FIRST DATE IDEAS FROM MEMBERS

it would be in a nice rest. in the afternoon with so people around but too many so it is to noisey so we could talk,so that we would feel safe and comfortable..

Just a vfew cocktails while getting to know one another a little. First impressions are a BIG thing to me. If you aren`t interested, then lets not waist each others time. Believe me I`ll understand..

Dinner and jazz

Anything that allows us to talk and get to know one another and detect if there's some chemistry: a quiet lunch, a walk in a park, milkshakes/sodas/coffee at a diner.

meet for coffee or a drink ....

Somewhere casual and not too noisy so we can chat and get to know one another.

well maybe a coffee!!or lunch,and a walk,or movie...then another coffee to see if we are interested in eachother!!!if so we make another date to meet....

An allnight chat on the phone

Don't know about perfect but 1st dates are usually awkward so I think I'd like to have a big cookout where there so much activity everyone would be at ease. Later on slip off somewhere quieter with a cold drink and just chat and get to know each other better.

We would meet in a public place, a Pizza Hut or someplace like that. You would be wearing casual jeans and sneakers, as would I. We would sit, and enjoy a meal together. We would talk and get to know each other. all bounds are off, you can ask me ANYTHING!! From my head to what I have in my pants!! Of course, I'll be asking you the same things!! hehe We will talk about clothes a lot! Shopping, malls, movies, we'll see where the conversation goes. You can't plan something like that. I really want to talk about clothes, wearing clothes, and especially shoes! I'm way into shoes and sneakers! We will, at some point in the evening, be comparing our sneakers and if size permits, swapping sneakers and socks with each other!! I LOVE that!! We will then go enjoy a movie together, maybe wearing each others sneakers!! I love comedy, chick flicks, fantasy, and science fiction. No blood and gore, I hate that. If you went to the movies with me, then we must be getting along swell. At that point, I guess it'll be up to you. What I want is for us to go to one of our places, and play "doctor" with each other! I've got a whole thing that I dream of playing out. It's very slow and drawn out, but I like to build excitement that way. I don't want to rush. We would each take turns being the "doctor". I'll explain that more if you're interested. Please ask me...I want to talk about it! If things go that well, on the first date yet, it'll be morning by now. We can go get some breakfast together and maybe even spend the day together. (on a weekend, of course) This is my dream first date. I know it's not likely to happen. I'm too different for most girls to even answer my profile, never mind going on a date like this with me. but i can dream~~~~~~~

being honest, not a cheap skate, mature, a good listener

Let's go to a movie, see a band, watch a play...

somewhere quiet where we could talk

Dinner at a first class restaurant where we can talk and drink a glass of wine, if you wish. Followed by a walk on a breezy Florida night through a romantic city or beach town. Lets put our feet in the sand and get them wet and who knows--go for a swim? I'm prepared with towels and a blanket. Dessert somewhere special and back to for romantic night cap somewhere, or just watch the moon and talk about our aspirations. A light jazz band or other good music can always work. Or maybe we go to my condo on cocoa beach to spend the day between the beach, the pier, the Sand Bar or the pier bar, our pool, some big screen TV, go to Flirt to pick out something sexy, Throw a ball on the beach, or a frisbee, definitely do some body surfing or water play. Eat on the Pier or at Coconuts and the Heidelberg for some great jazz and easy comfort amidst laid back natives. And definitely don't have an agenda, just go with it. Maybe you pick an hour of activities and I pick the next? I just want to talk to you and look into your eyes and share with you who I am at my best, as well as my weak moments. No worries, no lies. We know we are not perfect, but we are perfectly normal. Why hold back?

Casual conversation

Coffee on a weekend or meet for a early Sunday movie

Hopefully at an outdoor location, outdoor concert or restaurant near some water... Talk, laugh and see if there is any connection.

Initially a friendly meet and greet over coffee, a drink or a meal. We can decide, once we've taken the measure of each other, whether there is enough chemistry to continue.

My first date would come after conversation. I would choose to have dinner in a relatively quiet restaurant where we might be able to hear each other speak, some place with a romantic atmosphere.

Good Communication.