA

Go out to a nice restaurant for dinner and take it from there. The excitment is in the surprise.
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faxxxxxx

Fredericksburg, VA, USA

Meeting in any public place for a drink (non-alcohol for me)
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Haxxxxxx

NA, GBR

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frxxxxxx

Darien, IL, USA

I've learned that the first date should be over coffee ( i like juice) to get to know each other and plan this meeting so that if it turns out that the two of us enjoy each others company that we can continue the date with dinner and movie.
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swxxxxxx

SA, AUS

forget all that talk about long walks on the beach in a moonlit haze ...I mean relistically how many beaches are there in South Australia lol so lets be logical...a date isnt about an expensive resteraunt or a private jet with a magic goat and a barrel of wine....its about connecting and getting along ...a nice cafe or quiet pub or club is perfect...as long as you can hear each other talking...ROMANCE is connecting.
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Yoxxxxxx

Winnipeg, MB, CAN

Can we enjoy a coffee and desert at a nice coffee shop?
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maxxxxxx

Troy, MO, USA

My first date idea for a on line would be just to meet for a coffee to see if we click. If we do we can extend and if we don't we walk away.
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spxxxxxx

Terre Haute, IN, USA

Perfect first date would be: Coffee or drinks in public place.
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ucxxxxxx

Columbus, OH, USA

I would like to meet downtown for food/drinks and conversation...so that we might learn about each other.
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bixxxxxx

Northampton, MA, USA

Conversation over coffee or tea
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Alxxxxxx

Beaverton, OR, USA

Just going out to have coffe and get to know each other
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