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roxxxxxx

Eugene, OR, USA

I think the first time we meet go some quiet place to just talk...a nice dinner later but not the very first meeting.
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dexxxxxx

Niles, MI, USA

A nice mutual place, maybe have a cup of coffee. Talk and get to know more about each other. If it doesn't work out no problem each one understandds.
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xSxxxxxx

Green Bay, WI, USA

what ever you would like to do
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Mixxxxxx

Santa Maria, CA, USA

I like the idea of meeting for a hot chocolate or coffee, and just talking. Or perhaps meeting for a picnic at the beach.
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maxxxxxx

Milton, FL, USA

meating some were plubic at first get to know each other
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unxxxxxx

Calgary, AB, CAN

lunch, get together for coffee or some drinks. casual.
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1Axxxxxx
One of the suggestions provided by "Agematch" for a 1st date is, "dinner and a walk on the beach." All those that come from the coast or the "shore" who say they "really miss the beach." I tell them, "We have thousands of miles of beach in Arizona! Oh . . . you probably want the ocean too. Just wait. Given the right circumstances, we'll have the ocean here too." A first date, I would think, is a talking date. Learning about each other and see if there is 'something' there. In that vein, I would provide my 'date' two choices for a quiet, popular restuarant for a lunch or an early dinnner with a defined ending time. That way, she (or I) would know when the suffering would be over. On the plus side, we might have enough information to put together a 'better' 2nd date.
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EWxxxxxx

King George, VA, USA

Lets say... meet at a mall and walk around and see what interrest us, what kind of fun we can get into. Then get a bite to eat so we can continue learning about one another. There is also the alternative of meeting at my work, then you could run if you want. (Just kidding.) ;P I'm really up for just about anything, so lets see what happens.
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Igxxxxxx

Friendswood, TX, USA

Strolling the beach, scuba diving or hitting a casino
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Jaxxxxxx

Knoxville, TN, USA

Like to go to a nice local outdoors cafe, I think that would be nice
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C1xxxxxx

Rochester, NY, USA

Coffee and conversation to learn a little about each other.
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b2xxxxxx

HI, USA

Take my lady to my special beach in Hawaii, lay out a blanket. Watch the sunset as we drink a little adult beverage and little something to snack on. And end it with a kiss as the sun sets.
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bexxxxxx

Flushing, NY, USA

How about a green tea in cozy Europe cafe
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Laxxxxxx

Henrico, VA, USA

Meeting for a mid day light brunch in an outdoor and public place so that we can get better aquainted with each other.
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Saxxxxxx

Ann Arbor, MI, USA

Meet at any of a bazillion coffee or tea shops in Ann Arbor (MI) to give each other at least three reasons why we should go out a SECOND time.
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joxxxxxx

Asheville, NC, USA

Have a craft beer and go see a concert,
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jaxxxxxx

Laguna Beach, CA, USA

Picnic on the beach, maybe coffee in a outdoor French cafe...or throw tick tacs off freeway bridge (kidding of course) We could play chess (i don't know how so you'll definately win) Ride bikes, bowl, take a boat to catalina island. Meet for drinks, shop for socks, or run in the sprinklers.
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pgxxxxxx

Greene, NY, USA

Good conversation over a cup of coffee.
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Sixxxxxx

Carmel, IN, USA

I think a book store is a good place to go...have a coffee, check out a few magazines, books or new music and sit down to get to know each other a bit at a casual cafe.....if things go well, then something like a movie or dinner would work....
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jaxxxxxx

Reseda, CA, USA

First dates could include visiting museums,lunch,dinner or coffee.
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