FIRST DATE IDEAS FROM MEMBERS

My idea first date would be dinner, laughter, excitement with conversation. Finding that spark that says it all. Just to share a touch knowing this is the right one...

Our first date would be low key. Maybe meeting in a public place like a restaurant and dining out, so we introduce ourselves.

MoonStone Beach at Cambria, cub of coffee ? Whatever I'm harmless.

Coffee and tea at the diner.

Any setting that is easy to talk in and has a nice feel or energy.

FUN

A quiet dinner out somewhere. I don't like movies on a first date, That's no way to get to know somebody.

get to know a person some

A meeting for lunch or breakfast to get to know one another.

Fun and conversation

my frist date would be something simple like a brunch or nice picnic in the park so we can relax and fill each other out

Pleasssse don't tell me Monrovia to Long Beach or even Visalia is too far! I have had a few very successful long distance relationships. However if we really hit it off, then I’m sure you, like me, would want to spend as much time together as possible. It's LA for cripes sake! We all live all over the place. I'm the guy; I'll drive to meet YOU for the first date. It's not a deal breaker. Coffee or Cold Stone Ice Cream is preferred for a first date. NO STERILE STARBUCKS PLEASE! That way you anticipate the date will be short so if we don't "click" then it's easy to leave and say goodbye politely. If we do "click" then coffee or ice cream can last several hours. Oh Heck, it could even go to dinner, a walk downtown or on the beach or who knows what, because we might be hungry by that time. If you know of a nice mom and pop coffee shop with comfy overstuffed chairs and couches then let's do that! Second date might be dinner and/or a movie. Third date could be a long drive up the coast where we can both really talk a lot and get to know each other on an even deeper level. You name it, I'm up for it. There is not much I don't like to do or have interest in other than skydiving or bungee jumping! However at some point I really do want to get my pilots license and go barnstorming and sky writing. If we fall in love I'll write your name in the sky and tell you I love you. If you would like to see my dream aircraft, as soon as the web page opens you will see a beautiful purple and turquoise Wacko biplane! Maybe this part should have gone in the above part of my profile. Take a chance! Write me a letter. Short or long. I read everything, and the good parts more than once! I don't bite, honest! Lastly, I don’t do married or separated women, or women that are in a committed relationship. There is always a chance you will go back with your mate, I’ll be devastated or I’ll get shot when he finds out about us. Thanks, but no thanks. Best of luck to...

Laughter and getting to know each other.

Let's just talk... somehow... somewhere! Dancing? Sure! Why not?

Maybe meet for drinks, have a nice meal, and if the connection is there go for a nice walk and talk.

It has been so long since I have been in the dating game, that I really don't know what to expect, so I am really open to suggestions and aid.

a certain spark, a feeling , chemistry. a kiss good bye

First date? A bicycle ride on a beautiful day, an ice cream cone @ Sebastian Joe's, swimming and barbecue, then maybe an evening diversion thought out and created by both of us. I think for a first date as well as most things that involve two people both should be involved in the planning. Of course unless it is a suprise...

Well - kind of depends on the weather! Wouldn't mind X-Country skiing in the winter through a park or open field with hot chocolate. Or a canoe down the Erie Canal in the summer...with everything else in between!

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