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Joxxxxxx

New York, NY, USA

A quite bistro, coffee or drinks, nothing too stuffy, just a short visit to see if there is immediate chemistry.
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Kixxxxxx

Bernalillo, NM, USA

Meeting over coffee and getting past the first date jitters!
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goxxxxxx

Dallas, TX, USA

I will meat you in person at starbucks and we can talk as much as you want. We can ask each other a lot of question and answer each other honestly. I hope, i can make you comfortable.
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Naxxxxxx

Carson City, NV, USA

Can start slow with a cup of coffee, or lunch. Then see where things go from there!
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fixxxxxx

New York, NY, USA

coffee, tea, drink, anywhere in tea house, coffee house, outdoors. Flexibility will do. I am easy
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msxxxxxx

Brooklyn, NY, USA

Someone public. It could be lunch, dinner or even just coffee - would leave it up to you.
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Mixxxxxx

Sanford, NC, USA

First dates are pretty special in that they set the tone for the type of couple you will be. I generally like to go somewhere ther the women feels most comfortable, like maybe a coffee house or a sandwich shop. That way, you can relax a little, not have too prep too much, and concentrate on the conversation instead of a fashion statement or be self concious able your food choice.
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Boxxxxxx

KEN, GBR

Over a drink/lunch where we can talk and get to know each other, no time commttment. Both willing to travel and meet at half way point.
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DNxxxxxx

Westport, CT, USA

Meet for coffee or a glass of wine and learn more about each other.
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olxxxxxx

NA, GBR

Just a coffee and a bite somewhere not too noisy and see how we go from there.
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suxxxxxx

Piscataway, NJ, USA

a place that is peaceful so we can get aquianted
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thxxxxxx
I read on here that a woman said happy hour is best for a first date, and I can agree with that. Very casual and loose. Going to a cafe isn't a bad idea either.... formal dates are for after you are sure you want to spend more time with someone.
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ARxxxxxx

Austin, TX, USA

I would enjoy meeting in a small coffee shop where it's quiet so we can talk and get to know each other.
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Loxxxxxx

Saskatoon, SK, CAN

an intimate coffee shop,then a stroll by the river to get to know one another better..
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Maxxxxxx

Whitehouse, TX, USA

Coffee/or dinner. Someplace quiet so I can hear, or on one of those decks where you eat outside. (weather permitting) Even a long park walk, (no dark alleys please).
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thxxxxxx

North Fort Myers, FL, USA

Meet at Starbucks for coffee and conversation and go from there.
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joxxxxxx

Waynesville, OH, USA

walk in the park, a coffee, a movie, dinner, fireworks, carriage ride, picnic, hey, i'm easy going
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kexxxxxx

Alamosa, CO, USA

I am looking for my God's chosen mate, who was built just for me, A woman who knows how to love a man with dreams, Goals, and aspirations. A woman who is not afraid to fall to be prosperous. A woman who understands the importance of feeling valued, loved and appreciated. Who isn't afraid to love like she's never loved before and never give up!!!A woman who internalize positive beliefs, keep her world solid, and raise others to a positive expectation in life. A true woman not only by her words but her actions. a woman who can define herself. a woman with a purpose, a plan, and direction. a woman who will embrace challenges, adversities, and disappointments with faith and grace.
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stxxxxxx

San Jose, CA, USA

Starbucks, venti mocha, decaf,extra hot, no whip cream is my favorite. My favorite restaurant in San Jose is Falfels Drive In. I has been there since 1966.
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Paxxxxxx

Klamath Falls, OR, USA

How about we keep it simple and meet for a cup of coffee or lunch, perhaps a glass of wine. If we hit it off we can decide together what to do next.
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